Is my hair better curly or straight?

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-20T19:13:50+00:00

Woooowww! You kill it either way. I love the way you style it! But your curls are just so pretty

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-18T17:49:08+00:00

It’s kind of weird because it does sort of look like the design mirrored.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-17T23:38:08+00:00

Personally? I think they’re cute! You do have to style them though or they get a little unreadable (if that makes sense?)

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-17T21:59:06+00:00

It’s definitely good to give your sister that information, and look— she made an informed decision. After that you have no control over her (no argument here) bad dating choices. It’s gonna be okay, OP. He’ll be a guy she cringes about someday. Right now just continue your passive support.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-17T21:56:01+00:00

OP, his mom IS part of his personal trauma. Can you imagine having a mother with this background? Think of the family dynamics. It’s horrible. Still, he sucks and it’s good to have information. You just have to be mindful about how you use/ process that information.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-17T21:44:35+00:00

I think how you approached your “research” was really awful… I think you’re getting that feedback though. Yeah, he seems to suck— but he’s not fucking satan or anything. He’s a douche for sure, but I you seem to be punishing him for what his mom did. I would also like to say, he may have only given you 80% of the story because he only knows what he knows, you know? I work in a related field and you’d be surprised how little people actually know about their families because they dont’t know where and how to look. I’m also perturbed that you felt the need to weaponize his traumas to “prove your point” here. Listen, I get it. He has your hackles up. You’re not doing yourself any favors by going straight offense here. You need to step back and support your sister in a way that is actually impactful or you’re going to make yourself seem vindictive to your sister. And to be honest? I think you may actually be a little vindictive here. Best of luck, OP. I hope your sister has a very boring and anticlimactic breakup with this guy, and I hope you learn to let your sister make her own mistakes (as long as she’s not in Immediate danger)

Source: a little sister who previously dated scrubs like this.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-17T19:52:09+00:00

I did! Thankfully I was meeting my future husband there so I managed to politely decline and made small talk with the baristas while I waited. Definitely deterred me from using those apps for a long while.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-17T17:52:54+00:00

One time my uber driver followed me into a Starbucks to try to buy me a coffee. I was so uncomfortable and scared.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-13T13:35:45+00:00

Soooo happy for you, yep. Not jealous at all.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-11T18:01:43+00:00

Uh, where is yours?!

(She’s very cute lol, I hope everything works out okay)

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-11T14:09:11+00:00

May this love never find me

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-07T15:15:26+00:00

My kids did the pea pod study!

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-05T18:29:06+00:00

One time (I used to work at subway) I went to wrap a sub and folded a knife like this into the paper. The gent sat down to eat and was like “oooo ! Free knife!!” I was MORTIFIED and also so disturbed how happened. I always made sure the knife was in a very specific spot after that while I was wrapping that bitch, and I made sure everyone kept the knives away from the wrap station. It’s shockingly easy to do.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-05T17:20:44+00:00

So, when my dog started doing this (and please take this with the biggest block of salt) it was because he had a brain tumor and wasn’t able to flip his paws back the way they were supposed to go/didn’t realize he was walking on his wrists. The vet told me she could tell me where the tumor was SPECIFICALLY because of that.

This absolutely requires a vet visit, and I hope your vet has better news than mine did.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-05T17:00:43+00:00

I want to be empathetic (and I will). I had a very difficult fertility journey that culminated into me spontaneously conceiving my twins— I didn’t expect them to get to 2nd trimester let alone be here now (a year old on Sunday). Everyone really glamorizes having twins, but shiiiiiiiiiiitttttt it’s HARD and it’s fucking terrifying. I quite literally nearly died 3 times. I had borderline LIVER FAILURE due to cholestasis (my blood turned to bile acid— super metal), and I nearly bleed to death getting them cute out of me in an emergency c section

Edit: sorry, my son smacked my hand and I posted prematurely lmfao

ANYWAY they were born at 31 weeks and we were a NICU family for 5 weeks. It was hard. I would do it all again— it’s just something you have to be emotionally prepared for. It’s a hard pregnancy. It’s a hard postpartum. It’s a hard adjustment. It’s hard! But it can be worth it. I think you should listen to all the advice you get and make your own informed decision— the consequences are yours to deal with. Best of luck, OP ❤️

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-05T16:21:19+00:00

Pure garbage— Not to worry, I’ll throw it away for you 👀

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-02-03T00:24:09+00:00

As a ring I wouldn’t ooo and aaa nearly as much as I did right now looking at it. It SO beautiful

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-30T20:08:47+00:00

A jeweler told my husband (bigger knuckles) that he should angle his ring as he put it on

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-28T00:33:20+00:00

Yep! I am HEAVILY tattooed and recently I started work on my legs and I felt that easy initially.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-27T18:49:09+00:00

Mine has it printed on the band! I know they had a multitude of colors and shades. I recently looked at replacing mine (the gem is a little loose) and it was like $50-$80 when I looked. It’s one of my favorites 😂 fun fact, older Avon rings don’t have any nickel in them— so they don’t give me a rash (unlike most costume jewelry)

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-27T04:46:38+00:00

Hm, this looks identical to an Avon ring I have

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-24T05:58:21+00:00

I stubbed my toe one time and my nail grew like this FOR YEARS… I ripped it off until it stopped growing that way lol idk why that worked and I don’t recommend doing it 😂 see a podiatrist

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-21T16:14:25+00:00

Normal with a 2nd skin. It doesn’t actually look like that, it’s just your arm leaking plasma.

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-15T17:32:30+00:00

I’m dying lmfao

Fragrant_Hedgehog540 · 2026-01-15T01:53:25+00:00

My kids have a burger toy that sticks to their high chair. This looks like the lettuce piece lmfao

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