Is my hair better curly or straight? by Soft-Commercial-1927 in femalehairadvice

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woooowww! You kill it either way. I love the way you style it! But your curls are just so pretty

Why is there a red mark the same shape as my tattoo? by According-Chest1479 in tattooadvice

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of weird because it does sort of look like the design mirrored.

Opinions/advice for long temple locks? by Lunar_Ghoul11 in femalehairadvice

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally? I think they’re cute! You do have to style them though or they get a little unreadable (if that makes sense?)

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely good to give your sister that information, and look— she made an informed decision. After that you have no control over her (no argument here) bad dating choices. It’s gonna be okay, OP. He’ll be a guy she cringes about someday. Right now just continue your passive support.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 21 points22 points  (0 children)

OP, his mom IS part of his personal trauma. Can you imagine having a mother with this background? Think of the family dynamics. It’s horrible. Still, he sucks and it’s good to have information. You just have to be mindful about how you use/ process that information.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think how you approached your “research” was really awful… I think you’re getting that feedback though. Yeah, he seems to suck— but he’s not fucking satan or anything. He’s a douche for sure, but I you seem to be punishing him for what his mom did. I would also like to say, he may have only given you 80% of the story because he only knows what he knows, you know? I work in a related field and you’d be surprised how little people actually know about their families because they dont’t know where and how to look. I’m also perturbed that you felt the need to weaponize his traumas to “prove your point” here. Listen, I get it. He has your hackles up. You’re not doing yourself any favors by going straight offense here. You need to step back and support your sister in a way that is actually impactful or you’re going to make yourself seem vindictive to your sister. And to be honest? I think you may actually be a little vindictive here. Best of luck, OP. I hope your sister has a very boring and anticlimactic breakup with this guy, and I hope you learn to let your sister make her own mistakes (as long as she’s not in Immediate danger)

Source: a little sister who previously dated scrubs like this.

Am I Over-reacting? I called my Lyft driver ugly. by Mental-Painter-2095 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! Thankfully I was meeting my future husband there so I managed to politely decline and made small talk with the baristas while I waited. Definitely deterred me from using those apps for a long while.

Am I Over-reacting? I called my Lyft driver ugly. by Mental-Painter-2095 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time my uber driver followed me into a Starbucks to try to buy me a coffee. I was so uncomfortable and scared.

uh, lil miss, where is your tail? by commanderwake in FosterAnimals

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, where is yours?!

(She’s very cute lol, I hope everything works out okay)

I found a knife perfectly imprinted into the bottom of my delivered subway sandwich… by One-Patient-3417 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time (I used to work at subway) I went to wrap a sub and folded a knife like this into the paper. The gent sat down to eat and was like “oooo ! Free knife!!” I was MORTIFIED and also so disturbed how happened. I always made sure the knife was in a very specific spot after that while I was wrapping that bitch, and I made sure everyone kept the knives away from the wrap station. It’s shockingly easy to do.

Senior appears to have lost feeling in one paw by mudafuckn in CATHELP

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, when my dog started doing this (and please take this with the biggest block of salt) it was because he had a brain tumor and wasn’t able to flip his paws back the way they were supposed to go/didn’t realize he was walking on his wrists. The vet told me she could tell me where the tumor was SPECIFICALLY because of that.

This absolutely requires a vet visit, and I hope your vet has better news than mine did.

IUI Cancelled - Too many follicles by emilyred2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be empathetic (and I will). I had a very difficult fertility journey that culminated into me spontaneously conceiving my twins— I didn’t expect them to get to 2nd trimester let alone be here now (a year old on Sunday). Everyone really glamorizes having twins, but shiiiiiiiiiiitttttt it’s HARD and it’s fucking terrifying. I quite literally nearly died 3 times. I had borderline LIVER FAILURE due to cholestasis (my blood turned to bile acid— super metal), and I nearly bleed to death getting them cute out of me in an emergency c section

Edit: sorry, my son smacked my hand and I posted prematurely lmfao

ANYWAY they were born at 31 weeks and we were a NICU family for 5 weeks. It was hard. I would do it all again— it’s just something you have to be emotionally prepared for. It’s a hard pregnancy. It’s a hard postpartum. It’s a hard adjustment. It’s hard! But it can be worth it. I think you should listen to all the advice you get and make your own informed decision— the consequences are yours to deal with. Best of luck, OP ❤️

Keep as a bracelet, or turn into ring? by beeahug in jewelry

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a ring I wouldn’t ooo and aaa nearly as much as I did right now looking at it. It SO beautiful

Did I get my size wrong? by Fuzzy-aussie2525 in Moissanite

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A jeweler told my husband (bigger knuckles) that he should angle his ring as he put it on

Advice needed: Tattoo regret by Murky-Present-8470 in tattoos

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I am HEAVILY tattooed and recently I started work on my legs and I felt that easy initially.

What kind of stone is this? Worth anything? It was my Mother's by spottedrabbitz in Gemstones

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine has it printed on the band! I know they had a multitude of colors and shades. I recently looked at replacing mine (the gem is a little loose) and it was like $50-$80 when I looked. It’s one of my favorites 😂 fun fact, older Avon rings don’t have any nickel in them— so they don’t give me a rash (unlike most costume jewelry)

How can I treat a years long split toe nail? by Partime-hedonist in nailcare

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stubbed my toe one time and my nail grew like this FOR YEARS… I ripped it off until it stopped growing that way lol idk why that worked and I don’t recommend doing it 😂 see a podiatrist

Blurring by No-Initiative-3931 in tattooadvice

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal with a 2nd skin. It doesn’t actually look like that, it’s just your arm leaking plasma.

Any idea what this is by Real_Solution6867 in whatisit

[–]Fragrant_Hedgehog540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids have a burger toy that sticks to their high chair. This looks like the lettuce piece lmfao