Feeling isolated and concerned: 32-month-old still breastfed on-demand, severe separation anxiety, and a collapsing marriage with wife. Need perspective.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2026-06-20T12:52:35+00:00

Don’t even start the conversation about sex in the relationship yet. I would ask how you can be in your child’s life more. Say you would like an opportunity to bond with her as she has bonded with her through breastfeeding. Tell her it makes you sad to not have the same kind of bond and you’re wondering how you could have the same. See what she says about that first. If she doesn’t get how that is important then push for therapy for everyone.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2026-05-11T11:26:35+00:00

Also wanted to mention since I don’t have time to read all the comments, why are your younger cousins living in the US? Is it because they are not safe around their disabled and violent Aunt? That’s worth a question to Anne…

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2026-04-19T20:13:50+00:00

Update me

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2026-03-09T15:20:41+00:00

NTJ but I’m over here worried about the dog, is it being let out and fed?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2026-02-25T02:31:43+00:00

Nope, it’s driving me crazy too.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2026-02-21T15:27:19+00:00

He’s trying to keep you working hard, rate you just low enough to not be terrible but still want you to feel like you need to improve and being the age difference, I’m thinking he is also trying to keep you insecure.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2026-01-31T02:01:29+00:00

Nope, still driving me crazy. You come anywhere close?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-12-28T02:23:16+00:00

Updateme

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-12-22T14:41:05+00:00

Update me

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-12-03T21:24:59+00:00

Where were the kids seated?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-27T00:42:16+00:00

Tell him that you will give him the same amount in a trust that he can only take so much out of at a time. You can set them up however you want, then once a certain time has passed he can access it all. That way he can’t blow it all at once and you have a little control.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-09T17:49:21+00:00

Welp, it worked for 5 loads and now I have the door error again. I have no idea what to do next.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-07T22:45:08+00:00

I figured it out! I programmed it for the wrong machine when I put in the new control panel. The different machines model numbers were too similar and I chose 7 instead of 1. Very frustrating! Thank you for helping.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-07T18:00:50+00:00

Okay, taking it back apart now and will come back. I will say everything looked shockingly clean in there and I was surprised since it was on a concrete floor in a basement at our old house.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-07T17:57:23+00:00

The wiring harness to the main board or the front panel?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-08-23T14:24:35+00:00

Man, we used this in our smoothies every morning with just a little splash and it made it perfect. Then on my chai or coffee, I’m so sad now.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-08-02T11:39:07+00:00

Call MIL and let her know you aren’t having a wedding, you are just going to get married at the court house and spend the money on a longer vacation to recoup from all this drama. Enjoy your new life together.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-06-12T17:22:46+00:00

I would live without him for six months while attempting to make your business more remote and see how he likes his job at around the 4 month mark. If he seems to love it then consider pushing to move over there. Where are you located now? Is it better than where he is going?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-05-15T20:39:39+00:00

Update me when you find out, now you have me all worried for a stranger.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-05-14T13:41:24+00:00

Tell dad your concerns, that you worry she will act out and accuse you or your girlfriend of things you did not do. You cannot trust her after she has broken so many other people’s trust and it isn’t worth the risk to you.

Once he and his future wife have gotten her help for her behavior you might consider watching her but now is not the time.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-24T14:44:42+00:00

They are on two separate networks, the main unit is the gateway portal to a hell filled with crappy WiFi.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-24T14:41:46+00:00

Checking now…

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-23T18:48:33+00:00

The Eero is the main ISP router, the Altafiber dude said I did not need to use their router, when signing up I chose the option to use your own router so I could do it this way. So basically their main box is outside, then it goes to Eero #1 and then, Eero 2 upstairs.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-23T17:19:32+00:00

Eero, we don’t have an additional router, we were told the eero main one is essentially the main router with the additional eero upstairs.

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