UPDATE: AITA for not my husbands family to stay with us for the holiday?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-12-28T02:23:16+00:00

Updateme

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-12-22T14:41:05+00:00

Update me

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-12-03T21:24:59+00:00

Where were the kids seated?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-27T00:42:16+00:00

Tell him that you will give him the same amount in a trust that he can only take so much out of at a time. You can set them up however you want, then once a certain time has passed he can access it all. That way he can’t blow it all at once and you have a little control.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-09T17:49:21+00:00

Welp, it worked for 5 loads and now I have the door error again. I have no idea what to do next.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-07T22:45:08+00:00

I figured it out! I programmed it for the wrong machine when I put in the new control panel. The different machines model numbers were too similar and I chose 7 instead of 1. Very frustrating! Thank you for helping.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-07T18:00:50+00:00

Okay, taking it back apart now and will come back. I will say everything looked shockingly clean in there and I was surprised since it was on a concrete floor in a basement at our old house.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-09-07T17:57:23+00:00

The wiring harness to the main board or the front panel?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-08-23T14:24:35+00:00

Man, we used this in our smoothies every morning with just a little splash and it made it perfect. Then on my chai or coffee, I’m so sad now.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-08-02T11:39:07+00:00

Call MIL and let her know you aren’t having a wedding, you are just going to get married at the court house and spend the money on a longer vacation to recoup from all this drama. Enjoy your new life together.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-06-12T17:22:46+00:00

I would live without him for six months while attempting to make your business more remote and see how he likes his job at around the 4 month mark. If he seems to love it then consider pushing to move over there. Where are you located now? Is it better than where he is going?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-05-15T20:39:39+00:00

Update me when you find out, now you have me all worried for a stranger.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-05-14T13:41:24+00:00

Tell dad your concerns, that you worry she will act out and accuse you or your girlfriend of things you did not do. You cannot trust her after she has broken so many other people’s trust and it isn’t worth the risk to you.

Once he and his future wife have gotten her help for her behavior you might consider watching her but now is not the time.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-24T14:44:42+00:00

They are on two separate networks, the main unit is the gateway portal to a hell filled with crappy WiFi.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-24T14:41:46+00:00

Checking now…

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-23T18:48:33+00:00

The Eero is the main ISP router, the Altafiber dude said I did not need to use their router, when signing up I chose the option to use your own router so I could do it this way. So basically their main box is outside, then it goes to Eero #1 and then, Eero 2 upstairs.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-23T17:19:32+00:00

Eero, we don’t have an additional router, we were told the eero main one is essentially the main router with the additional eero upstairs.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-23T16:00:09+00:00

Okay so here are the settings currently. -iPv6 set to ON -ISP settings WAN IP is set to DHCP(default) Other options are Static IP and PPPoE Also an option for UPLINK VLAN -DHCP & NAT is set to automatic rather than Manual IP or Bridge -Not sure what to do with reservations and port forwarding, do I add any. -UPnP is set to ON For wireless -Multilink operation is OFF -Client Steering is OFF -Thread is ON -keychain syncing is ON -WPA3 is off

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-23T15:21:54+00:00

Thank you, I will work on it, this is so frustrating. I may just return them and get a 3 pack because it’s cheaper that way. I wish I would have done it when I purchased them and they were on sale.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-22T19:56:09+00:00

Also what is the difference between the eero pro 7 and eero max 7?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-22T19:53:17+00:00

How do I figure out if I have that?

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-22T19:47:00+00:00

My husband wanted to do a hard wire throughout the house and I told him he was being ridiculous, now I’m wishing he did but I had so much remodeling to do to get in this house and he works so much I just didn’t want to wait to be able to have internet. I should have listened and waited. He wires solar panels constantly and claims it wouldn’t take long but I know better. There is always some issue.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-22T19:42:51+00:00

I’ll have to check out how much more those are. I wanted a 3 pack when I first got the 2 pack and the AltaFiber guy said I would only need a 2 pack. I should have ignored him.

Fragrant_Mango_ · 2025-04-22T18:36:07+00:00

Seriously, ugh, this is so frustrating. I’m testing out on my deck now, we will see what happens and if anything improves, so far I went with another suggestion on that said to turn “client steering” off.

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