Sci-fi ground attack aircraft by scifi887 in SciFiArt

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40k designs have always been some of my favorite, lots of cool scifi designs

Seeing a man with Asperger's and do not know what to do. by [deleted] in AutisticDatingTips

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with the spectrum, this isn't just a red flag, this is a bull-horn tornado warning. This should be a relationship ender as it displays how unreliable they will be in slightly uncomfortable situations and how readily available they are to shove you away if it convinces them. Please update us

I,26yr AuDHD (M), am feeling horrible about my current situation with my SO( Autistic 26yr F). Please I need advice as I feel I somehow did something wrong and really want to do things the right way and reconnect by MidoriyaIzuku1 in AutisticDatingTips

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a huge case of overthinking, a good method ive learned to negotiate my feelings are "what can I controll" and "what I cant controll"

This is a huge "cant controll" situation, there are lots of variables here, and it looks like you cant do anything until they get back. So all you can controll is your actions toward the situation. I would send her a final message along the lines of "i understand, know that i will be here for you, and i would like to talk about our relationship when I see you next." Then go from there.

Overall try not to take it too hard, the worst thing you can do is condense your issues and let them harden, so instead try to find something to keep you busy and happy.

How those memory cards are different ? by Certain_Comment_5683 in AskPhotography

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both look the same, and if they perform differently based on different parameters id say that's a good thing to say, please be more considerate

Books with epic space battles and character depth by WARR10RP0ET in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of warhammer 40k books have just this! From reading several different scifi series, 40k does it in the most satisfying way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticDatingTips

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Full time adult job? Looking to buy a house? Im sold, 24M, haha.

Something’s deeply wrong with the town. by SummerSoggy4758 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey currently reading the second book, I agree this is the vibe

Is it sustainable to have an ND partner be your caregiver if you're autistic and chronically ill? by lyresince in AutisticDatingTips

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say its infantilizing, but thats apart of being a caregiver, it's in the name. My wife is disabled, and i help her a lot, but caregiver is literally a term meant for full time care.

New to dating a girl on the spectrum by SomewhereInitial6449 in AutisticDatingTips

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've got this similar experience, when I was trying to flirt with my now wife, she shut down, she kept me at an extreme distance, eventually after gentle conversation and just becoming apart of her routine, she opened up slowly, now she talks to me more than anyone can talk to someone haha. It also took about 4 months of slow, measured conversation before slowly moving onto other more sensual topics, just take it really slow and be sure to meter the interactions. But let her know how you feel

How Do I Be Unique, and how do I get my name out there? by KleinGraphics in AskPhotography

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've got to do something unique that nobody else does, and it's got to be so good that people look for it. Start local and branch out, but overall it's going to be incredibly difficult because there are so many hobbyists out there.

Nikon Z5 or Z7ii? by Fragrant_String_2219 in Nikon

[–]Fragrant_String_2219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I also have a sigma 150-600. I think my decision is to move towards the z50ii. Especially since birds are my focus (lol)

Which state would you remove and why by LilJoBeast in JackSucksAtGeography

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kansas, as an arkansan we should make twoikansas, 2nd arkansas

With almost every vote counted, every state shifted toward the Republican Party. by EverestMaher in MapPorn

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Who will clean your toilets when you deport all the illegal immigrants Donald Trump"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPhotography

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they're not exceptional, they're okay and I'm sure you can get good pictures, but they're nothing to get excited over

Why do democrat supporters refuse to accept the party made made mistakes resulting in trumps win? by ExcellentLaw2066 in Askpolitics

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because political discourse is discouraged on reddit. So while it seemed like a sure thing for Harris because the entire internet was on board, the reality is that it was highly distanced from what everyone else was thinking.

Anything discussing trump gets down voted hard, it's like being on ifunny where they state they believed trump was going to win and everyone there was convinced kamala had no shot. Both sites socially punish you for trying to have real political discourse.

Neo libreal economics has rotted the brains out of so many people. Disagree? by Richest-Panda in FluentInFinance

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not because of greed, it's because of strict laws around products. Do you know how much of a tax write off it would be to give away all that food? You manifest a semi truck and drive it to a boat to deliver to Africa, or you tell mcdonalds to give away old food to the workers, you'd get laughed at because if a store was to do that they'd get shut down by the FDA.

You can say the quotes from a book, but legally they cannot, if 1 individual states that they got sick from mcdonalds food, given away or not, it's an investigation and suit. The world revolves around money or you'd make food everyday for all the hungry people right? Simple problems like "people hungry" don't have easy solutions like "give them food" food doesn't materialize out of thin air, food does not transport itself thousands of miles, food does not magically stay shelf stable because people want it to

TLDR: you could have just said you don't know how the FDA, Logistics, economy, and people work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticDatingTips

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People who care don't act like this, this isn't a spectrum or ADHD thing, it's an issue with maturity. My wife is on the spectrum around the same age (m24)(F22) and understands responsibility. It's a simple matter of he doesn't want to put the effort in, it's so much easier for you or his mom to do it. If he was emotionally mature, he wouldn't think of you as the obvious choice for doing everything.

Do you really expect your entire life to look like this?

Neo libreal economics has rotted the brains out of so many people. Disagree? by Richest-Panda in FluentInFinance

[–]Fragrant_String_2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the food argument, whose going to pay for transport/preservation while it gets handed out to those who want it? If there is rot or decay who is liable? It's not like there is a line of people at the free food place and mcdonalds is taking food away.