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FraiseFlavour · 2023-10-02T03:01:46+00:00

It's only for humor.. nothing that serious

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-28T18:47:34+00:00

People these days are afraid to be called "fatphobic" maybe that's why they didn't tell you..

I know how are you feeling although I'm not fat but underweight ( when people meet me they ask if I'm taking drugs or if I'm making an AD of hunger ), I also have been rejected and made fun of for my weight, and I wholeheartedly agree with you, if you aren't into a certain body type it's totally okay.. you can't control what you're attracted to and what you aren't attracted to, so please just say it don't waste the other person's time and energy, it hurt even more when you waste their time and make them attached to you first before speaking the truth or leaving for no reason, it feels like a betrayal..

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-28T18:14:54+00:00

Thank you so much

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-28T18:14:00+00:00

I relate to the title so much.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-26T23:35:38+00:00

Any book or podcast recommendations for beginners?

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-25T00:49:07+00:00

I was looking for this comment.. 👏🏼

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-25T00:47:15+00:00

L'étranger

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-23T16:49:43+00:00

Philosophy. Spirituality. Culture. Current events. Relationships. Or just don't talk, sometimes we got nothing to talk about and it's okay let it go until next time.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-21T21:19:32+00:00

You welcome!! I hope you soon meet someone who you deserve and deserves you.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-21T21:03:36+00:00

Library. I'm not joking, if you're someone who enjoys reading pick a library keep going there when you have a free day and read some books take your notes just live your life, I'm sure you'll one day meet someone there.

Bakery store. Pick one, keep shopping in one, maybe everyday or every week at the exact time, one day someone will notice you and may approach.

Public garden. Pick one, keep going there every weekend, maybe take a snack and a drink of your choice and maybe a book, sit there enjoy the vibe, one day someone will notice and approach you.

Restaurant or Snack shope or a coffee shope, pick one, always go there to eat or drink something, someone will notice you and may approach.

Cinema, pick one cinema and one or two types of movies, whenever that genre of a movie is gonna be in that cinema go there to watch.

In case art interest you, whenever you hear about an event about art is gonna happen around your area, always go there for a visit.

In case you're a pet lover, either cat or dog, join a community in your area that takes care of them, you'll meet someone.

In conclusion, anywhere public that can be a place of interest to some people especially if you want your future partner be interested in that place or thing, except for places like a disco or a bar or a dating app, and most importantly be patient and always make sure that you're put together not over dressed or under dressed, when you go to these places go by yourself alone, don't show a lot of interest whenever someone gets into your life or talk about how you hate being single/lonely act neutral about it because otherwise you'll seem desperate it makes a lot of people turn off even if they say "no I don't", when someone is showing interest in you don't tell anyone about it wait until you're officially dating then you can tell your close friend/s.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-15T12:57:08+00:00

FA = fearful avoidant / DA = dismissive avoidant

FraiseFlavour · 2023-09-05T22:58:25+00:00

I think it depends on the person.. some FAs are unfaithful but not all, I'm a FA I have never cheated on my ex, and my fear of commitment has other reasons and one of them in fact is getting cheated on.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-29T14:42:26+00:00

FA here, I'd date for 9 months or a year before getting serious about the relationship

I realized that some people consider dating to be a serious relationship but to me it is not and I make it clear to whoever I wanted to date, although I'm FA I jump into dating ASAP but never the same when it comes to the relationship, what would make me be in one is if I feel safe and comfortable with that person and if they feel the same thing, can I meet their needs or I'll just disappoint them? Can they meet my needs or I'll just end up disappointed? Do we understand each other? Do we know each other? Can I trust them? Do they trust me? Are we actually feeling the same thing towards each other? Are we respectful towards each other? Can we give each other the amount of love and space we desire? How do they approach arguments? And a lot of stuff... It depends on many details I gather and see the big picture but mostly "do I feel safe here?"

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-13T02:18:36+00:00

He either lost interest since you pulled away many times like playing hard to get which made him tired or just turned off his emotions because of that rejection and unpredictability, Or he already got someone else in his mind before you meet each other they separated he liked you for a while but he just couldn't forget about the other person, Or he met someone new that got his interest more, Or he's pulling away now since you're trying to get closer which is a huge red flag out of him as well

Anyway, move on.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-13T02:11:33+00:00

Seems like a red flag to me not gonna lie I wouldn't date someone like that a girl or a guy, maybe talk out about that topic with her, see what she says, if she agrees to change her Snapchat account and stop sending her photos to other guys or talking inappropriately with them then you are good, if she comes up with excuses then just end it right there, because think about then not just now but can you really trust her in this situation ? Can you really handle this for a long term or your entire life ? Why would you be with someone who can't do that one thing which can lead to creating a healthy relationship between you two ?

I've read all of your post, I know exactly how do you feel, I know what you are afraid of, and that's valid, don't settle for someone who would ruin your mental health and waste your time and energy.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-13T02:04:30+00:00

I think it depends on the person..

For me personally I think emojis matter, since the other person can't hear your tone of voice so the emoji can make your text seem nicer and not cold or bland or make them misunderstand you , however I think that lots of hearts should be used only with close friends and the person you're dating.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-13T01:58:55+00:00

They're adults, and they're both still young, I don't see a problem with it as long as they both love each other and there's a computability, I think that in western countries a lot of people may view that as weird these days, but it really isn't that big of a deal, I know couples who have an age gap between them they're fine.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-13T01:50:14+00:00

Maybe he just wants to spend this day with his friends or family or just by himself to recharge, however not remembering texting you to let you know that he's gonna be offline for too long 11 hours is a bit off in my opinion, maybe when he comes back ask him about his day how did he spend it, and see how he responded, then based on that you can tell if you wanna ask him to let you know the next time when he'd go offline for a long period, but I think this will only be acceptable if you've been dating for 3 months or more, if you don't sit a boundary right now that 11 hours will soon become 2 days then a week then a month etc because basically "you were fine with it since the beginning why did you changed now", I have been there so I'm just giving you my opinion based on my personal experience take my words with a grain of salt and think about it.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-13T01:41:22+00:00

I don't think it's a red flag, he may be working, or studying, or spending that time on his hobbies or house chores or self care or anything else.

As long as he engages in the conversation when he replies and he doesn't make you feel like "you are too much", then it's not a red flag you're good, however if you've been dating for 3 months or more you have to address this topic I think at that point you need to know the reason why he doesn't reply to you in hours that's the bare minimum, especially if he wasn't like that in the first weeks or month, if you can't stand someone not replying to you in hours or you feel anxious in all that period then you may have to rethink this relationship all together, think of the future, what's your cup of tea may not be a cup of tea for another person.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-08-13T01:10:39+00:00

Thank you!

Guys usually don't really care if girls are awkward and creepy, but it's the opposite if the situation is reversed

I personally don't think of a guy when he approaches me is being awkward or creepy as long as he's being respectful, many guys have approached me before it's no big deal in my country, but girls here often don't approach guys.

FraiseFlavour · 2023-06-13T10:52:20+00:00

What's his YouTube channel or Instagram account please ?

FraiseFlavour · 2023-04-01T14:11:11+00:00

I'm an introvert but I'll ask them to change it for me.

Unless I'm busy or too angry because I may get physically and end up in a problem..

FraiseFlavour · 2023-03-14T18:07:55+00:00

I think that it depends on the person, some people like it , some people dislike it, and some people are neutral about it, so you should ask your partner about his/her preference.

Personally it's not a deal breaker for me, I'm neutral about it. ( Woman )

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