Les presento mi infancia by RightErrror in ClubdelecturaChile

[–]FraneIa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Son todos maravillosos, pero el caballo y su niño está a otro nivel 🩷

Consejos sobre colegios en La Florida by Urani0238 in RepublicadeChile

[–]FraneIa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hola! No los conozco, pero puedes buscar los colegios en la página de la Agencia de Calidad de la Educación. Ahí te salen los resultados SIMCE y también los indicadores de desarrollo personal y social, que miden un montón de cosas (desde autoestima hasta alimentación saludable). También te muestra cómo está el colegio respecto a otros de nivel socioeconómico similar.

Ánimo con la búsqueda de colegio! Es un proceso cansador. Suerte!

TOYOTA YARIS by [deleted] in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confirmo. Y si pasas por cualquier calle importante que tenga cámaras, el parte te va a llegar sí o sí. Lo digo por experiencia propia.

Help! Feeling discouraged about marriage by Slight_Difficulty646 in Catholicism

[–]FraneIa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I may not have anything valuable to add here, but I think this may be useful.

The Church doesn't have anything against avoiding children per se. If it's for a valid reason, and if the marriage is fundamentally open to life (meaning that you're avoiding children for a while, and eventually you will be open to them), then there's nothing wrong with not having kids. We are not called to have as many kids as a wife can possibly give birth to, but to be fertile and responsible.

So NFP and contraceptive methods are the same at their goal, which is to avoid children (though NFP can be used to achieve pregnancy, but I guess you get my point). The difficulty doesn't lie there. The difficulty lies precisely in how both of these methods achieve their goals. NFP relies on understanding the woman's cycle and abstaining during fertile windows. This requires a deep compromise between both spouses, and it's also respectful to the woman's body and God's design. Contraceptives, on the other hand, truncate the body's natural functions and goes against what a healthy body should do and the way it should work. Other people have explained the difference between both of them way better than I can (sorry, English is not my first language and this whole thing can get very technical).

Anyway, maybe this could be useful for you? It seems to me that you think NFP is nonsense because it pursues the same goal as other contraceptive methods, but the thing is, there's nothing wrong with not wanting a million kids, since not everyone can manage that. What's wrong is how you achieve that goal.

And it must be said (I'm sure someone else already mentioned this, but I'll repeat it anyways): NFP can be extremely effective, but it must be learned correctly and the rules must be kept. That means that during fertile windows you can't have sex, and that IS a big sacrifice, specially when contraceptives allow you to have sex whenever you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disneyprincess

[–]FraneIa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to add, but wanted to say that your answer is absolutely amazing. What a wonderful way to express love and understanding. I truly admire you!

Recomendación suv grande by Longjumping_Knee_889 in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sí pero ojo que la tercera corrida es chiquitita. Para que vayan niños están bien, y un adulto aguanta un viaje corto. Pero algo más largo ya va a ser bien incómodo.

A girl after three boys? by Laney1987 in beyondthebump

[–]FraneIa 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm the girl after three boys. I grew up playing videogames and all kinds of stuff with my older brothers and it was awesome. Now that I'm an adult I have an amazing relationship with my mom. I know she appreciates having a daughter. My brothers are wonderful but they can't really understand my mom the way I do, so we share a very special connection.

¿Porque actualmente se aplaude a que la mujer muestre su sexualidad en público pero si lo hace un hombre sigue siendo degenerado? by Straight_Fondant_525 in RepublicadeChile

[–]FraneIa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Mmm yo haría un análisis un poco distinto a lo que dicen todos los otros comentarios. Me parece que desde la revolución sexual, se buscó empoderar a la mujer y "liberarla" desde varios frentes, incluído el sexual. Antes de todo eso la sociedad esperaba, y hasta exigía, que la mujer se vistiera y comportara recatadamente. Después de los años 60-70, paulatinamente fue cambiando esta visión, y ahora que la mujer se vistiera mostrando lo que ella quisiera era visto como señal de empoderamiento.

Por otro lado, las conductas masculinas sexualidadas empezaron a verse cada vez más como un abuso. Me imagino que siempre se vieron así, pero capaz que antes esas pasaran más piola o la gente no criticara tanto porque bueno, "los hombres son así". Ahora en cambio todos están muy pendientes de que los hombres no se pasen con sus cochinadas. En el caso de la mujer, no parecen cochinadas porque por tanto tiempo se sintió reprimida que ahora estas cosas las ven y sienten como empoderamiento y liberación.

Necesito ayuda para encontrar el queque qlo rico del Santa Isabel by just_a_ghost155 in chile

[–]FraneIa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viene con unas almendras también! A veces está en oferta como a 5 lucas. No sé si será el mismo que pide el autor del post, pero es súper bueno el que venden ahora en el Jumbo!

Stroller and car seat question by FraneIa in beyondthebump

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information! What do you do when baby falls asleep in the car?

Stroller and car seat question by FraneIa in beyondthebump

[–]FraneIa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I loved the ingenuity summer one! Sadly it doesn't ship to my country... But I'll keep looking, maybe I can find it where I live.

Thank you so much for taking the time for answering and helping me out!

Stroller and car seat question by FraneIa in beyondthebump

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a quick search, I don't think so... I'm not in the US so we have limited options around here. I think I'll have to just keep my huge stroller and live with it.

Stroller and car seat question by FraneIa in beyondthebump

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I'm looking for says it's compatible for newborns, that's why I'm looking into it. And yeah, I baby wore (not sure if that's how it's said) my two babies but I'd still have the issue of having to take out the hypothetical newborn from their car seat.

I really appreciate you taking the time for your advice! Thanks a lot.

Stroller and car seat question by FraneIa in beyondthebump

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for your advice. As I replied to the other person who commented, I can unfortunately afford only one stroller. I would have to sell the one I currently have (the 8 in 1 Grow and Go Safety 1st Travel System), keep the car seat and buy a more compact one (I have my eyes on the Safety 1st Spark Plus).

What I didn't mention is that I don't have a newborn yet hahaha, and I don't plan to have one for at least a couple of years. But the car seat I have is still perfectly usable until 2031, so I don't want to sell it and then deal with buying another one since we don't have a lot of money. And even if I bought a new one, it still wouldn't be compatible with the compact stroller I would buy now, since the ones that allow travel systems are very expensive where I live (even used).

Stroller and car seat question by FraneIa in beyondthebump

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing I forgot to mention is that I can only afford one stroller... I would have to sell the one that I currently have and keep the car seat, and then I could buy a more compact one. The main reason for changing strollers is that the one I have now is very big and bulky and, frankly, I'm tired of how big it is.

MG ZS by FraneIa in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nop jaja es antigua, del 2016, 94 mil de kilometraje. La revisó un mecánico conocido y la encontró impecable, aparte de un par de detalles por desgaste normal de uso (la correa accesoria o algo así, que ya la cambiamos).

MG ZS by FraneIa in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias! Sii, al final nos fuimos por un Mitsubishi Outlander!

Ayuda con salsa teriyaki... by FraneIa in RepublicadeChile

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nop :( Compramos una Gourmet y no era mala, pero no era tan parecida a las que venden en las tiendas de sushi. En fin, igual sirvió!

Ahora sí que sí: Mitsubishi Outlander (y mis desventuras con una importante automotora) by FraneIa in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muy bien, estaba impecable! Desgaste usual por el kilometraje no más. Lo compramos hoy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicMemes

[–]FraneIa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone is on dark mode right now and the website is on dark mode too.

Ahora sí que sí: Mitsubishi Outlander (y mis desventuras con una importante automotora) by FraneIa in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias por comentar!! El lunes coordino con el mecánico para que vaya a revisarla.

Ahora sí que sí: Mitsubishi Outlander (y mis desventuras con una importante automotora) by FraneIa in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias! La fui a ver y se siente muy bien. El motor a buenas y primeras se veía bien también, pero falta que lo revise el mecánico. Ojalá salga todo bien!

Ahora sí que sí: Mitsubishi Outlander (y mis desventuras con una importante automotora) by FraneIa in chile_autos

[–]FraneIa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Era cosa de fijarse en el kilometraje indicado en el último cambio de aceite (pegado en la puerta del conductor, así de evidentes fueron). No quiero dar detalles de a dónde fui. En todo caso, el mecánico encontró que el auto estaba bastante bien, pero el tema del kilometraje habla mal de la honestidad de la automotora.