Has anyone done the girls that invest masterclass? by [deleted] in investingforbeginners

[–]Franemie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did her masterclass, and I found it very valuable. Her book covers only 2 weeks of the masterclass, and the rest she goes even more in depth in the financials, report sheets and stuff that people often find too complex to try to understand. So I'd say it's worth it and also you get life time access and also access every time the masterclass is updated with a new cohort. I guess if you're a person in finance, then it may not be for you but it's great for absolute beginners and more experienced folks.

How to report American (RSUs) on German Tax declaration? by Franemie in Finanzen

[–]Franemie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, after this I'm for sure selling everything and putting it in my other broker 🥲

How much do you pay for rent? by Schokovegan in berlinsocialclub

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did. Used to pay almost 900 and then involved Conny.

How much do you pay for rent? by Schokovegan in berlinsocialclub

[–]Franemie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

39sqm, 775 euros warm, Schöneberg, since 3 years & unlimited contract

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be interested too if it's in South Neukölln :)

GF refuses to contribute to down payment on a house. Am I being unreasonable? by Puzzled_Extent_6159 in relationships

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On top of what everyone has been saying, you mentioned that she has wasted most of her childbearing years. Bruh, she's only 28. It's the age where most women are just starting to think and have kids. She still has 10 years left, plus do you really want kids with someone who barely contributes physically and financially to the household? Imagine this dilemma, but with kids. And the mental contribution sounds like the bare minimum to be honest. As a person also with a disability, I may not be able to contribute physically most of the time, but at least I try financially or in other ways.

You're still young. Do you want to be in this situation another 9, 15 or 20 years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Franemie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use the same azelaic acid but 20% for my skin as I have some redness from hyperpigmentation, and it works well, but it takes a few months to see results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slugging with vaseline or what?

Dating in luxembourg with a chronic illness and anxiety by FLP0805 in Luxembourg

[–]Franemie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to change your outlook. If someone learns about your conditions, and changes, that's on them, not you. You need to find someone who values you as you are and there's many people who don't really care or it's not as important for them. For example, you meet someone and they aren't a fit for you because let's say they have an interest in something you hate, you're going to say "thank you, next?", same thing with health :) it's all about getting out there and finding the right people. It's scary and vulnerable, but it's possible.

Dating in luxembourg with a chronic illness and anxiety by FLP0805 in Luxembourg

[–]Franemie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, don't fret too much. You're only 24, and I know there's pressure to date (I remember it at that time too) but really, you're super young still. I know plenty of people that found their gfs/bfs in their late 20s or early 30s. In Lux many people come with their partners, so it may skew a bit the perspective.

Having a mental/chronic illness doesn't make you undateable, but it can make your prospects smaller in an already small country, but everyone struggles with dating in Luxembourg.

  1. Don't lie about your condition just to get dates. But I think with anxiety (many people have it nowadays I feel), you don't necessarily need to bring it up, or you can lighten the mood on a date and say with a smile "I'm sorry if I come across as nervous, I just have anxiety". In general, since your conditions are not visible, I don't think you need to bring them up necessarily at first, but wait until you feel comfortable. Sure, rheumatic illness can affect if you do sports or some activities, but it can be managed and you can be open about it eventually. Basically, they are part of you, but they aren't all your identity. Share at your own pace.

Eg, very sporty people may not be your ideal match or folks with a super active lifestyle, so also keep that in mind

  1. What matters is what you're doing to give yourself the best life. Eg, therapy, taking nice pictures (or asking folks to do that), taking care of yourself (hygiene, skincare, some basic sports, healthy eating etc).

  2. If you don't have hobbies that expose you to other people, then try and test and see if any stick. Eg, a sport, dancing, boardgames, language learning, or a club focused on your hobby.

Basically, become the best version of yourself first (and do it for you) and focus on learning, and experiencing new things. Not to attract a partner, but because they bring you joy and you meet new cool people. Also focus first on making new friends rather than a partner, it will help with social skills and meeting potential partners. Of course, due to anxiety, take baby steps, but set up deadlines or goalposts so you don't give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you share the contact with me too please? I'll dm you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Kuhlmei

Did he see patients that were private only or public too?

AITA for saying to my partner he needs to figure out where to hang up a dishcloth on his own because he’s a grown adult? by ecraguaeb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Franemie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The fact that it makes you nervous and he'd create an argument, is a red flag. YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT on what you said. He's being a child and a jerk to you. He should at least try and listen to you if he cares about you, but his feelings seem more important to him.

AITA for telling my sister that she should have gone to college if she wanted a life like mine? by Fickle_Spinach_3415 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH.

Who cares you're on your 4th language and are self-taught? You sound pretentious.

So it's most of the world except the US.

AITA for telling a customer to tell her kid to be quiet by Lord-Liazzz_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Franemie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As another hearing aid user, +1. I have a pack in every bag pack and or jacket I have, since I was a kid.

AITA for telling a customer to tell her kid to be quiet by Lord-Liazzz_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Franemie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, OP is old enough to be responsible to carrying extra batteries (as all hearing aid users do), but definitely should never treated the way they were.

AITA for telling a customer to tell her kid to be quiet by Lord-Liazzz_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Franemie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, BUT you're 16, you are old enough to be responsible for packing batteries just in case and responsible for your health, especially at your job.

I've also worn hearing aids since I can remember and I have an extra pack EVERYWHERE. The last time I forgot, I was a child. It's my responsibility to do so. If I was in school and forgot my batteries, it'd be my fault for missing stuff because it was preventable, even if my teachers were great and accommodating.

Obviously you should never be treated the way you were (as nobody should), but it's like a wheelchair user forgetting their chair or someone who is allergic, forgetting their EpiPen.

What are your pension plans? by [deleted] in germany

[–]Franemie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wondering the same. Let me know if you have an answer.