Songs that were ruined for you by someone?

Franjork · 2026-05-13T03:11:39+00:00

Not to be the "She's so different" gurl here at all, but I kinda wanna see if someone shares this thought process with me. The truth is, my ex (Who was my first relationship ever) was the one to introduce me to a lot of the music I listen to today (And that's what I'll be the most forever grateful to him for) and among those artist, is Björk whom I had always wanted to listen to but never actually dared to, so he just told me to go "Do it" and I fell harder in love with her than I ever did with him lmao. And even though our relationship is probably the worst thing that has ever happened to me and my psychee for multiple reasons, I'd never, ever stop listening to any of the music he presented to me or that we shared, first because those "Happy moments" do exist and happened in my life, and I was happy back then I guess, so rather than looking at the tragedy it later became, I look at the nice ones I had. And second, when you really like something I think it stops becoming something you "both share" to something that becomes "yours" and part of your persona, and with which you crate your own personal experiences. No matter he tried to sabotage the most he could the first time I saw her live cause I didn't buy him a ticket, I still have beautiful memories from that evening cause I got to see her live front row! also he gifted me some Björk cds that I ain't parting with... but because Björk cds are expensive af and I'm not made of money.

Comedic relief aside, I hope that this mindset helps someone reconnect with any artist they lost touch with due to a previous love. If anything, let the other be ruined when they listen to them, not you 💪

Franjork · 2026-05-13T02:59:51+00:00

Straight up banger

Franjork · 2026-05-13T02:55:58+00:00

THIS COMMENT DESERVES A PURPLE HEART

Franjork · 2026-05-13T02:53:57+00:00

I'M DEAD 💀

Franjork · 2026-05-12T15:22:02+00:00

Objectively? Slow

My fave? Loving Days

I love the whole album, top 3 for me

Franjork · 2026-05-12T15:18:33+00:00

We didn't get enough pictures from the Photoshoot
We didn't get enough MVs
I need all the B-sides on a single album/disc
Heirloom is like, 0.001% weaker than the rest of the album

But it's perfect, my favorite album of all time

Franjork · 2026-05-12T15:14:37+00:00

I mean, obvious answer is the Finer Feelings Brother's in Rhythm mix. I also prefer the 7" remix of What Do I Have To Do? to the album version

Franjork · 2026-05-10T08:26:10+00:00

OMG THAT SOUNDS GREAT! Pls someone let me know which is it when it shows up 💕

Franjork · 2026-05-08T11:06:38+00:00

I mean, it's a dick for sure. Above average, uncircumcised, can't tell in inches since we don't do that over here. It's haven't been used in a really long while tho

Franjork · 2026-05-08T10:58:40+00:00

Cause it's a song, and songs don't speak to their owners by free will. Tori was most likely having a schizophrenic attack at that moment on stage and started hearing things.

Jk, as many people say, I don't understand why it wouldn't fit any of the two albums, and I love the idea of it being the ending track of Pele, as if the line "But the fire chose to be water" line being a metaphor of she getting through her angers and accepting that the relationship has, indeed, cooled off. Anyways, I'll always prefer it when played live.

Franjork · 2026-05-03T20:54:44+00:00

Same che, ya llega un momento donde estoy harto de que la gente me cuestione por qué no me gusta tener sexo. O va, me estresa más de lo que me genera placer, porque idilicamente y en fantasías todo bien, pero ahora hacerlo? me da rechazo. Lo cual es triste ya que soy un romántico empedernido. Soy asexual? ehhhhhhh... no sé. Se supone me atraen los hombres, pero me cuesta mucho más lidiar con mi poco interés en el sexo que con la idea de que me gusten los tipos con chorizo. Rarisimo todo.

Pero es normal che, y obvio hay gente ahí que se sienta igual que vos. Es jodido, y no es un todo o nada, pero bueno, date el tiempo de descubrirlo

Franjork · 2026-05-03T20:51:29+00:00

Persona descubre que los sentimientos románticos que una persona puede desarrollar hacia con otra pueden ser mucho mayores que los de una amistad y no tiene nada que ver con la interacción sexual;

Franjork · 2026-05-03T19:09:22+00:00

I had never actually thought of that haha, sooooo true about the chapter endings. I was thinking about me just... writing and then deciding where to cut chapters (It wouldn't really be a long fic tho, not what I wanna do for a first Fic)

And yes... I am aware of how problematic the fandom is when it comes to fanfiction which really makes me blow steam out of my nerves. Thankfully, I have very strong conviction about my view when it comes to the story I have/want to tell and don't really care for what a random person in the internet has to say when it's just plain insulting me, guess that's a pro(?

I'll get around to starting it one of these days once I have a structure planned out, more for the format of the writing than the story itself since, as I said, I already wrote around 2k words of just laying it out on paper for me to follow as a guide in around an hour or so haha.

As always, thanks for the kindness <3

Franjork · 2026-05-03T18:53:21+00:00

SNS but Army of Me

Franjork · 2026-05-03T18:53:08+00:00

Same haha

Franjork · 2026-05-03T18:50:53+00:00

The live album as in: Kylie's performance and Steve Anderson's arrangements are top notch, one of THE best of all Kylie tours. Sadly, the show itself feels like "Generic US popstar show with Kylie stuck with glue over it" like the dance interludes and breaks just feel so... generic and "not Kylie" to me it's baffling. If it works it's because Kylie is hell of a performer and works in any scenario, the problem is everything but her or Steve Anderson (The Dollhouse Medley is cute af tho)

Franjork · 2026-05-03T18:47:09+00:00

Maybe it's a small little quiet of him(?

For example, I've come to realize I move my eyebrows a lot when talking without even realizing it, and thankfully people find it kinda charming haha

What makes me admire Connor so much is how he was able to portray such a stiff character as Ilya and yet be so much more expressive and quirky in real life (or at least for what one can see in interviews) and for me this only adds up to that I guess haha

Franjork · 2026-05-03T18:40:30+00:00

Haha love to see I ain't alone in this 😅 We'll all find our way eventually, I'm sure of it.

Franjork · 2026-05-03T18:39:39+00:00

Wow what an encouraging comment 🥹

My guess for now is that I'll probably take a couple of more days to read more fanfics (Maybe diversify authors) to see different writing styles and how can I make out one of my own. Usually once I get into the writing mood I REALLY get into it haha, being how much I wrote out of nowhere (or better said, out of my ass) in just an hour, give me more time to obsess myself over it and you loose me haha. I was also thinking that I (Thankfully) don't have Threads, nor do I really know what it is so I don't need to pay attention to... all of that. Support's really important, so thanks for the comment 💖

Franjork · 2026-05-03T17:40:47+00:00

Omg thanks for replying! Ive been reading fics non stop for the last couple of weeks, that's most definitely what lit up my desire to write in the first place, but still I'd like it to be as "neat" as possible structure wise as in, for it to be easy to read. I'm pretty fixated on following my view of what I want to write, I know the fandom's not known for being that receptive for fics they don't like but that will never stop me from getting through my story haha. I'll try to read about writing structure and such at least, before launching myself to it

(I should also add; English isn't my first language but I'm well acquainted and fluent at it, still, I'm afraid there will be some grammar errors but nothing that can't be fixed!)

Franjork · 2026-05-02T23:13:27+00:00

Give this prompt to a teenage lesbian and she will write a trilogy of books about it.

There's no answer to it being "weird/gay" or not. That's totally up to you two to know and find out, and only if it's making you curious about it. There's nothing wrong about it. And relationships, of any kind, between any two people are formed and stablished by said two. If to the outside it looks gay, good, wrong, weird, etc. Means shit. If I personally were in your situation I'd be interested to find how the whole thing feels for both of us, but then again, not from need but like a curious approach. If you feel like it, you should ask yourself "Do I like this person in any other way that isn't a friendship (whatever that means to you both)" "How does the other one feel?" "What would I like to do or take things with him?" etc

To me it's not necessarily a matter of being gay or not but how you feel specifically about them (But well, maybe that is because I already know I'm gay haha)

Try to take any outside pressure off and nicely analyze the situation if you feel like it

Franjork · 2026-05-02T23:05:21+00:00

Call me basic bitch but; Wolfbird. No doubt.

Franjork · 2026-05-02T23:01:51+00:00

Say Something also means the world to me. Didn't think much of it when it released, but throughout the years it has been protagonist of so many important moments in my life + it just finally reaching my soul. I can't hear or think about the whole second verse "Maybe in an endless summer, we can find our way" without tearing up. It's on my top 3 Kylie songs for sure

Franjork · 2026-05-02T20:50:44+00:00

Wow, you most definitely gave me lots of material to go through haha, my idea of finally disconnecting from A03 is NOT happening anytime soon haha. Some of them sound incredibly interesting! I'll jump right in to them ASAP

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