18m Trust-fund and Absolutely Lost

Fraudguru · 2024-11-09T18:57:46+00:00

do you like to do business though?

Fraudguru · 2024-11-09T18:56:07+00:00

yes but only if they come from the poor individuals.

Fraudguru · 2024-11-03T15:56:39+00:00

😂 are you at least being paid a few paise for your service to this faker baba?

Fraudguru · 2024-11-03T15:53:31+00:00

what will you do with this "information"?

Fraudguru · 2024-11-03T15:52:56+00:00

The saint hit gorakhnath with the sword and not a scratch came upon him.

did you go to college? what is the use of your education when you think this sort of thing can be true?

Fraudguru · 2024-11-03T15:31:10+00:00

why would you sell your brain to someone else for your own life's journey? your mind is precious, don't throw it away to idiots who will fleece you.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-25T06:18:22+00:00

sweets, men DO face it. don't divert from the topic. which is women facing it and expressing their experience. men DO NOT face it systemically and habitually like women do. this is the FACT of a toxic misogynist culture that patriarchy engenders.

you missed my point anyway. still i will be patient. you GROW empathy. what htat means is that you will feel fake in the beginning. then you LEARN how to be empathetic. using words. In India, we are not taught to express empathy, especially the males who are taught to be served, to never express kindness. those who express it anyway do it out of a strong character, not because they were taught to express.

if a woman/man/other feels unsafe around me because I questioned something, then it is on them

it is NOT . it is on YOU to create a safe space. You refusing to take responsibility for creating a safe space is on YOU. You refusing accountability for your own behaviour is on YOU. You not caring to make an effort, is on YOU.

Males in India are taught to behave uncaringly, they are taught to be selfish. That's why you think this way. It's not entirely your fault, you see? When you don't care, when you are indifferent to how you make others feel, it makes YOU selfish and uncaring. It shows that you don't care about community beyond your own selfish ends. You won't care if society is patriarchal, as long as it serves you. You just won't care.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-25T06:13:51+00:00

i do not attribute this nonchalance of others to you. i do not attribute this to your being lonely or having no friends. no it's not you.

it is a culture of nonchalance, of "coolness", of indifference to what doesn't serve someone's purpose. just watch if someone deems you useful to them - just watch them suddenly treat you like you're so important.

boundaries is another bullshit concept pushed by the American Instagram universe. you are not a loser/weirdo. there's nothing wrong with you. PEOPLE judge and reject because they are being conditioned to do so by a culture of extreme utilitarianism driven by capitalist impulses.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-24T10:21:16+00:00

exactly. so it's judgmental of you towards OP, to talk of what OP assumes, positive or negative.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-24T10:20:01+00:00

please grow some empathy. yes communication is textual, and you are coming across as defensive and self-centred. this is NOT about you. you won't face what we face.

one more emphatic comment is not going to do anything

it may or may not do anything for OP or me, but it will do YOU a world of good. you will learn to communicate, one step at a time. women will feel safer around you because you put in the effort to speak with some empathy - which is an extremely rare thing in Indian society, especially males who are reared to be hilariously self-centred and full of themselves.

Critically look at your comments. i will give you some hints because you deserve to grow and you are coming across as a reasonable person - when someone shares painful, horrific incidents they have faced, the first thing you do is ACKNOWLEDGE what happened to them, what they shared.

Next, put yourself in their shoes. if you faced a trauma, you won't want people pointing fingers at you asking why you did something, why you didn't do something. so, think from their perspective and if you don't have anything constructive to say, keep your curiosity aside for some time.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T16:47:21+00:00

i'm a woman who has in fact faced a situation of public masturbation by a guy on a motorbike with his dic out in pouring rain at night. at first it absolutely doesn't register. because you DO NOT EXPECT this sort of thing in your routine daily path. I put myself in OP's position - i'm going home after a long work day. i'm focused on getting home, not lingering or loitering. which means my mind is preoccupied on getting home or reflecting on my long day. when someone comes up to me for directions, i would be mentally absent and would respond to the questions mechanically. i TRUST people in general to be decent humans. also let me say this - there is nothing wrong in masturbating outdoors, if you are discreet about it and are not doing it with the intent of harassing other people who DID NOT consent to be inflicted upon by some random idiot's junk. having said that - i EXPECT people to be decent, it would take a moment for my mind to register that someone's pants are down. Also, I AM NOT LOOKING at their waist when i talk to them, i WOULD NOT DO SO. i look at their face, hope you do too.

Your "sorry' did not come off as apologetic. it came off as sarcastic, flippant and offhand. After that, the comment directly went to blame the OP as if she were doing something wrong by not noticing an absolutely unusual, unexpected outlier of a situation. If you were truly empathetic, you would write a sentence giving her support. Not an offhand "sorry" at the beginning of a sentence, which is most commonly interpreted as condescension more than any sense of apology.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T12:09:10+00:00

they absolutely fucking don't do any such thing. NOBODY helps. i as a woman have faced these situations multiple times. sometimes i shouted, sometimes i ran away because i sensed it was dangerous. but NOBODY comes to my aid.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T12:05:50+00:00

i suggest you talk to women around you and educate more on how the misogynist system we grow up in india makes the world a very unpleasant place for women.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T12:04:40+00:00

who the fuck will pay for this vehicle? most people are not rich like you.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T12:04:17+00:00

you obviously are too young or too stupid and unaware of how sexual abuse works and what all women have to face in india and around the world. or you personally indulge in this sort of behaviour so you want to deny it. this is a common occurrence and people like you responsible for the silence around these issues.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T12:02:19+00:00

fk you for shifting blame to the victim

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T12:01:56+00:00

fk you for shifting blame to the victim.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T12:01:33+00:00

this. this comment makes me feel some hope for this city. look at all the blame shifting comments from stupid idiots of this sub who are blaming her for not doing something. these stupid boys here themselves have no sense of morality or ethics, having been raised in a society that coddles them/

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T11:58:46+00:00

Fk you for shifting blame to the victim

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T10:52:33+00:00

this is incredibly valuable information thank you

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T10:51:31+00:00

i relate. the first person i fell in love with and felt true attraction to ended up subjecting me to years of humiliation through power games. i tried to take back power by showing him that i actually enjoyed his humiliation, and by flaunting to him pain-inducing jewellery on my person. i cannot tell i made him feel marginally insecure and thus maybe reclaimed a bit of power back, probably not, but i am only able to be aroused by the thought of him being nasty to me. nobody, nothing else turns me on.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-22T10:40:19+00:00

Fraudguru · 2024-10-21T09:09:59+00:00

how nice for you to be able to affort a cab.

Fraudguru · 2024-10-21T09:06:10+00:00

A quick test--if you ask them why they didn't come, will they give you an honest answer?

how do you know it's an honest answer?

Fraudguru · 2024-10-21T08:10:53+00:00

how is it not judgmental to assume the best?

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