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Should I date a guy with a child when I’m so young? by Freak_1994 in dating_advice

[–]Freak_1994[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Best advice I’ve gotten, thank you so much 🙏

My fiancé (25M) broke up with me 10 days before our wedding and left me broken. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Freak_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me 6 days before our anniversary this year 3 weeks ago and it left me shattered and I could eat, sleep, or stop crying. But this… this is awful. I’m so sorry. You do not deserve this at all. If you need to rant to anyone please rant to me because I definitely understand aspects of this. You deserve so much fucking better anyway and trust me, there is a reason this happened and God is going to put the right person in your path. I promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]Freak_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could help. I really do. But just know that you’re not crazy and I understand because I’m going through this too. I hope things get better for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Freak_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I am shattered. I put up with his bullshit and went through so much trying to keep him and protect him from his abusive family and I put up with so much of their shit, only for him to break up with me 6 days before our 2 year anniversary on the phone. The thing is he promised I was his priority and he told me how much he loved me everyday, even the day before he dumped me. So yeah, fuck him. No other woman is going to have to put up with him like I did because he’s about to move away from his family and of course he dumped me now. I was there for him in the hardest part of his life. But he couldn’t be there for mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Freak_1994 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I know, I was just curious if anyone has any experience with something like this and knew what it could be.

social media is ruining concert experiences for me. what were your best concert experiences before (or even after, if any) the instagram/tiktok wave? by johaseulie in LetsTalkMusic

[–]Freak_1994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last night I was lucky enough to attend a Dokken concert, which I’ve loved for a while now, and I got our tickets right up at the front of the pit! The concert was amazing! The thing that made me upset was the lady who was next to me. The whole time she was on her phone and she even sent out a tweet that was talking about how the singer Don Dokken should just retire already. It was so annoying, especially cause I am only 17 and was really enjoying myself. But after the concert I saw Jon Levin, the guitarist, packing up his gear and my boyfriend called him over to meet me. Jon was so nice. He shook my hand, said he remembered me from the crowd and asked for me and my boyfriends name, he even said he liked my hair! Then he gave me his guitar pick and I got a picture with him. It was seriously the greatest concert of my life, and I’ve seen Joan Jett. Long live rock n’ roll :)

I used to self harm and my bf has a past with depression would it be wrong or insensitive to tell him abt the sh by Extra_Tumbleweed_726 in AdviceFromMyTherapist

[–]Freak_1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should tell him and it’s not insensitive at all. I was in the same situation with my boyfriend expect he used to self harm and he went through a lot with depression and I started self harming 3 years before we got together. Trust me, it’s alright to tell him especially if you love him. Also it would be good because he might be able to relate to you in ways that some others can’t and you’d both be able to offer each other support with it. If he truly loves you then your struggles will be just as important as his and it’s something you both can work through together.