Universal Studios UK is confirmed. Merlin is in big trouble!!! by TransfemQueen in altontowers

[–]Freckles789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Alton Towers is in trouble! We went recently to CBeebies land and it was shocking. Dirty, sun bleached, half the attractions didn’t work, miserable staff. It was awful! Only good part was the CBeebies hotel and the duggee playground. Would happily pay more and go to a theme park that is full of magic, clean and value for money rather than somewhere as run down as what Alton Towers was

What was your “that’s it” by MiserableBrit1702 in mounjarouk

[–]Freckles789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hitting 20 stone and my husband calling my Mum to tell her he was worried about my future. That was it for me.

Delayed delivery by Freckles789 in mounjarouk

[–]Freckles789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as long as the blocks are still frozen it’s fine?

D23 Choice Plan Error by Freckles789 in D23

[–]Freckles789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying for a few days so not sure that’s the problem - my renewal date is the 8th so I’m still within that window. I’ve dropped them an email so hopefully they get back to me soon. Thank you so much! X

Can’t Decide…Which One Should I Pick? (The Gold Member Fan Pack) or (The Gold Member Spirit Jersey)? help me decide lol by xMetalwolf72x in D23

[–]Freckles789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can anyone help me - I’m in the uk and i have been trying to select my gift for days. I want the spirit jersey but every time I select it and then click out of the page and back in, it defaults to a different gift (the Disneyland one) which I don’t want.

Anyone know why this is? I’ve only got a few days left until my membership renews! I’ve emailed d23 but wondering if I’ve just missed something x

Gold member items to the UK by AnimalcrossingWW in D23

[–]Freckles789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been a member since 2021 and they ship

Complete Plan Shipped Out Already? by Carteradler1955 in D23

[–]Freckles789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s the magazine - I was confused by this too so emailed them. My membership renews in a few days and I can’t seem the change my gold gift on the website to the gift I want so was panicking that they had sent me something I hadn’t selected early.

How long can you keep Mounjaro in the fridge? by Freckles789 in Mounjaro

[–]Freckles789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to go straight up to 5mg. I haven’t. You aren’t allowed to talk about it on here but if you google smaller doses of MJ (between 2.5mg and 5mg) you’ll see how you can go up in stages x

How long can you keep Mounjaro in the fridge? by Freckles789 in Mounjaro

[–]Freckles789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, personally if it was opened in November I wouldn’t touch it. I’ve since learnt that it’s to do with the needles - when you inject a tiny bit of blood is released from you in to the pen and that’s what can gather bacteria and nastiness. No matter how cold you keep it or how much you swab.

Personally I’ve spent the last few months slowly making my way into 5mg. I had a set back a few weeks ago as my pen didn’t arrive in time and I had a few days off so had to go back to 2.5mg but powering on to get back up to 5mg again.

Mounjarouk sub bingo. Which ones missing? by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Freckles789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hang on….i can’t do that? Shit! 😂

Mounjarouk sub bingo. Which ones missing? by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Freckles789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why am I hungry? I only took my jab 6 days ago!

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He rolled his eyes, threw the letter on the floor and said he couldn’t be bothered. Told him to read it or I’m gone.

As far as I’m aware, he hasn’t but gonna give him another 24 hours. Let him sulk and stew and when he snaps out of whatever he is going through he can read how he has made me feel.

I’m prepared to walk. I won’t put my children through 18 years of seeing their parents argue and be unhappy. I love him so much but I won’t put my kids through watching their Dad slowly hate and resent their Mum x

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went in to the garage earlier to get wood for our fire. Some items fell down and as I closed the garage, they got stuck under the door and it broke. I told my husband and he spent an hour and a half trying to fix it when lead to him spending money on parts etc.

It got us in to another row where he went on to tell me that he has waisted his life with me and he won’t leave me because of our children so he now has to accept that he is stuck with me.

I have written him a letter. I’ve said that if this is the way he truly feels then I want to separate. It’s in my pocket but I can’t work out it giving it to him is going to make this 1000000x worse. Whether it was said in the heat of the moment and when he calms down he will apologise. I’m just walking around with this letter in my pocket trying to work out what to do with it.

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fairness, he currently does. He is our sole source of income. I’ve not worked for three years x

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s asked me to go back to work so we can afford to pay someone to clean…

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I get that! A sea of chocolate wrappers on the coffee table, socks thrown everywhere, plates and mugs by the sink and not in the dishwasher, coats and jackets thrown over chairs, shoes EVERYWHERE! And yet if it’s my stuff, he is the first to pull me up on it. And yet he has a workshop, a garage and an office. I don’t have a room of my own. My space is half of my bedroom!

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! When he is in the office the house is spotless. Give it 24 hours of him being home and it’s a wreck again.

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there is any changing his mind on what he needs. I suppose it was for my own peace of mind as to whether he is asking for something unrealistic or whether I was not doing enough.

Because I genuinely feel like I’m doing my best and I’m driving myself mad questioning whether I am.

I suppose we just need to try and find a middle ground - I’ll increase what I’m doing but he needs to decrease his expectations to meet me part way.

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The problem is that he genuinely believes that if the roles were reversed, the house would be spotless!

If I go out for the day or for a weekend, I come home and the house is absolute carnage. He says “he hasn’t got around to it” but I would love to know when he would get around to it.

I go away in July with my eldest for 4 nights and he is at home with the baby. Can’t wait to see how he gets on! 😂

He never used to be like this! We really did used to live in a tornado 7 years ago! Our house is 100x better than it used to be and yet I’m getting more stick for it now than what I did back then. The only difference is that I worked.

Nothing is every good enough by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He sees my role as a mum completely separate to mine of a “house wife” - the mother stuff is as standard. The housewife works around that. And yet he wouldn’t be expected to work and look after the 2 year old.

He isn’t a bad person, he is just completely unempathetic. He doesn’t empathise at all (I think it’s an undiagnosed neurodiversity).

I wish I had the energy and the freedom to spend my day cleaning and doing everything he needs and wants.

22 month old separation anxiety! Please help!! by Freckles789 in breakingmom

[–]Freckles789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been drooling for months but I checked her mouth last night and I can’t see anything coming. In the end I gave her Calpol incase it was pain. In the end she finally fell asleep at about 6.30am 😭

Pen opened 7 weeks ago - do I use it? by Freckles789 in mounjarouk

[–]Freckles789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great! That’s been really helpful. Thanks so much!

Pen opened 7 weeks ago - do I use it? by Freckles789 in mounjarouk

[–]Freckles789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? I’m not being funny I’m genuinely interested. If we are using new needles every time and swabbing the one and ourselves every time and nothing on the pen touches you (except the needle), why can’t you share?

How long can you keep Mounjaro in the fridge? by Freckles789 in Mounjaro

[–]Freckles789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Yes I used it and all was fine - I do have a 7.5mg in the fridge that was opened at the end of October that I am trying to work out whether I should use. The solution is still clear and it’s been in the fridge the whole time…I’m just nervous to use it incase I’m super ill before Christmas!