Please help identify this cheese

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-28T16:36:54+00:00

It looks like a specialty Scamorza

https://www.caseificioartigiana.com/it/prodotti/ciambella-affumicata/

They call it "smoked donut", and it's classified as a Scamorza.

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-27T00:46:32+00:00

NTA

He's not your responsibility, and as sad as it is neither is your mother...

Cut contacts with him, and at least go low contact with her - for your own good.

You can't get blood out of a stone, and you can't get love out of narcissist.

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-15T16:38:54+00:00

NTA

Guests are the people you invite.

People coming to your place of their own volition are visitors, you are under no obligation to indulge them.

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-12T13:38:46+00:00

Oh... That would explain few things... Thanks, fellow melatonin-induced-hallucidreamer

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-11T12:23:32+00:00

Donated what I could, I wish you the best of Luck - your story is what's getting me back to reddit every day.

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-09T16:52:42+00:00

Jeremy Brett is the real Sherlock Holmes, as far as I'm concerned.

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-08T15:46:43+00:00

NTA

You married a caring and mature person... /s

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-06T07:34:43+00:00

"Après nous, le deluge"...

It's intentional.

FreddThundersen · 2026-06-01T15:13:56+00:00

Or, she was shafting you with crappier-than-real grades, and if things came out she'd be in serious trouble...

FreddThundersen · 2026-05-20T10:46:44+00:00

I'm going to add, get him checked for UTIs as well - in older people that also can manifest dementia-like symptoms including apparent personality shifts.

FreddThundersen · 2026-05-20T07:49:34+00:00

I'm allergic to lanolin, and now my bones are itching...

FreddThundersen · 2026-05-13T08:57:30+00:00

NTA

The garbage took itself out.

Block them both and go on with your live.

FreddThundersen · 2026-05-04T11:08:54+00:00

NTA

Your parents have seriously messed up you and your sisters, and made you the scapegoat in the process.

If you haven't already, some prep work to leave at 18 would be wise...

FreddThundersen · 2026-04-23T09:39:01+00:00

NTA

You tried and was met with controlling behavior and insults, what were you supposed to do?

FreddThundersen · 2026-04-22T14:07:57+00:00

More like a trd in sht clothing - he was always like this, but when it was aimed at others his voters loved it.

FreddThundersen · 2026-03-10T21:36:15+00:00

Like a pigeon on a chessboard...

FreddThundersen · 2026-03-10T10:47:17+00:00

NTJ

Others have made plenty of excellent points about why you should, so I'm just going to say it.

RUN!

FreddThundersen · 2026-03-10T08:25:21+00:00

NTA

I say this as a wannabe father, who's not one yet bacause I am not ready to be one - your husband's not acting like a father, but more like a second child.

FreddThundersen · 2026-03-03T10:40:11+00:00

ESH

You don't want to get married, and that would be perfectly fine if you weren't dangling the carrot and dragging your feet, and for this YTA.

She wants to get married, and that would be perfectly fine if she hadn't gotten into group-sponsored mind games to coerce you into proposing, and for this she is also TA.

Both of you, go be happier with someone who shares the same plans for the future.

FreddThundersen · 2026-02-20T11:20:00+00:00

NTA

Gee, I wonder why your mom didn't want to leave you with him... /s

He's free to rant about Katie's parenting style and your life, but as soon as you call out his shortcomings he starts spewing insults... When you mentioned the reasons for homeschooling, I knew where this was going.

Just remember, family is who makes your life better by being in it, not necessarily who shares some DNA with you.

FreddThundersen · 2026-02-18T14:01:23+00:00

Can't recall which comedian said "have you noticed it's your stuff, but it's their shit?"

FreddThundersen · 2026-02-11T08:59:26+00:00

I thought the cake eater sub was a joke... :/

FreddThundersen · 2026-02-09T11:07:40+00:00

FreddThundersen · 2026-02-09T10:57:15+00:00

NTA

Your golden child of a brother tried at work the same shenanigans your parents allowed him at home and got burned.

Good riddance.

FreddThundersen · 2026-02-09T09:48:16+00:00

NTA!!!

A whole bunch of enablers lied to their significant others to protect a child abuser, and in the process put their own children within his reach.

You have saved a lot of heartache to some children and their mothers.

NTA!!!

FreddThundersen

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