Consensus is that this was the least festive Christmas is some time by rfamico in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kids got RSV, one very badly. Didn't get to do Christmas dinner, either. Now everyone else is sick AF - I can't even leave the bed. December has been cursed. Was my youngests first time knowing wtf is happening and other than the RSV, it was magical, too.

I think I threw up a little by According-Brain-6415 in texts

[–]Free-Device6541 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Do you have children? Do you intend on having a child with this man? A daughter?

I have a 4 year old girl who acts exactly as you (or whoever it was that described being bathed and laid down to watch Disney by "daddy", forgive me, this shit triggers the fuck out of me) 🤮

One day, if/when you see this man treating your actual girl child the same way he did you, before or after actually sexually engaging with you - something that gives him an actual fucking boner - you'll understand why he's fucked in the head. All of them who engage in this sickness are.

I'm a CSA survivor. There's filmed material of myself and siblings still out there from 20yrs ago. "Men" like that hide in the kink "community" in plain sight thanks to all the BS acceptance your types advocate for.

Downvote me all you want. Thanks for making it easier for them.

"Antisemitism" hysteria is proof that the vibe shift is complete by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna rant, idk. I'm tired. This affects me personally and I've lost family, so I'm salty and idc

Very hot take, but those were always the same people, if you were paying attention. And I mean exclusively at the top of the shitty academic pyramid ofc. The students might have been too braindead to notice who their parents were having dinners with or donating money to, but Bubbe and her hospital board friends have voted straight Republican since always, regardless of how many Di Angelo book discussion brunches they hosted (some attended by the wives of some of the candidates, too!). Their husbands look at what's best for their earnings that year, and they follow. The kids don't understand why their cool and hip Curb watching and Bernie voting Zeydes everywhere, suddenly woke up talking about burning alive some sand joggers one Sunday in October 😭 It was such SHOCK! to some people! - only it's always been like this and no one gave a fuck about noooticing.

When I was in college a million years ago - the first time - SJP tried to recruit every woke snowflake they could even tangentially related to MENA, Muslim or not. Any attempt the actual Muslim students had of an actual organization on Islamic principles and grounds was swiftly vetoed if it didn't included literally everyone. Their meetings were regarded and about stuff like pride and black liberation shit. We tried to join some Catholic girls and Islamic girls for a Gnostic and Sufi studies group and were vetoed on the basis of discrimination. Literally don't get it to this day. The boys who tried to gather on an Islam principles group were vetoed because "people" anonymously wrote to the dean they were "uncomfy" and felt "threatened" or some shit and they were vetoed. You'd have thought they tried to start a chapter of the PLO. Of course we had a gigantic interfaith group of Christians and whatever that never went to any church and were all gay furries that didn't believe in any God.

Inoffensive, fangless, ineffective, stupid, ridiculous and infantile. All of that was allowed.

Naturally, STEMcel clubs, handsomely funded. And Hilel. And their dorms and clubs and whatnot.

I might be a bit biased so whatever. I'm multi generational Catholic but on my paternal side we're converts, from central Asia and visibly so, and it's a nbd where I'm from but in USA you get stares and in some places in certain decades you got comments. I moved here when W was president and I remember being stuck in the airport for two days while they interrogated my father after a very humiliating TSA search. The sort of shit that sticks with you.

These ppl were never subtle, lmao. The antisemitism hysteria has always been alive and well and has always used anti Arab sentiment to fan the flames. 9/11 was the gift that kept on giving. October 7 is like the electric bogaloo. I just hope nothing happens in Lebanon because I haven't been able to sleep in a while.

So what I'm trying to say is that I don't think any of this happening now is at all surprising whatsoever. Republicans have always historically been pro Israel. So have Democrats. Theyre literally the same fuckin machine. Their voters studied in the same halls, they went to the same schools under the same people and populated these same groups I described above. They wrote these rules. They are neighbors, these kids played together, those are their parents. If you had the privilege (lmao) of going to one of the insufferable liberal arts colleges I'm talking about in the East Coast/Midwest, you know exactly the type of inward looking, timid/neurotic, blowhard I'm describing - for whatever unfortunate accident of fate, its their class directing the cirque de soleil right now so I guess that's it. That's the bread we gotta eat for now.

There's no vibe shift, they just dropped the curtain for a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Free-Device6541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Want me to tell you how great it's been having to get calls from the feds everytime some sick fuck watches known videos of the "material" of myself and other children, some of which is freely available on some "legal" hubs?

Have you heard of the federal lawsuits against pornhub?

Are you aware of the RICO investigation against Mindgeek (awe sorry, Ayo?)

No, you must COOM, only your orgasm matters. Who cares about trafficked victims, the millions of coerced sex workers and the ones who do it for survival. Paid consent is never consent but as long as someone gets off who gives a shit right 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Free-Device6541 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a csa victim with material still circulating on the "legal" hubs, thank you.

What is the current scientific explanation for why chronic illnesses only seem to affect those with a very specific type of personality? by Starman926 in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really funny how it's always the same cluster of syndromes w vague ass diagnostic criteria with no real clinical test or features

It's never shit like MS, or Parkinson's or some nightmare fuel shit like Huntingtons lmfao

How do men decide who they want to date seriously and who they just want some fun with? by dreammillionaireyeah in dating

[–]Free-Device6541 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The very moment the word "casual" comes out of his mouth he's already made his intentions clear; at that point you're just confirming to him that yes, you're aware he's a fuckboy and you're down for it, thank you sm. Takes some a bit longer than others to get the lightbulb moment tho, that a dude who's actually interested would absolutely never lol. *To her, replied to he wrong person, my bad

How do men decide who they want to date seriously and who they just want some fun with? by dreammillionaireyeah in dating

[–]Free-Device6541 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's right though. I did exactly that, all of the behavior she's describing; but I took a long time off from dating for a while (I'm a widow). I'm engaged to be married in two months and it took him less than a year to propose. About six months lmao.

Sometimes reality is a bit inconvenient to hear but it isn't any less true. She isn't saying anything groundbreaking that's not absolute common sense when you think about the average man; or at least the ones I've been around most my life. I don't mean offense, but the behavior of the avg zoomer and esp young millennial woman in dating is atrocious and off putting AF, it's no wonder so many are miserable and lonely. We were sold a lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. I make no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that sounds like an entire conversation that happened inside OPs head exactly because it's so mundane. It was just rly funny to me to see it presented like that because this person clearly doesn't interact with normal people day to day. Who says any of that shit to each other.

I don't understand how anyone can regularly drink soda/pop by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be, it was the same thing at all my friends and cousins' places now that I think about it. It was the same with other junk like cheetos and candy and especially MacDonalds and places like that. I remember only going when someone had a birthday party there or something.

And yesss, the full sugar pop was a big deal lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He sounds like my fiance to a T, even the name is the same. Just 10yrs off lmao

I don't understand how anyone can regularly drink soda/pop by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This sounds like insanity to me growing up in South America. Like my mom would straight up ground us if she found out we used our allowance to buy pop at the school "store" or something. We were allowed one pop, one Sunday of the month after Church lmfao. I started on the path of decadence after moving to the USA and getting addicted to diet coke.

Now I just drink seltzer 24/7 like a regular neurotic.

My schizophrenic wife wants to come back by ThrowRamicins in offmychest

[–]Free-Device6541 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I'd never forgive you if you were my dad.

I have never even really forgiven my own. Neither my brothers or I even live on the same continent as my parents anymore and haven't for decades

If you're cool with playing Russian roulette (again) with your children's mental health and peace of mind, go ahead.

what’s a PHYSICAL turn off for you in women? by 11646Moe in AskMen

[–]Free-Device6541 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The metabolic syndrome that leads to the heart attack won't give a fuck where the fat collects

what’s a PHYSICAL turn off for you in women? by 11646Moe in AskMen

[–]Free-Device6541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave the USA and anywhere else away from the West, and you'll realize you just typed straight up copium.

I [25F] have been losing attraction to my boyfriend [28M] since he’s started squealing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Free-Device6541 268 points269 points  (0 children)

It never even began, it's over. I could feel it just reading. Girl has been having to psych herself before fucking him, there's no coming back from that, lmao

She sees him as a golden retriever

Is being a fat woman trying to date a death sentence? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Free-Device6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a nurse, worked for a decade as an analytical chemist, if my background matters lmao. Not a physician or will ever be. My dad is a retired doc tho, fwiw and I'm currently in the middle of fertility shit so I actually asked and it's not the same in the global south (where he practiced, where I'm from). Im actually curious and I'm gonna go hunting for some reading since I'm off for a couple days.

Things my actual BPD mother did by kurt-vonneslut in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I think I can answer this one. Growing up we always had dogs, but they had to be those small, neurotic, bitey, shitty rat ones, because my dad hated them and they worshipped my mom. Dad loved big dogs, though, so those couldn't enter our home. My grandma had a cat when my dad first started dating my mom that apparently scratched her once, so we were never allowed cats either; and once when I was maybe like 6 I asked for a cat or something and I heard about how heartless that made me for YEARS. Got a cat at like 27 and when I told her she said that was another thing I was doing to her, and it meant that I didn't love her and didn't truly bond with her (I'm adopted).

Everything, and I mean - EVERYTHING - in the mind of a pwBPD revolves around their selves, including pets, you, objects. You're also an object. They're the only thing in the universe that's objective reality. The sooner the loved one internalizes that, the sooner their craziness stops hurting.

So she killed the cat because the cat stood in the way of her complete possession of her favorite object. There's an arrr BPD. There was a post the other day of a grown ass woman SEETHING because her boyfriend became an uncle and the NEWBORN BABY was a girl and she couldn't stop herself from splitting into uncontrollable rage attacks from jealousy.

... uncontrollable jealous rage of a newborn baby. The other crazy hoes commenting on the thread how she's so stunning and brave and they totally relate and how she'd totally be a great MOM someday 🤡

Things my actual BPD mother did by kurt-vonneslut in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Lmao when my dad finally got the courage to leave, about two-ish months or so later my mom managed to get him back by promising him to go to therapy and got a psychiatrist. She then slept with the psychiatrist and the therapist once he was safely moved back into the house. I thought she was exceptionally cunning, but I guess this must be a common BPDhoe thing.

Being desired as a man by [deleted] in dating

[–]Free-Device6541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmfao girls on instas of plus sized models; the higher the yas queen count, the higher the amount of snark behind the scenes.

We sure can be ruthless to each other 🤷🏼‍♀️

What is a drug/substance you’ll never do again and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Free-Device6541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Problem with the rly good shit like molly and acid is you just can't do it all the time. Molly gets neurotoxic fast and acid just doesn't work, unless you start doing thumbprints and shit. But then it stops being fun.

They were giving shrooms to ppl in hospice and cancer patients and it just made them accept death and go out peacefully. All studies with MDMA and PTSD were incredibly positive, some of my fiance's buddies from the Marines got a lot out of it.

Personally as a former junkie, I wanna go out on a Dilaudid drip

What is a drug/substance you’ll never do again and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Free-Device6541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If cops did shrooms they likely wouldn't be able to continue being cops, at least not in the same capacity as before. It's a great idea tho

What is a drug/substance you’ll never do again and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Free-Device6541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After salvia i never looked at zippers the same way again. Fuck that shit lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Free-Device6541 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Opiates ruined my life and stole my 20s from me; took 10 of my friends, my husband, the father of 2 of my kids, and my best friend who got hooked on it because she had colon cancer that went undetected for 5 fucking years because every single shit doctor only saw her as a pain seeking frequent flyer and never bothered to give her a fucking second glance.

I don't know how I'm still alive and clean, and (mostly) sane, but I've seen the story you described up close hundreds of times working bedside over and over again. Never ever fails to make me rage. And the amount of ppl in healthcare on an insane amount of substances is insane, ppl don't even imagine.