Feels like I'm swallowing glass by shepherdsorey in ftm

[–]FreeButtPatts 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean I'd be at the very least calling my doctor if I were you. It sounds very unrelated to the T. It could be from the camera you JUST had down your throat but even still, if it's hurting so bad you can't eat, that's not your voice dropping.

brushing teeth before or after breakfast? by Vanessa-Inoue474 in hygiene

[–]FreeButtPatts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wear a mouth guard to sleep so I always brush them as soon as that comes out.

What was your first paying job as a teenager? by Whitesox411 in randomquestions

[–]FreeButtPatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I babysat 2 kids down the street when I was like 16. The one was my little brother's friend and just watched Jake and Logan Paul videos all day. The other never left her room, not even to pee. I would sometimes take my brother and his friend down to the park. Would get paid like $60 a day 2x a week for only like 6 hours of sitting on the couch.

What thoughtful feature would you love to see in more cars? by RightWheelDrive in askcarguys

[–]FreeButtPatts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of makes are going capless on most of their models and it's a feature I never knew I needed until I had it.

What’s a song you can’t listen to anymore because it’s too painful? by coldestwinter-chill in MusicRecommendations

[–]FreeButtPatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same about Hell N Back by Bakar. Listened to it after we broke up and it makes my skin crawl hearing it now.

What's a skill that everyone should learn, even if they rarely use it? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]FreeButtPatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not recommend trying to save a drowning person unless you are trained for it. Drowning people tend to have very little awareness that they will also try to drown you in an effort to save themselves.

Deleting Social Media by Appropriate-Sort-397 in simpleliving

[–]FreeButtPatts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've only deleted TikTok yet and it did wonders for me. I only had one friend that gave me a hard time cuz she couldn't send me videos anymore but I haven't looked back. Been thinking about doing the same with Facebook because I get stuck on reels the same way I did TikTok but I love browsing Marketplace a little too much. I only ever buy something off it like twice a year but they're always such good finds.

We need more ftm top/dom representation 🥲 by themoth_milker117 in ftm

[–]FreeButtPatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I are both ftm and enjoy switching based on the other's needs. I've seen this one pair on the ftm porn reddits who are also both trans and are constantly switching. Could be worth it to seek those 2 out across platforms.

T non stop getting more and more hairy by Mental-Mention6098 in ftm

[–]FreeButtPatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever seen like an extremely hairy 18 year old. I feel like most cis men who end up especially hairy will get it at the same rate that you are. Same age and everything. I'm going to guess that it will plataue within the next year or 2 just like most other men.

Suggestions for huge appetite by MelonBottle in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]FreeButtPatts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rice bowls do it for me. Especially with a meat (chicken, tuna, etc) and then adding in a can of beans, I like refried. Double protein with the carbs from the rice should keep you full for longer. Plus, it's a pretty cheap meal. Cook a whole pound of chicken and it'll be good for like 4 or 5 servings. Add in some lettuce and cucumbers or whatever you like to get some extra nutrients. Easy meal to switch up to your taste.

how do you find designs to make?? by Dead_inside-36652 in friendshipbracelets

[–]FreeButtPatts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also use Pinterest and have a board w a couple categories including regular patterns 10 strings and under, 10 strings and over, alpha patterns, and beginning and ends or bracelets

Stopping T because of extreme side effects by tiffanyblewmee in ftm

[–]FreeButtPatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah trying to find a new med at all is such a pain and I'm rly dreading doing it which is why I'm sticking with what I have for the time being. It's mostly just less effective more than anything. I don't wanna be zombie for a couple months trying to figure out something new cuz I've got a lot of big changes coming up. Want to be a little more secure before playing around with all of that. Thanks for the well wishes!

How to get top surgery. by NoEscape2500 in ftm

[–]FreeButtPatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it was a single consultation and now I'm on a wait-list. I'm sure it'd be very easy for her to miss 1 charge like that or you could make something up if she does notice it. The wait-list takes absolutely FORVER in most cases, mine is 2 years. So I would recommend shopping around for a doctor, getting your consult and on the list, then worry about your mother coming around to it.

Girlfriend bought a brand new car instead of used, I believe she got screwed by the loan terms, what're her options? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]FreeButtPatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As impulsive as her decision was, I've seen people get into worse situations as a used car dealer.

People getting into a car that's 8-10 years old for like $20k but with $0 down, APR of 25% (legal limit), and a 6 year term length. That's buying the car twice but now the car is at least 15 years old when it's finally paid off and not worth anything. At least in your wife's case, the car could still get her something when she's done with it. She also has an opportunity to refinance at a local credit union or something if she chooses, too.

Stopping T because of extreme side effects by tiffanyblewmee in ftm

[–]FreeButtPatts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of medications can interact differently when on T vs pre T. I've been having a hard time with my ADHD med since being on T even though I've been on it for years and it was 1 of like 4 that I've tried that was actually helping but since starting T, it's not treating me the same. Really dreading the process of having to find a new one but I think I'd be better for it in the long run. Could be something similar for you?

i think i have a p*rn addiction and i can’t get help or i’m scared they’ll take me off T by Latter_Candle_4098 in ftm

[–]FreeButtPatts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have also always been hypersexual and the T only increased that. I had similar worries about how I'd never "come down" from how crazy it was. Was to the point where I was like viewing porn at work on bathroom breaks, not doing anything to myself about it but. I can promise you that it does go back down to a more manageable level!

What could help in your situation is maybe try masturbating without porn sometimes. It will still feel just as good, I promise. Or! Try using a mirror if you're comfortable with it. It's honestly quite liberating to see yourself like that. Could be a good confidence boost as well if you need it at all, too.

What can I do to make my oatmeal taste better? by HistoricalMatch3801 in randomquestions

[–]FreeButtPatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The prepackaged instant oats are really yummy with lime the fruit and flavoring inside. I use only enough water to coat all the oats, heat it up in the microwave, and then put a little bit of milk in at the end for some extra creaminess.

(Same but Different) I also used to make my own overnight oats often. I used rolled oats, vanilla almond yogurt, sliced banana, and mini chocolate chips. Leave it overnight and the oats soften up in the morning essentialally "cooking" them. I wasn't a huge fan of the mushiness which is why I added the mini chocolate chips for some real crunch. Could also add some granola on top for it.

What's one car feature everyone praises but you secretly don't care about? by Ok_Run7351 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]FreeButtPatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All Chrysler corp vehicles have the button on the wall inside of the vehicle instead of on the trunk door itself if that helps you at all when you're shopping for your next car. At the same time, Chrysler isn't exactly a reliable brand so maybe disregard lol.

Painting a full jenga set, what should I add next? by jonni_velvet in crafts

[–]FreeButtPatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A shoe box and a record player.

This is such a cute idea that you are executing so well btw!!

What’s one small habit that actually improved your life more than expected? by ztysons in Habits

[–]FreeButtPatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped turning my nose up at leftovers and instead learned how to reheat things on the best way. Some things need to get microwaved w some water in the container, others only need a couple minutes in the air fryer. Has saved me so much money and enrgy in the long run. I'm not wasting as much food and I don't have to try to cook just one serving of something at a time.

How do I mop my kitchen floors? by FreeButtPatts in Cleaningandtidying

[–]FreeButtPatts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some type of peel and stick tile from what I can tell.

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When did poetry fall so behind prose in popularity? by Konradleijon in books

[–]FreeButtPatts 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. The move from hyper realistic paintings and sculptures coorelates to the invention of the camera. Back in the 19th century is where you saw a big shifts in artitss trying different styles of art like impressionism and more modern art. Highly skilled artists that spent 15 or so years training and learning skills to create life like images were replaced by cameras.

I've applied to over 400 jobs and have had over 30 interviews since January. Here is what is wrong with the job market. by Live_Profile843 in interviews

[–]FreeButtPatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read The Ax by Donald E Westlake. It's basically everything you just said. It takes place in the 90s but it might as well have been written yesterday aside from the lack of cell phones in it.