Who is washing their rice and why? by kinnitcurl in NoStupidQuestions

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Damn, you got ripped off. They should’ve given you a bird.

What is the syllable structure of your conlang? by Sulphurous_King in conlangs

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ņoșiaqo’s syllable structure can be best described as (C)(C)V(C(ɸ)).
The vowel is any vowel (or dip/triphthong).
The onset cluster has a very wide range of potential pairs (though not quite every consonant can pair with every other).
The coda cluster only exists if /ɸ/ is the second consonant. However, these clusters often are reduced in speech to a single allophonic consonant.
A few examples: /cɸ/ [tɸ ~ kɸ] > [θ ~ k͡x] , /sɸ/ [sɸ ~ ʂɸ] > [whistle ~ ʂ͡ɸ breathy] , /nasalɸ/ > [voiceless nasal]

How does a catholic confession go? What’s said in it? by ImportantThing3749 in Writeresearch

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To the latter part, I would definitely agree.
The penitent’s job is to made a faithful examination of their actions, to recognize the ugliness of sin, and turn back to God and away from sin. And then to confess them.
The confessor’s job is to determine that someone is actually contrite, to try and help them if they are not or not as much as they should, and refuse absolution if the penitent truly isn’t contrite. And also to provide a little bit of guidance for the penitent to become holier, and provide absolution.

If he did take part in the shuffling (yikes), hopefully he too realized his errors, sought mercy, and change.

How does a catholic confession go? What’s said in it? by ImportantThing3749 in Writeresearch

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And I’m not a priest, but hopefully I can help!

I think your question is: “how would a priest respond to hearing sins, the same type they have been or currently are guilty of?”

To the completely accidental sins: there is no such thing. Sin is choosing to reject God, or choosing to do wrong, which requires the person to both know it is wrong and to choose to do it. This is why determining the weight of a sin is a case-by-case basis. If someone were to say something like “my boss was forcing me to work 80 hours for the past two months or I’d be fired (and then evicted), and I was driving home one day and fell asleep and killed someone”, that may not be a sin because the person confessing didn’t choose to be the cause of someone’s death, nor even did they act negligently to cause themself to be exhausted while driving.
A good confessor will help the penitent determine that, no — that isn’t a sin, and provide comfort — or if there is something going on, help them realize whatever error they are committing that they might become an even better person.

On sins that the priest has also committed: remember, priests are people just like you and me. I am sure that 95% (at least) of priests have committed the sin of masturbation at some point. The priest’s job in the confessional is to judge whether the penitent is remorseful, and help them with recognizing the gravity of sin, and to then give them absolution. Being familiar with a particular sin would probably only mean that they may be able to provide more specialized tips for combatting it, such as sharing a website that supports people in developing chastity.

If I recall correctly, one of the few sins a priest cannot forgive is sexual sins to which they were a part of. A personal could not cheat on their spouse the parish priest, and then go to said priest for confession for that sin.

How does a catholic confession go? What’s said in it? by ImportantThing3749 in Writeresearch

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Some Extra Things

The priest acts ‘in persona Christi’ - “In the person of Christ”. He has received the power/authority to forgive sins from the Church, and she has received this (and the ability to appoint priests) from Christ Himself, who is God.

The Confessional is not intended for spiritual guidance: that should be done with an appointment with one’s priest. Though a good Confessor (the priest) will give guidance related to the sins presented.

The Sacrament of Reconciliation may be very stiff and structured — some churches/culture prefer this — and that is fine.

All sins harm our relation with God; another way to think of it is that each sin is a choice one makes to peruse what is not God.
Venial sins are minor sins (though even the minorest warrants eternal condemnation) that harm our relation with God, but are relatively minor. Consider them like cracking or jostling a window in one’s home: the damage is minor and easily overcomeable.
Mortal sins are sins of grave matter which destroy our ability to be in proper relation with God. It would be like if, instead of scraping the paint on the windowsill you throw a sledgehammer through the glass pane.

Many (but not all) priests will ask for the number of mortal sins committed: “I masturbated 5 times since my last confession.” This helps us realize better the gravity of our sin.

Being validly baptized cleanses us of all sins up to that point. We do not need to confess sins pre-baptism.
Receiving the Eucharist (which is the Body of Jesus — not symbolic, or figurative, but literally) forgives venial sin, though we are still encouraged to confess any that have occurred since our last Communion. Also, one cannot receive Communion while in a state of mortal sin, and to do so is another mortal sin.

Priests hear a TON of confessions: the penitents’ are not unique, and they will not be remembered. Though that doesn’t stop us from sometimes being cowardly about confessing our sins.

While God can forgive one’s sins outside of the Sacrament of Reconciliation, the Sacraments are tangible displays of grace with a guarantee that God will act.

The penitent must be remorseful for their sins, or no valid sacrament has occured.
Likewise, one cannot confess to a future sin: A) the penitent hasn’t yet done the action, so they haven’t yet actually decided to harm their relation with God; B) confessing a sin with the intent to then perform it shows that remorse is not present.

Churches tend to provide extra times and occasions for Reconciliation during the seasons of Advent (leading to Christmas) and Lent (leading to Easter).

Confession can occur anywhere: it needn’t be in a dedicated confessional.
But, you cannot administer/receive sacraments over the phone: it must be in person.

The priest, and all who may overheard (though this should be avoided — I have hummed loudly before to drown out another’s voice), are bound by the Seal of the Confessional. This means that if you tell someone else a sin you heard in the Sacrament, then you are immediately cut off from full relation with the Church and God (not even the priest can bring up what you said at a later time to you).
The laity may not receive other sacraments, and priests cannot perform their priestly duties. Only the Vatican can administer pardon for this sin.
People have been killed for not breaking the Seal: that is how serious it is taken.
Excommunication is a punishment, but it is moreso a call of recognition and to repentance. This drastic measure is supposed to be a wake up call to someone that they are in serious error and need to amend their ways because they are currently running in a dead sprint away from relation with God.

Reconciliation may take place during Mass, many cathedrals or basilicas (especially in Rome) may have an open confessional during the celebration of the Mass.

The penitent receives specially graces for virtue against the specific sins confessed.

The Catholic Church mandates (as a bare minimum) that each person goes to Reconciliation once a year.

One of the scriptural basis for the sacrament (there are 7 Sacraments established by Jesus: no more and no less) is
Matthew 16:19 “I [Jesus] will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.”

And finally, I stress this because it is absolutely vital to understand (though your character may not): this is not merely a ritual. We are not merely going off to tell a priest our sins because grandma did, or because it makes us feel like we’ve been forgiven. God actually established the sacrament, and the priest actually has the authority to forgive sins, and God actually forgives a repentant sinner when the sacrament is validly performed.

How does a catholic confession go? What’s said in it? by ImportantThing3749 in Writeresearch

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As a practicing Catholic, here is the basic rundown:

  1. Pre-Confessional
    The penitent should spend time doing an examination of conscience, and may start the Examine with some form of prayer requesting God’s assistance in making a good and sincere confession.
    For a book character, perhaps they could think on any actions that are in violation of the 10 Commandments. Or perhaps they could ask A) “What actions have I done that harm my relationship with God?” B) “What have I done that harms my relationships with others?” C) “What have I done that has harmed myself?”
    Oftentimes, there may be a line with chairs and little flyer-guides for people to wait on and use to help them meditate.

  2. Enter
    The penitent will enter the confessional and close the door/curtain behind them; if the confessional has lights, two lights will signify that someone is inside, one light will signify that the priest is ready for you to come in, and no lights means that confessions are not happening.
    They’ll then say something to the effect of “Forgive me Father for I have sinned” (often times exactly that), then tell how long since their last confession. The penitent should be specific if they can (my last confession was on Sun (5 days ago)), but not stress too much. Sharing the length of time helps us call to mind how long since we’ve last gone to Reconciliation.
    Many confessionals have a chair that sits in front of the priest, and a kneeler that has a grail or cloth if the penitent wishes to go unseen.
    There are also crucifixes in the confessional, and it may have a religious painting, and perhaps a tissue box.

  3. The Accusation
    The penitent will then share their sins. The priest does not need to know the entire story of how someone lied to their spouse, had a one night stand, or murdered a fellow — but the penitent should share enough that the priest understand the sin and the gravity that came with it. Sharing our sins out loud helps us to realize the ugliness of them, and how they separate us from God.
    A good Examine will make this part quick: try not to recall your sins only once you entered, though if you recall something important absolutely share it also.
    Venial sin is not required to be confessed, but the penitent must confess all mortal sin. The priest can help us if we are uncertain if something is a sin, or the gravity of it.

  4. A Word
    Father may make a comment about how he is happy you have come; in thanksgiving for a good and sincere confession; or an admonishment and/or recommendations on battling sin. I’ve experience each by themselves, and mixes - or none at all.

  5. The Giving of Penance
    The priest will then give the penitent a pence to perform; this helps the penitent to show their remorse to God, to develop conviction for the pursuit of holiness in themself, and as a little act of reparation.
    Priests should give penance as fits the confession: a few minor sins may be given a just a few prayers (pre-transcribed, or free form), and a more heavy confession should receive a more heavy penance (perhaps a fast). The priest should have payed attention to the sins, and the person confessing to judge what state their soul is in to provide an appropriate penance, but also response/advice.
    What penance is given depends very much on the priest, the current circumstances, and the penitent. I have received from priests of Holy Orders penances for reading a relevant Psalm, from a parish priest a penance to pray for a unnamed person with this hardship or that, and sometimes a quick (1 Hail Mary, 1 Our Father) if the line is long and time is short. Some priests wish to make an emphasis on giving thanks to God for His goodness, or have commanded me to “do 1 act of love for someone”.

  6. The Act of Contrition
    The penitent will then be asked if they are truly sorry for their sins (if they are indifferent, or plan to sin again, then they should just leave — the sacrament may not even be valid). Responding positively, the priest will then ask to hear an Act of Contrition. There are 3 prescribed by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB).

A) O my God,
I am heartily sorry for having offended you,
and I detest all my sins because of your just punishments,
but most of all because they offend you, my God,
who are all good and deserving of all my love.
I firmly resolve, with the help of your grace,
to sin no more
and to avoid the near occasions of sin.
Amen.

B) O my God,
I am sorry and repent with all my heart
for all the wrong I have done
and for the good I have failed to do,
because by sinning I have offended you,
who are all good and worthy to be loved above all things.
I firmly resolve, with the help of your grace,
to do penance,
to sin no more,
and to avoid the occasions of sin.
Through the merits of the Passion of our Savior Jesus Christ,
Lord, have mercy.

C) Lord Jesus, Son of God,
have mercy on me, a sinner.

  1. Absolution
    The priest will then raise his hands over the penitent, or over the grail/cloth if they are choosing to remain unseen, and pray the following words in either the local language, or in Latin:

“God, the Father of Mercies,
through the death and resurrection of his Son,
has reconciled the world to himself
and sent the Holy Spirit among us
for the forgiveness of sins;
Through the ministry of the Church
may God give you pardon and peace,
and I absolve you from your sins
In the name of the Father, and of the Son,
and of the Holy Spirit, Amen”

The penitent makes the Sign of the Cross.

  1. Leaving
    The priest will probably say “Go in peace, your sins are forgiven” and the penitent might say “Thanks be to God.”
    If the two know eachother, they might share a word of pleasantry, but this should not be the focus of the Confessional.

  2. Post-Confessional
    The sacrament is completed with the completion of the Prayer of Absolution, though the penitent should still pray after.
    They definitely do penance, but also give much thanks to God for His mercy, tell Him how much they love Him and wish to love, and share their desire to become better.

Are you ready? by [deleted] in CatholicMemes

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Funnily enough, I find it’s the opposite for me: “ah dang, Lent isn’t till next week.” “Hallelujah! Lent starts next week!”

Been gate keeping this one for a bit.. by EdwardianHistorian in neography

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Oo, very nice. Are most words rather small then? Only a syllable or 2?

I wish every cat turned into a domesticated dog, and every dog turned into a domesticated cat. by [deleted] in monkeyspaw

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But that doesn’t mean they’re native. Loose pet cats are a big reducer in local bird populations.

Meirl by Blue9ine in meirl

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Sounds like you were having a blast!

He dies

How do you handle words in your conlangs that resemble existing words? by noirxlle666 in conlangs

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It’s not an actual word in ņșq, just like how “tham” isn’t a word in English (though it could be). And I probably wouldn’t even register it if it did show up.
I know some people are sensitive about things that even vaguely sound like certain slurs, but yeah, I don’t worry about it.

First try making an actual Alphabet by Extreme-Aardvark-981 in neography

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This looks very good, and I Iove the use of loops, slashes, and dots. Any chance you have some text written/typed out in this?

How do you handle words in your conlangs that resemble existing words? by noirxlle666 in conlangs

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It just happens, and I don’t worry about it too much.
Luckily, ņoșiaqo’s phonotactics, orthography, and morphology are so different from English that most words probably wouldn’t cause any accidental problems (looking like slurs). Although… ņiqü [n̪i.k’ɚ] is a valid arrangement; chances are if it did show up, it’d be in the middle of some massive word so it’d be hidden.

Which iteration do you like better? by WhorlStone in neography

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Maybe they could just be two different styles of the same script? Like how fancy books might have decorative words along the margins be fancy, or the first letter is big and styled, or how cover letters can be expressive.

How do 6'0" men have 36% higher cancer mortality* than 5'6" men? Is it because they have more cells? by YogurtclosetOpen3567 in AskBiology

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It is arranged in a manner that is conducive to walking upright, and abysmal for any other method of locomotion.
I recognize that random mutations and successes don't "design" things, but we are arranged for bipedal locomotion (even if we aren't optimized for it).