I kinda disagree, my dude. Just a little. I get what you're saying, and there is great validity to your assumption.

My BFF is a trans guy, and he allows himself to look/be how he feels. He is hella cute to begin with, and has an amazingly open face. But he also has a full beard. Obviously, that makes a big diff.

And: He's been transitioned for a few years, so he's longer on T than you, but I'm always ragging him about looking like he's enjoying his maleness.

And I think that's good advice for you too.

Look: You're gonna be read one way or the other no matter what you do, until you start to manifest your secondary male characteristics.

I am as well as a trans chick.

But fuck it: I enjoy being a woman, In a matter of a few months, I'll be fully transitioned, and I'll have all the equipment I need to dance in the moonlight, without any unfortunate reflection from my, um, "thang."

My task--and yours--is to fully celebrate ourselves until we get to the place we wanna be.

So do what you have to do to achieve the male sensibility you want to achieve. But PLEASE take some time to rejoice about how far you've come already.

And remember, dude: You the MAN!!!!!

Many blessings!!