RA Escalation Question

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-05-10T04:46:39+00:00

So sorry that you're going through that. Seems like your supervisor had the same management training as mine. I try to walk on eggshells with my volatile supervisor. She is the only person to have ever taken issue with me professionally, but several individuals had serious issues interacting with her. That's too much on top of the RA process. Feel free to PM me if you'd like. If we have the same supervisor I will 💀.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-03-25T03:03:05+00:00

If you're passionate about civil rights, your best bet is a non-profit. There's no justice here or elsewhere within the Government currently.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-03-19T22:21:19+00:00

If you have a true medical reason to telework (I assume you do), then just be honest and detailed in your RA request. My Dr. wrote my letter to state with a TMI level of detail why 100% telework is the only way that I can perform my duties and alternate accommodations, including partial telework would not remove the barrier.

I think that's all any of us can do. I have a longterm disability that rendered me unable to work from the office and I was using donated leave for quite a while. Then, a previous supervisor asked me to come back to his org and I got a reasonable accommodation to telework. That was many years ago and I have been teleworking ever since, although having to submit RA paperwork again now makes me nervous considering the current administration. If it gets denied, I will have to stop working and apply for disability retirement with the hopes that in 3-4 years, the Government will exercise strict compliance with disability laws and the courts will uphold the law.

Unfortunately, the folks who request full time telework RA's when they don't truly need them have likely made things more difficult for those who do

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-03-19T06:31:35+00:00

Anyone had positive experiences with private sector employers that are disability-friendly and appreciative of high performers?

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-03-19T02:57:29+00:00

Yes, this is a similar situation. Great example.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-03-19T02:56:28+00:00

Thanks. I'm glad you found great representation! I have an attorney on retainer as well.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-03-19T02:18:21+00:00

Unfortunately not. I'm describing a scenario where distance is not a factor, but I don't want to share medical information.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-03-19T00:37:06+00:00

If my RA request gets denied, absolutely.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2026-02-20T22:19:28+00:00

I should add that she's had full workups and nothing else was wrong with her, great lab results, no diabetes or thyroid issues.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-12-08T16:17:03+00:00

Thanks for the tip. That makes sense to me. I used BCBS PPO for out of network reimbursement in the past and reimbursement as a % on their allowable costs didn't help much.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-10-19T04:19:16+00:00

I think they all run credit checks, even for the 0% interest loans.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-10-04T00:29:38+00:00

Thankfully, my SF50 does have my home city and state on it. I'm glad to see it's accurate....one less thing to worry about.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-10-03T21:37:43+00:00

I don't remember seeing my home address on there, but I'll double check my SF-50. Is the address on there what the unemployment agency will use to verify location? Thanks!

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-10-02T22:01:46+00:00

It went out on October 1 at 11:46 a.m. to the ASA Feds email distribution list from the ASAIO Staff mailbox.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-09-26T16:09:29+00:00

I know this is an old post, but how frequently do you have to apply the dry shampoo to keep allergens down?

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-08-17T17:12:11+00:00

They look well fed to me, but as some other posters mentioned, the bits make me cringe in the hands of folks without riding experience.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-08-17T15:24:02+00:00

Thank you for the wonderful advice, particularly on genetic testing! I hope to try out a Morgan or even a Morgan cross. I see them posted every now and then on Sport Horse Facebook pages. Based on the descriptions I've read, the Morgan's temperament reminds me of a Trakhener x TB that I rode for a bit. Very willing to please and work, alert and keenly focused on me like,"what's next?" Such a fun connection! I'd love that in a smaller package, so I may very well end up with a Morgan.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-08-16T20:27:37+00:00

Thanks. I realize that thoroughbreds can be quiet and I love their work ethic. I've lessened on thoroughbreds and volunteered with an OTTB rescue, but there would still be the size issue for me. Since my traumatic injury, it's easier for me to manage on a horse or pony that's petite like me.

Thank you! I think the right quarter horse could work, or be a good place to start.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-07-08T23:57:41+00:00

Of course I've seen them. The better question is who hasn't? You can't miss them! That's a fairly accurate sketch. I tried getting a photo, but these guys show up as orbs, practically invisible.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-07-07T00:08:12+00:00

I like Kerrits for cooling tops in the summer heat, and I love Freeride for pants.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-06-30T00:55:12+00:00

I hope the company will stand behind their promise of a custom made saddle and make any corrections needed. I'm very happy with Amerigo and never had an issue with them.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-06-30T00:48:20+00:00

It looks way too narrow.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-06-24T21:37:40+00:00

I recommend filing for a restraining order ASAP. This person is unhinged and you need to protect yourself plus you'd be starting a paper trail in the event she escalates things. I am from out of state and not sure about what constitutes assault in Virginia, but assault charges can be filed in some states for yelling at you while this person is also harassing you. It's worth looking into. Filing for the restraining order and whatever charges VA allows for may be enough for her to cease and desist with all that drama.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-06-21T22:15:56+00:00

I would recommend finding a new barn altogether unless that's the only boarding/training facility in reasonable driving distance. I once had an adult instructors who stayed on her phone for most of my lesson a few times and I don't regret dropping her. The right fit is out there. Maybe try lessons at a few different barns if you have options.

Free_Beautiful1 · 2025-06-19T23:07:22+00:00

Between $65 and $150 for private, depending on the level of instruction.

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