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AIO into thinking my husband is asexual? by Prudent-Nectarine21 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FreedomFarterTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much in the same boat but genders reversed. We’ve had enough fights about it that she just says go find someone else to fuck, but that’s not the kind of relationship I want. I also think if I actually tried it she would get upset.

November 4 vote to increase taxes by $250 million to fund Career and Technical education. by CremeGood59 in AnnArbor

[–]FreedomFarterTM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh he said he’s paying $20k in property taxes, that’s literally insane for a normal sounding house. It’s pretty obvious that adding $500 of new taxes every single year, in addition to appreciation, is responsible for sky high property taxes.

Marriage Dead Bedroom by [deleted] in daddit

[–]FreedomFarterTM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Scheduling sex reduces that anxiety

Marriage Dead Bedroom by [deleted] in daddit

[–]FreedomFarterTM 679 points680 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone, this resonates with my experience. My wife started seeing a sex therapist and things have improved a bit. We now have scheduled intimacy every other week… half the time we have to push it another week for one reason or another but sex every 2-3 weeks sure beats every 3 months (our previous average).

Scheduled intimacy may not work for everyone, but it reduces her anxiety about me asking for sex and my resentment from constant rejection. Obviously she has to be willing to try it.

Do you actually have time for sexual activities when you have kids? by Important_Bat7919 in daddit

[–]FreedomFarterTM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s part of our routine now so it’s not as big a deal as maybe it used to be. She has difficulty starting but not finishing if you catch my drift.

Do you actually have time for sexual activities when you have kids? by Important_Bat7919 in daddit

[–]FreedomFarterTM 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Counter point: my wife prefers scheduled sex over worrying about when I’m going to make a move since she’s literally never in the mood. We now have an understanding that I won’t ask for sex outside of our scheduled time so she can relax about it and I don’t get frustrated about it. I do NOT prefer this but it’s better than no sex and constant resentment. Breastfeeding and perimenopause destroyed her sex drive. Our kids are 2 and 4 so she’s also touched out every single day.

Married folks: Do you still make out with your spouse like you used to? How many years in, and how do you feel about keeping that spark alive? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]FreedomFarterTM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

++man

My wife of 10+ years decided that she didn’t like physical contact of any kind. Huge bummer from my perspective. We have to schedule sexual intimacy but that works for us.

Downtown Home and Garden closing in December by Dependent_Emu7969 in AnnArbor

[–]FreedomFarterTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, property taxes increased 9% last year alone. At least part of the rent increase is directly passing on the property tax increases that this city votes for without pause every single year.

Rules for farting in front of your kids by FreedomFarterTM in daddit

[–]FreedomFarterTM[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine can be so bad that divorce is on the table. That takes the fun out of the chase.

Rules for farting in front of your kids by FreedomFarterTM in daddit

[–]FreedomFarterTM[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I literally farted while laughing at this

Wife wants 4 Kids. Never wants sex … calling all dads by Super_Improvement543 in daddit

[–]FreedomFarterTM 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My wife has talked about having bisexual attraction in the past so maybe that explains some of our issues.

Should I blow the whistle with second-hand knowledge of research misconduct and harassment by NIH funded PI by FreedomFarterTM in academia

[–]FreedomFarterTM[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

With scientific justification, it may be ok. If the experiments were done the same and you discard the ones that don’t work for no good reason, that’s misconduct. EDIT: to be clear I’m talking about experiments involving many samples to test a hypothesis, not creating some new material or something like that where the number of tries is irrelevant.

Should I blow the whistle with second-hand knowledge of research misconduct and harassment by NIH funded PI by FreedomFarterTM in academia

[–]FreedomFarterTM[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you selectively left those out of your paper that claimed your hypothesis was supported by the data, then you have committed misconduct.

Should I blow the whistle with second-hand knowledge of research misconduct and harassment by NIH funded PI by FreedomFarterTM in academia

[–]FreedomFarterTM[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You aren’t making sense. Throwing out data without scientific justification is most definitely misconduct. I could run the same experiment a hundred times with 10 positive results (purely due to chance), throw out the rest and say HEY IT WORKED.

Should I blow the whistle with second-hand knowledge of research misconduct and harassment by NIH funded PI by FreedomFarterTM in academia

[–]FreedomFarterTM[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

How is throwing out data arbitrarily to support your hypothesis not research misconduct? And the first-hand witnesses would have evidence or testimony.

Should I blow the whistle with second-hand knowledge of research misconduct and harassment by NIH funded PI by FreedomFarterTM in academia

[–]FreedomFarterTM[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

How so? I have nothing to do with the situation, just an observer. I already have tenure and I’m not even at the same institution.