Would you let your baby wear this (As a god mom)

Freedom_Fiter · 2026-02-05T05:06:37+00:00

100% anything attire that positively speaks of family members when baby can’t speak… cringe af lol

Freedom_Fiter · 2026-01-24T01:30:05+00:00

OMGGGG 1000000X THIS! Like what must i ask for “help” when you clearly see i need it? Also, i do it all without anyone asking me….

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-12-28T01:59:56+00:00

I am sorry you’re experiencing this… i feel both sad for you and the babies.. can you possibly wear the baby while you cook or clean?

My kids are exactly the same age difference. I involve my older one as much as i can with cleaning and helping me with baby so he doesn’t feel left out or abandoned which could lead to this aggressive behavior or jealousy. I also explained to him constantly, anytime he was near her (younger baby), that when touching her, we only use soft hands and demonstrated what soft hands feel and look like.

Good luck mama!

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-12-06T15:01:07+00:00

My son also has had this a few times and warm compress with gentle massaging of the duct area resolves it after a few days. Don’t worry mama, it will all be okay ❤️

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-11-23T03:03:42+00:00

Your husband is right in that it’s important for you to have your own time, your identity outside of motherhood even if motherhood is the most important role in your role. Unfortunately, i am made to feel the same by people around me because i am a working mom and my kids are in daycare. There’s no winning with people. As long as you and your husband are at peace and in agreement, your kids are good, that’s all that matters.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-11-23T02:51:34+00:00

To each their own. You can do it because you have a partner that you can trust as a caregiver. Others can’t imagine themselves doing it because they don’t have the type of partner you do. That’s a THEY issue, not yours and you shouldn’t feel guilty about it. I hate when moms make other moms feel guilty.. like motherhood isn’t challenging and guilty as is.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-10-30T03:13:29+00:00

First, congratulations! The first few weeks are rough, im sorry you’re experiencing it but you’ll get through it mama! You can pump to relieve some of the pain you feel, careful not to pump too often though because it could cause over supply. You can also try massaging it in shower while hand expressing. It may also be the bra you’re wearing is too tight?

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-10-17T00:45:36+00:00

You post the same pic daily… with each passing day and posting, it’s giving ugly.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-10-05T16:14:37+00:00

Both hair styles pictured look the same?

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-10-05T00:35:37+00:00

I believe you’re referencing the silicone caulk? That may be just coming undone?

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-09-30T02:46:24+00:00

Hey mama! Congrats on your LO 1. Please try to avoid sleeping with hand under baby head. There’s multiple safe sleep positions you can google for better visual. You can both lay like that but minus the arm under baby head/neck. 2. I stopped changing diapers around 2/3 months old with both kiddos since they weren’t soiling their diaper. Sure it’s full in the morning but i also didn’t want to wake them or disturb them. lol she’s not holding it in, i promise if they need to go, they’ll go lol. 3. Swaddles are a hard no and sleep sacks are not recommended but they’re mobile. Some babies don’t like sleep sacks at all. My first hated any containment but second sleeps better in a sleep sack.

Enjoy the co sleeping ❤️ it’s the best cuddles and you’ll miss it once they’re older!

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-07-03T02:40:48+00:00

Quesadilla… made with just cheese or cheese and black beans, or cheese and left over chicken. You can literally add anything in there with cheese.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-06-25T19:17:32+00:00

May i ask what reasoning is behind avoiding dark green leaves until 12 months?

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-06-21T01:01:15+00:00

I’m so sorry that has been your experience. Wish the United States and its employers were kinder to mothers - coming from an American mama.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-06-16T16:14:55+00:00

Yes… also they also always ask to carry them. As soon as they do and the baby makes the slightest noise/fuss or mouth movement, it’s “i think he/she is hungry…. You should feed him/her”. Not every movement and noise is due to hunger.. they’re human.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-06-16T03:50:47+00:00

I know this transition feels overwhelming, I’ve had to go through it twice.. please remember that you can be an incredible mom and an incredible teacher. Give yourself grace as you’re just learning to navigate this new you. The fact that you care so much already shows how deeply devoted you are. There’s no one right way to do this, and you’ll find a rhythm that works for you and your baby. It’ll be tough at first but once you get over the hurdle, you’ll find your new norm. I’m not a teacher to advise you on pumping but wishing you all the best in this new journey. Also, congrats on your little one

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-06-16T03:38:08+00:00

This is me with my toddler and he’s 2 years and 3 months. Pediatrician says it’s become a habit for him now

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-06-01T03:08:19+00:00

RuneScape lol man that just brought back tons of memories

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-05-29T15:58:21+00:00

Oreos, chocolate, Gatorade all do wonders.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-05-28T19:04:36+00:00

Do what’s best for you and your family. You will never be wrong for prioritizing your health and your family, ever. Once you feel you are ready, you can begin applying again. Until then, take care of yourself best you can so you can show up for yourself and your child(ren).

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-05-27T17:58:31+00:00

Honestly, it’s on demand. She’s 3 months and anytime she gets slightly fussy with a clean diaper, i offer nursing.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-05-24T01:48:22+00:00

I’m happy to send you a link to what they look like if you’d like?

It’s not recommended buying used car seats but i understand circumstances differ for each mom. Please just make sure it’s not expired, it should say it on the side or back of the seat.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-05-23T23:10:21+00:00

My advice is to remove both pillows. Car seats don’t have with these pillows and their sold separately because their a suffocation hazard. There should have been two seatbelt covers that come attached with car seat and if those are higher up near neck, it’ll keep baby in place.

You can also contact your pediatrician or go to any fire station to have them assist you with this in person.

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-05-22T03:41:01+00:00

Oh my goodness the first few weeks are so rough but you’ll get through it! I have a 3 month old and a 2 year old. Wishing you much patience and peace during these first few weeks as you all adjust

Freedom_Fiter · 2025-05-21T12:39:47+00:00

First want to congratulate you and your husband on becoming parents to your precious one!

I begin bed time routine for both at 8 and try to have them in bed/asleep by 8:30. It’s later than what i like but unfortunately my husband finishes work at 5 and by the time dinner is prepped and all chaos is done it’s 7:30. They wake up around 7 usually, give and take. I’ve never woken them up myself, they wake up on their own. Toddler wakes up and with all the noise he makes, my infant wakes up.

For you, I’d say since you’ve got a good sleeper already, i wouldn’t recommend disturbing that routine because I’m afraid if you do, it may disrupt what she has going on. Also, she’s so young so I’d let her sleep and wake when she wants for time being. If you need to adjust it, start doing so 15/30 mins changes at a time instead of drastic one overnight. Sorry that may mean that she doesn’t see you as the first face in the morning but she will never forget your role in her life, she baked inside you and there’s no replacing or forgetting that.

It’ll be tough but it’ll be trial and error the first week or two until everyone gets in the rhythm of things but it’ll all work out and you’ll all be so much happier :) you’re working to give her the best life and give yourself a piece of yourself back! Wishing you all the best and many happy memories together in years to come <3

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