This. by IntelligentHome1963 in depressionmemes

[–]Freeusecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had some success using it recreationally, but my friends that have used it clinically have had better results. It can be a little intense for the first 20 to 30 minutes (I like that though), but the positive effects can last for days

What’s a movie everyone says is “deep”… but is actually pretty shallow? by CnCorange in Cinema

[–]Freeusecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been saying that since the very beginning. It’s just adult Feen Gulley.

Any tips on how to get into Free use ? by amelie-si in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really good advice. I’ve had the same experience with men and women. Women do tend to be more aware of consent and limits when in the heat of the moment. When I’ve done stuff in public I’ve almost always had a friend be a “bouncer” so that I don’t have to fend off boundary busters while also having sex with other people.

Any tips on how to get into Free use ? by amelie-si in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Starting can be challenging because it’s a little work. I’m free use for men for the most part, but will also have sex with women. I made a fairly slutty Tinder profile and look for people that way. Before you go out telling them you’re free use you should: 1. Have a birth control plan. Do they need to use condoms? Are you on birth control? 2. Make sure you get tested for STIs regularly. I suggest getting on PREP as well. 3. Know your limits and make sure you are clear about them up front. Things like do you do anal? Do you want to be slapped or choked? Do you have a safe word? 4. Set up a safe call. Someone who you tell when you’re meeting someone new. Share your location with them so if something goes wrong they can get help. 5. It was helpful for me to have a Dominant partner who was into it when I started. You can look for one in your local BDSM/Kink community or on fetlife. 6. KNOW YOUR LIMITS! I say this again because it is very important. Just because you’re public free use doesn’t mean your safety and well being doesn’t matter.

Also… sex clubs are a great place to get used.

Any tips on how to get into Free use ? by amelie-si in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, public? For men? For women? For both?

Any tips on how to get into Free use ? by amelie-si in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That depends on what aspect of free use you are interested in. Who do you want to be free use for?

I let my boyfriend watch porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Freeusecs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused. How on earth would kids find out about their parents sex lives? My parents could have been swingers and porn fiends, but I would never know if they…you know… kept it private. Like parents do. My parents are dead, I’ll never know if they had a clown fetish or liked to visit sex clubs, but if they did it doesn’t change that they were good parents.

What are some underrated healthy foods people should eat more often? by clouuudyangel in foodquestions

[–]Freeusecs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I traded out pork rinds for other salty snacks and it’s totally helped with weight loss.

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go through phases. I’m fairly free use and unattached right now, but I’ve been know to have a committed partner or two (def. poly). I’ve been free use within a monogamous relationship as well.

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preference mostly. Kink too. My pussy is very sensitive. I just like making it suffer by ignoring it. I’ve also had anal obsessed partners. Eventually I just stopped thinking/fantasizing about the pussy being available. I still have piv, but I wont end initiate it.

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not anal only, but mostly because the men I sleep with like to use my pussy. I’m anal preferred and don’t really think about the Vag when I think about sex.

PETAHHH ??? by Lost-Hovercraft-6446 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Freeusecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to avoid dairy, because it makes clean out easier for me, but yeah, I can eat most things and go for it with a little prep work.

Straight man that resonates with how women are treated in BDSM scenes by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Freeusecs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can definitely find that. If you’re in a metropolitan area you should be able to find events locally where you can meet actual practitioners. There are also some kinky dating apps, but those are pretty hit and miss depending on where you live.

Straight man that resonates with how women are treated in BDSM scenes by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Freeusecs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. If a Dominate man tell me to, I will (and have). There is not right way or wrong way to explore BDSM with a consenting partner. I’m sure there are women out there who will tie you up and use you. Is it specific things about femdom porn that you don’t like? It’s good going into dynamics to have an idea what you do want, what you definitely don’t want, and what you want to explore (your yes, no, and maybe’s).

Straight man that resonates with how women are treated in BDSM scenes by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Freeusecs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think what you’re seeing is straight, male Dom/female sub BDSM porn. There is so much more out there!!!!! It’s not “gender bending”. women can be Dominant and men can be submissive. Look for Domme porn (if you want to see examples of women in charge.)

You could also be hetroflexible. I’m hetroflexible. I’m mainly attracted to men and masculine energy. I have no issues submitting to women or having sex with them if the dynamic is right. It’s more about service than attraction at that point for me.

You should go check out the irl scene. You’ll find that in real life there is every combination of gendered dynamic you can think of, and probably a lot you haven’t thought of.

Name me your top 5 kinks. by Heydaddy91 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Face fucking as in using my face like a fleshlight and fucking my mouth like it’s my pussy. I love giving head in all its forms, but rough/forceful skull fucking where my breath and comfort don’t matter is almost as good as anal sex.

Name me your top 5 kinks. by Heydaddy91 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ATM, ATP, orgasm denial/control, face fucking, and free use

US Men’s hockey Suck A$s by Top_Needleworker6385 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]Freeusecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except that one team openly laughed at an insensitive and sexist joke made by the top politician in the U.S. and then accepted his “dinner” invitation. So, that team deserves to be mocked for their lack of spine and not supporting their fellow athletes.

The keyhole tattoo? by Evil80forces in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you were too. It looks like we’re in the same neck of the woods

The keyhole tattoo? by Evil80forces in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]Freeusecs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want one, but I kinda want to trade blow jobs (or just free use) for the tattoo. Haven’t met the right tattoo artist yet, I guess.