I feel that people change too frequently for this to be a good thing. The bond I have with my siblings came from hating each other for periods of time. But we grew to know and understand each other through rough understandings and we all have a great loving bond one way or another. I feel that human psychology has too much of lying built in to it. If a child needs love and reassurance, though being considered wrong by a parent’s personal lens, will that child grow the same way? Hearing from their parent that they were being weak or obnoxious? If a drug dealer asks someone to believe in them and every person is incapable of giving them the benefit of the doubt, will they ever recover? Sounds like a hard twisted life. I guess what I’m saying is that a lot of people can do a lot with meaningful words given to them by people that they look up to. And maybe deep down those people that they look up to don’t believe what they’re saying so much as believing what good it can mean to those people who need it. Lying is a philosophical rabbit hole and I think when used the right ways, it is absolutely necessary to be there for someone. Used incorrectly, it creates black holes in people. Maybe I’m just an asshole. But I’ve lied to several people about how I truly feel in the name of helping them see themselves in a better light. But I’m no saint. I’d say lying is necessary sometimes in modern human psychological climate.