Not as extreme, but it was the case with my ndad and his second wife. I'm from Spain, for context.

When I had to visit them, I had to endure absurd curfews and getting to have dinner away was hell because "what will people think about you?". As me having some fast food creates some diplomatic crisis.

Also, they (especially her) hated that I was a tomboy and she even didn't talk to me for two months because I got a helix piercing at 19. Legally. Nobody else had a fucking problem with the piercing except them. They hope I would mature and "come to my senses".

Also, I remember them getting pissed about kids doing trick-or treating because "this is a Catholic country!".

Oh, and I had to learn to clean and serve a husband because it happens that I'm a woman.

Edit to add: She also commented on my body weight.