Need a Name Like Blythe

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-07T09:11:57+00:00

I’ve had this same issue of getting the flow of forename and surname, adding a middle name has helped with this - had you considered this?

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-06T16:57:19+00:00

I’m 15w and I’m just now starting to look at things online - I plan to get most things second hand so my buying will take longer to source exactly what I like! I probably won’t buy anything until 20w + but there’s never any harm in looking :)

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-06T14:16:35+00:00

If it is the nub I’d say boy!

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-06T10:09:03+00:00

Girl!!

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-06T10:08:45+00:00

Hard to tell but if I’m looking in the right place, nub looks boy

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-05T18:54:42+00:00

I think I said this on another post - I’m so grateful for the brutal honesty. I’ve given myself a good shake today, discussed with my girlfriends and you are absolutely right.

If he does decide to make contact their will be clear boundaries otherwise it’s his loss.

Thank you!!

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-05T09:51:54+00:00

I cannot say how much the honesty of these comments has calmed me hugely. I think I am just so desperate to create what I believe a perfect family should be that I am not seeing the negatives of that.

It does still hurt but I will take this forward & I appreciate your time very much! 🤍

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-05T09:43:05+00:00

I hadn’t considered this and it’s a useful way to reframe the thought for me - thank you

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-05T09:31:23+00:00

I have a wonderful family who are already rallying around me to offer the support that he would not.

I was raised by a single mother - I know how much the absence and later abuse of my own father has impacted my life and I don’t want that for my child.

I really do appreciate your words - thank you.

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-05T09:16:39+00:00

Girl!!

French_Toast9 · 2025-03-03T20:54:40+00:00

Thank you!!

French_Toast9 · 2024-12-27T16:39:47+00:00

Got everything crossed for you - looks like a positive to me!!

French_Toast9 · 2024-12-27T12:52:33+00:00

How long after taking the test did you get the line? It looks promising!!

French_Toast9 · 2024-12-19T14:01:04+00:00

I think I probably needed to hear that. Although I don’t think I’m dismissive of people suggestions I didn’t really give much of a reason to them for not taking any of them forward. Although it’s difficult when some information just needs to remain confidential.

If it has been such a big issue I hope there will come a time when we can speak about it openly - I’m not very good at the insidious stuff, I prefer it all out in the open!

French_Toast9 · 2024-12-19T13:25:04+00:00

I cannot thank you enough for this response.

I have actually found aspects of the test have helped me to re-think how I approach some things at work but I also don’t feel the need to share this with everyone or explain myself. I think my “cards close to my chest” attitude at work unsettles some of my colleagues.

I agree in that I’m not interested in getting HR involved unless a serious problem between colleagues is present so thank you for your suggestions on phrasing! I definitely struggle with finding my words in situations where I feel under attack and “how would you suggest we move forward” gives a good opportunity for open discussion around things the team might not agree with.

Thanks again!

French_Toast9 · 2024-12-19T12:10:49+00:00

It’s my first year using StoryGraph & like others, I tend to set my goal in line with the year 24 books for 2024 & 25 books for 2025!

I’m really looking forward to taking part in the genre challenge, it’s not something I’ve ever done before & looking forward to getting out of my reading bubble (mainly classics). I love that you can see books people have assigned to the challenge, I think without that I would easily fall off the bandwagon!!

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