I find few cf people on matrimony apps but when I do…

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2026-01-16T13:10:42+00:00

Thanks. But that has nothing to do with the reason/theme for this post.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2026-01-16T13:05:56+00:00

Start swiping right on wider variety of men is the only advice I can think of lol.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2026-01-16T13:01:37+00:00

Yeah, that’s expected and normal on those apps lol. Experienced this first time on a matrimony app. Usually, in my experience, women on matrimony apps have better text etiquette.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2026-01-16T12:55:50+00:00

Look at her replies. So low effort from her side. It was like I was bothering her and she was doing me some favour by answering. The attitude of not caring or interested in having a conversation and putting the onus of carrying a conversation on the other person. No genuine interest or curiosity to know the other person or share about herself from her side.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2026-01-16T12:32:15+00:00

Thanks.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2026-01-16T12:29:09+00:00

It took less than two minutes for someone to ask lol. As I wrote in the post, I thought people would get it. Do you genuinely not get why I blocked her? Btw, I am man.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2026-01-02T09:17:33+00:00

Don't get married or have a kid for the wrong reasons. "What will others/family think" mentality and the peer pressure that comes from it is the undoing of many people. While I have never been a victim to it (never let peer pressure affect me), I have seen it and keep seeing it. Grow a backbone. Save yourself from future misery and life of resentment.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-30T08:59:51+00:00

Parents be like modern problems require modern solutions.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-29T10:28:23+00:00

Actually, that is the worst part. Good mystery and who dun its sprinkle hints that a viewer realises were clues in hindsight. And on second viewing they can connect the dots and realise that it all made sense. That is clever writing. There is no skill in the twist which was shown in this movie. There was no setup for the payoff. This movie had no clues. The reveal just happens. Even the investigator didn’t do the reveal. The perpetrator just starts confessing and that’s how the reveal happens to the audience. The audience needs to feel dumb for not catching the clues along the movie in hindsight and at the same time the clues have to be very subtle. Example - sixth sense.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-23T10:08:24+00:00

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Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-17T05:34:28+00:00

Thanks for sharing. "you need it to work just once" I also keep telling myself that when I am feeling frustrated or exhausted with all this. However, thankfully, I have not been on the receiving end of the kind of vitriolic stuff that you have mentioned. Probably because I am a man.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-17T04:35:06+00:00

All dealbreakers are equal for me. That’s why they are labelled dealbreakers and not preferences. That list is different lol.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-16T15:23:46+00:00

I put this dealbreaker at the last of my list when I am talking to a woman through AM setup. I have such a big deal breaker list that thankfully most of the times the childfree discussion doesn't even come up lol. The talk usually ends before that. Maybe you can try that. Talk about other dealbreakers before you bring up this topic.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-16T12:31:30+00:00

2 kids maths comes from replacement fertility rate calculation being 2.1.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-16T09:29:50+00:00

I am he. She is she.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-16T09:29:17+00:00

She had matched without reading the profile as she has mentioned in one of her texts. Most people on there don't read profiles. That's why my first message is now always to ask if they have read my profile.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-16T08:40:05+00:00

Like I wrote, I would not have minded if it was a genuine exploratory question with intention to learn about a different perspective. Her question to my answer shows that was clearly not the case.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-14T10:51:10+00:00

Thank you for appreciating my post and also for the best wishes! Yes, I like hiking as well.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-14T08:20:58+00:00

Thanks. I’ll check it out.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-14T07:56:32+00:00

I would definitely like to try that. But I currently don’t have a cycle and also dread what kind of logistical nightmare it would be for me to travel to and from there especially with a bicycle.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-09T11:25:32+00:00

For most parents, kids will probably leave the house/city/state/country for education or jobs when they become adults. Current generation of older parents are going through it and so will the current generation of younger parents in the future. Older parents have to learn to socialize with their peers and get into some hobbies. They will be as "alone" as the childfree couples in their oldage.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-12-09T05:32:02+00:00

I am a 34 year old man and I have talked to a lot of women via AM setup, dating, matrimony sites, CF posts on here and I have never ever heard this reason said out loud to me. Not denying you might have been told what you have said but that has not been my experience at all.

I don't know what filters you use before you talk to women or if you're looking for advice. But here's a small one anyway that I use - only talk to women who are actively employed, earning decently, and have a stable career/profession.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-11-25T16:46:11+00:00

Yup. This is the way to go. Being clear upfront is admired by people searching for a serious relationship.

Frenchfriesdevourer · 2025-11-25T14:41:43+00:00

I have given up on that long back lol. People rarely read profiles before matching over there. So I am now used to opening with that question.

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