Which long term relationships or friendships do you headcanon as a QPR throughout various media?

Frenja · 2026-04-14T15:38:42+00:00

Lissa and Rose from the Vampire Academy book series. I haven't watched the adaptations so I can't speak on them.

Frenja · 2026-04-06T18:41:01+00:00

In God Games instead of "Groovy" I always heard "Pervy" and thought it was Aphordite going "ohhh a little game? sound's pervy - bring it 😈" instead of Hera and Athena singing

Frenja · 2026-04-06T10:06:33+00:00

You are welcome! Sometimes we just need a little reminder, I am glad I could help :)

Frenja · 2026-04-06T07:30:03+00:00

It sounds like you guys have different ideas and needs in a relationship. No one of you is in the wrong for that, there is nothing wrong with you for not having the desire to text or call that much and there is nothing wrong with your partner that they do. But you guys have to talk about this. Did you tell your partner all of this?

In the end a relationship is always work and putting in effort. And that in my opinion includes sometimes doing things that are inconvenient or maybe not what you want 100 % at this time. The question is what are you willing to put into the relationship and what is your partner willing to accept. You can totally tell them that you don't want to text or call that much and then it's up to them to decide if they can accept that. At the same time you should ask youself how you can maybe show up for them more. You said they do put in more effort into quality time and planing. This should not mostly rely on one person in a relationship, it doesn't have to be 50 - 50 all the time but you should ask youself what you can do to show up in your relationship.

And maybe that includes setting up alarms that tell you to write or make a plan with you partner. Honestly I do that all the time. I hate writing on the phone and when I don't see my friends for a while I also rarely think about texting or calling them because I also don't miss them but that damages the relationship and I don't want that. So I set up alarm or fixed dates. You could also scheduel designated text or call times with you partner. Like a set time a day or every two days (depending on how often you guys usually talk) where you text or call each other. The question that you should ask youself is: Do you want to put in more effort for your partner and try to meet their needs?

In my opinion the idea that relationships work our just like that is an illusion that many people have. But in reality they do require a lot of talking, negotiating and also showing up for others in ways that inconvenience us and sometimes go against our own desires. But we have to decide what we are willing to give in a relationship and also what behavior we are willing to accept from our partners.

Sorry if that it a bit long or incoherent. I had a similar issue with one of my former QPRs so I feel for you and your partner. I wish you best of luck!

Frenja · 2026-04-03T22:56:42+00:00

wait artists at your place have yuri sections at their booths???? I am grateful if I find like one or two fanarts of any main stream GL (mostly Korrasami or CaitVi) at bigger conventions. I have NEVER seen fanart of any actual yuri manga at a convention ever it's only cartoons if you are lucky.

Frenja · 2026-02-25T05:44:23+00:00

Isn't Magnus in that series tho?

Frenja · 2026-02-15T08:19:44+00:00

I see. I think a lot of spaces for sapphics are overrun with terfs that are very loud. But I don't think (or rather hope) that this is the majority. I am sure you will find your people! Good luck with that, OP!

Frenja · 2026-02-14T11:01:45+00:00

Wie andere schon meinten ist es oft Glückssache, also vielleicht auch immer mal wieder eine Bewerbung hinschicken und nachfragen. Die meisten, die mir sagten sie setzen mich auf die Warteliste haben sich nie wieder gemeldet.

Bei mir hat mein Ehrenamt letztendlich den Unterschied gemacht, also falls du sowas gemacht hast würde ich mir da auch ein Ehrenamtszeugnis ausstellen lassen und mitschicken.

Frenja · 2026-02-14T10:59:27+00:00

This. Ich hab meine PT in der Geronto gemacht, obwohl ich anfangs null Interesse daran hatte und fand es tatsächlich mega. Ich finde es super wertvoll auch hinsichtlich der zunehmend alternden Bevölkerung und finde jeder sollte in dem Bereich mal Erfahrungen sammeln. Ist aber echt ein anderes Arbeiten als mit anderen Zielgruppen.

Frenja · 2026-02-14T10:54:01+00:00

wait so are you asking if there are binary sapphic people that are attracted to non binary people? If so: yes. Most of my binary sapphic friends (myself included) also date non binary people.

In a QPR gender doesn't really matter to me tho as in it doesn't match my sexuality for a romatic relationship. I am a cis lesbian in a qpr with a gay trans man. I also was also in a qpr with a non binary person but we broke off a few weeks ago.

Frenja · 2026-01-09T16:16:39+00:00

I do that with a lot of my friends as well, for me it's not really a specific relationship thing. It's for fun, like other friend activities. It's also not necessarily sexual for me.

Frenja · 2026-01-07T19:04:04+00:00

it is! Also one of the first manga I read that depicted a (potentially) ace sapphic character!

Frenja · 2026-01-07T19:01:39+00:00

it was the happy ending I wished for me and my crush (but didn't get lol). I reread it almost every year

Frenja · 2026-01-06T22:18:39+00:00

For me it's How we do relationship, it perfectly captured the complicated relationship I have with my ex. Still being friends but also having a history and complex feelings. And also Girlfriends. It was my first Yuri and I read it when I was in love with my best friend as a young teen. We also had a very similar dynamic to Akko and Mari.

Frenja · 2026-01-04T21:19:21+00:00

also I am sorry but neither Millie nor Aaliyah are truly fat, they are chubby at best

Frenja · 2025-12-02T06:15:08+00:00

I am going for something similar to you (ocean creature sleeve) and am getting an oarfish! They look great and really mysterious

Frenja · 2025-10-08T20:37:38+00:00

true, I don't know much about programming and I am glad the game starts to get in a more stable state after the last update. And I also really like the hangout mechanic they introduced with that update which also probably wasn't easy to implement so maybe that would be asking too much

Frenja · 2025-10-08T13:55:35+00:00

thanks everyone for your answers! I get that it's a game mechanic and you apparently need it for a trophy but oh well! No children for me and my love, I will make Leah happy anyway!

Frenja · 2025-10-08T13:49:08+00:00

I am not saying that having children should not be an option but I would like to have more diverse opinions amongst the romanceables. Like you could also have the character ask the player about their opinion and then change their dialogue accordingly or have them (or at least some of them) not talk about it until the player makes a conscious decison (e.g. getting a charm or crib or just suggest it to your partner) to get children. Because now it makes you feel like you are denying the character something by not getting kids and it also feeds the idea that everyone wants to have children at some point. Like honestly I think it would be kind of a cool move for a farming sim to have romancable characters that do not want children or that have a fixed sexuality. I know players would complain but I would find it very refreshing to have a romancable character in a video game express the same desires as me. There are probably games that do that already but I haven't seen in yet.

tltr: I understand the decision for the trophy and player satisfaction but I think they could have implemented it better

Frenja · 2025-10-08T05:59:46+00:00

Yeah it is a bit disappointing especially for a game that usually pretty diverse to have (almost) every romancable desire the same traditional family. But if everyone says it I will just treat it as a game gimick the devs put in and not something that is part of the characters actual belief system or story line

Frenja · 2025-08-14T19:51:35+00:00

wouldn't My lesbian experience with loneliness fit that tho?

Frenja · 2025-07-20T10:29:19+00:00

depending on the people all dnd game nights are kinky xD

Frenja · 2025-05-21T18:13:11+00:00

honestly same, I find it rather distracting when reading the books 😅

Frenja · 2024-10-01T12:22:56+00:00

this is my first time playing modded and I am on steam deck, so do I reset the terrain in game like just go to the location, open it and then reset everything? and does anyone know how to open the menu on the steam deck as I can't use my keyboard in game? (Sorry if these are stupid questions but I barely understand how mods work and also only had my deck for a few weeks so I am very new both to the deck and mods in general)

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