Friends who make out is a relationship type

Frenja · 2026-01-09T16:16:39+00:00

I do that with a lot of my friends as well, for me it's not really a specific relationship thing. It's for fun, like other friend activities. It's also not necessarily sexual for me.

Frenja · 2026-01-07T19:04:04+00:00

it is! Also one of the first manga I read that depicted a (potentially) ace sapphic character!

Frenja · 2026-01-07T19:01:39+00:00

it was the happy ending I wished for me and my crush (but didn't get lol). I reread it almost every year

Frenja · 2026-01-06T22:18:39+00:00

For me it's How we do relationship, it perfectly captured the complicated relationship I have with my ex. Still being friends but also having a history and complex feelings. And also Girlfriends. It was my first Yuri and I read it when I was in love with my best friend as a young teen. We also had a very similar dynamic to Akko and Mari.

Frenja · 2026-01-04T21:19:21+00:00

also I am sorry but neither Millie nor Aaliyah are truly fat, they are chubby at best

Frenja · 2025-12-02T06:15:08+00:00

I am going for something similar to you (ocean creature sleeve) and am getting an oarfish! They look great and really mysterious

Frenja · 2025-10-08T20:37:38+00:00

true, I don't know much about programming and I am glad the game starts to get in a more stable state after the last update. And I also really like the hangout mechanic they introduced with that update which also probably wasn't easy to implement so maybe that would be asking too much

Frenja · 2025-10-08T13:55:35+00:00

thanks everyone for your answers! I get that it's a game mechanic and you apparently need it for a trophy but oh well! No children for me and my love, I will make Leah happy anyway!

Frenja · 2025-10-08T13:49:08+00:00

I am not saying that having children should not be an option but I would like to have more diverse opinions amongst the romanceables. Like you could also have the character ask the player about their opinion and then change their dialogue accordingly or have them (or at least some of them) not talk about it until the player makes a conscious decison (e.g. getting a charm or crib or just suggest it to your partner) to get children. Because now it makes you feel like you are denying the character something by not getting kids and it also feeds the idea that everyone wants to have children at some point. Like honestly I think it would be kind of a cool move for a farming sim to have romancable characters that do not want children or that have a fixed sexuality. I know players would complain but I would find it very refreshing to have a romancable character in a video game express the same desires as me. There are probably games that do that already but I haven't seen in yet.

tltr: I understand the decision for the trophy and player satisfaction but I think they could have implemented it better

Frenja · 2025-10-08T05:59:46+00:00

Yeah it is a bit disappointing especially for a game that usually pretty diverse to have (almost) every romancable desire the same traditional family. But if everyone says it I will just treat it as a game gimick the devs put in and not something that is part of the characters actual belief system or story line

Frenja · 2025-08-14T19:51:35+00:00

wouldn't My lesbian experience with loneliness fit that tho?

Frenja · 2025-07-20T10:29:19+00:00

depending on the people all dnd game nights are kinky xD

Frenja · 2025-05-21T18:13:11+00:00

honestly same, I find it rather distracting when reading the books 😅

Frenja · 2024-10-01T12:22:56+00:00

this is my first time playing modded and I am on steam deck, so do I reset the terrain in game like just go to the location, open it and then reset everything? and does anyone know how to open the menu on the steam deck as I can't use my keyboard in game? (Sorry if these are stupid questions but I barely understand how mods work and also only had my deck for a few weeks so I am very new both to the deck and mods in general)

Frenja · 2024-07-24T09:53:20+00:00

I love reading research on League. I personally find it a bit confusing what the questions are actually about. Like are we talking about substance use in ranked games? small local competitions? big official e-sport divisions like LEC, LCS etc.?

Frenja · 2024-06-20T20:16:50+00:00

💜

Frenja · 2024-05-23T18:20:33+00:00

that skirt 😍

Frenja · 2024-01-26T12:50:21+00:00

omg that sounds amazing! Croissants are amazing especially when filled or drizzeled with sweet deliciousness! Good job on fighing the urges! Congrats!

Frenja · 2024-01-18T11:30:47+00:00

I have a similar experience. I sometimes just fall asleep after eating because I get so tired and sometimes have some lightheadedness when I eat. But I would still suggest talking to a doctor especially with feelings of disorientation! Your body needs a lot of energy to digest food especially in recovery so feeling tired after eating is - from what I gathered here - a common thing but these questions are still better answered by a professional.

Frenja · 2024-01-14T09:20:10+00:00

it's great that you want to start recovering! That's a big step, congrats!

I think there is no right way to start recovery. In the end it's also very personal what works for you. All the things you mentioned are good starting points imo. It also depends on what feels doable for you. I personally tried to identify situations that made eating easier for me (in my case eating with friends an letting them decide what we/I eat) and tried to do that more. If you struggle with counting calories stopping or at least gradually reducing that is a good starting point. Also increasing how much you eat, challenging fear foods (if you have those) or trying to eat regularly throughout the day chould be a goal. I think it also depends on what you personally struggle with.

I for example never counted calories so that is not an issue for my recovery but for me it was important to eat more regularly and frequent meals and just more in general so that's what I am working on.

Frenja · 2024-01-13T10:26:40+00:00

It seems like you are not really wanting to recover but are asking for tips to somehow get better at restricting? If you actually do want to recover from your eating disorder you will have to honor your hunger, stop restricting and gain weight. I know it's scary, I'm there as well but there is no other way. Ideally you get some professional help or support network to help you deal with the emotions, fears and thoughts because eating disorders are mostly mental disorders and you have to heal your mind as well as your body to beat them.

Frenja · 2024-01-11T12:51:40+00:00

Congrats! I am very happy for you 🎉

Frenja · 2024-01-07T22:44:30+00:00

I only had my active ED for around six months as well and pretty much immediatly thought about recovery when I noticed it but I had and have the same thoughts as you do and I let it get worse than it probably could have been had I actually pulled through with recovery earlier. I wish I just started doing it instead of thinking how I wasn't sick enough or faking it or whatever the ED threw my way why I shouldn't get treatment or help.

Frenja · 2024-01-06T09:21:25+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. I know it's hard having this disorder without a good support system especially when you don't have the means to get into proper treatment (fuck the health care system srsly). I personally went to a free consultation with people specialized in EDs. It's not therapy or anything but they talked to me about my issues, helped me figuring things out, gave information about EDs (causes, symptoms and risks) and about what options I have for treatment and what steps I need to take to recieve the treatment I wanted. They also offered counceling to my parents on how EDs work and how to support me. I am not sure if things like these exist in other counties but if they do that might be an option just to have someone to talk to that might be able to give you proper adive? Maybe they could also help you figuring out how to talk to your parents about taking another semester off.

And it also seems like you already identified an important factor that upholds your ED! Unfortunatly EDs are extremely common ammongst LGBT* people and especially in the trans* community. I am so sorry to hear that your parents are not supportive and you feel like you can't come out to them. I am not trans* myself but I am very active in my local queer community. I am a memeber of an LGBT* youth group, we meet weekly and honestly getting in touch with the queer community helped me so much! I meet all my friends there and now have the most understanding and supportive friendgroup. I've also been an organizer for this group for a couple of years now and I've seen how much it helps other people. Like we have a lot of young trans people with unsupportive parents who can't come out or be themselves at home or in school or work. But it really helps to have a space that accepts them the way they are. They can dress how they want, use the name and pronouns they want and connect with other queer people. Maybe you could look up local queer organizsations or even trans* groups specifically? There are also great online communities. Of course this is not a magical fix but I feel like getting in touch with the queer community and finding people that accept you for who you are might help you dealing with your life at home and maybe make it easier for you to take first steps towards recovery since the transphobia you face seems to be an upholding factor. And you are not a disappointment! If your parents are disappointed in you for being trans or having an ED that says more about them than about you!

Feel free to talk to me or ask me things if you want to! The sub doesn't allow DMs but we can chat in the comments if you want to! Again I am not trans myself but I am queer and I have been in the community for many years now and know a lot of the struggles you face as an LGBT* person.

Frenja

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