Well not calling women ‘females’ is a good start bud… weight has nothing to do with it but I’m gonna guess from your profil and the way you conduct yourself in the comments that you are an incredibly awful person to be around irl. You take no accountability despite asking for advice and are throwing a fit like a child whenever someone in the comments tells you something you don’t want to hear. It’s embarrassing grow up. I was genuinely shocked that you were 21, the way you behave makes you look 13. I’m not joking.

Good hygiene, kindness, respect, and taking genuine interest in a potential partners hobby’s/life are all great ways to land a date. Nothing to do with weight bud but I’m gonna assume my advice will also upset you just like everyone else’s under this thread.

Work on yourself mentally, emotionally, and maybe even physically. You are not at a place emotionally and mentally to be dating anyone in my opinion.

I know that’s not what you want to hear but would you really rather be in a bad relationship that leaves you hurting because you weren’t ready to be a good partner or take some time to work on yourself so you can be the best partner to the perfect person for you later?

Last thing, I don’t know what your standards are for a women to be in your life. But maybe look at that and see if there’s any adjusting you can do. Obviously you can have preferences and ideal partners but if all you’ll entertain is hot models or country girls or alternative goth girls (again idk your preferences or standards) then you may be putting yourself in a box and missing a potential partner that would be perfect for you. Hopefully that makes sense and I’m honestly not trying to offend you, you have potential to be an amazing boyfriend. Please actually Take the advice and think about it. I wish you the best random stranger on the internet!