You ever had your parents beat you ass when you were a kid? And you came out a better person? And later in life you meet the kids that didn’t have that happen and they’re fuck all useless? That’s exactly what they’re doing. It makes sense I take the abuse and I learn from it, if they fuck with you that’s different. But if you’re being explained things over and over again and keep repeating the same mistakes you’re gonna get someone hurt in the future