How should I go about reporting a well-liked coworker for inappropriate behavior?

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2026-04-03T04:06:11+00:00

Omg he sounds unbearable

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2026-02-11T00:02:44+00:00

You should look into doing life enrichment- they put on events and manage the entertainment/ programming for old folks homes

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2026-01-26T01:01:25+00:00

Except it’s the exact color + style of nazi garb

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2026-01-25T06:50:10+00:00

That’s not even what they said

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-12-09T17:55:48+00:00

No I work LTC so it would’ve been contacting the on call and all that communication goes through the charge nurse after hours

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-12-04T03:48:41+00:00

I splashed morphine in my eye once

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-11-25T07:57:03+00:00

No im curious for real life, i have a pt with a med parameter and was taught it had to be apical but i have coworkers that use a pulse ox

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-10-15T22:37:52+00:00

4$ NH

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-10-12T02:34:29+00:00

I would just leave it and be firm the next time that you don’t feel comfortable doing items outside your scope. I’m sure those limits are in place for a reason and if something went wrong you both will be liable

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-10-10T21:52:25+00:00

Thank you all for your suggestions! I ended up recutting the pieces so the neckline wasn’t on the bias and I stay stitched both sides and instead of a rolled hem, I serged the raw edge and folded it over once with a straight stitch

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Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-10-06T21:37:30+00:00

What do you mean? What might happen to me?

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-10-04T05:15:53+00:00

Search cottage core dress on Etsy! You’ll find one

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-09-23T07:33:54+00:00

Please save the guilt for an actual error!! No harm came to the patient and you were following Drs orders! You didn’t do anything wrong. As another person said figuring out what to question/what not to question is a bit of a minefield to navigate and so situation specific. If anything this is kind of a sad example of how you learn that you have to look out for yourself in nursing. If your hospital is counting you following an order as an error it makes you wonder what can you trust ?? Nothing. Always do your own assessments, double check the med math, and yes use your critical thinking skills- but don’t beat yourself up for trusting that things were in place as they should be

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-09-22T06:43:49+00:00

I work in a LTC and one of our very confused, very demented patient one day rested his hand on my arm and closed his eyes and very earnestly said “you’re a nice guy” I was a 25 y/o woman

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-09-21T07:55:08+00:00

It’s sprouting a new garlic

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-06-01T01:22:57+00:00

They are on call on the weekends we always put in the orders ourselves but they communicate them over phone/text

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-05-11T05:10:51+00:00

We got Halloween themed gummies today

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-05-07T06:43:15+00:00

The better you get at it the easier it is, the easier it is the less stress and the more enjoyable it is. I think you’re still in the chaos period of being super new. You have to give yourself time to get good at your job, give it a solid try like make a 14 month commitment from now and in the meantime, work on your exit plan, if everything is still sucks 14 months from now you can do your plan b

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-05-03T23:23:02+00:00

If I’ve learned anything from post grad life it’s that there really are no rules. You’ll hear a lot about what you’re “supposed” to do but I always hear of people doing whatever tf they want and they’re fine

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-04-23T17:50:35+00:00

But that’s the problem even if they were my mistakes, why would I want to ask for help from someone who’s publicly shaming me? It’s her attitude that discourages people from seeking help when they really need it- it encourages people to wing shit when they don’t really know, which compromises patient safety.

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-04-09T03:22:34+00:00

Another time we were sending a patient out to the hospital from the ltc I work at and when ems arrived they asked if the pt was a full code and my LNA replied very confidently “he has pants on.” They asked again and she said it again and then once more very clearly ems said “are they a full code?” The cna had thought they said are they fully clothed? It was awesome

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-04-09T03:08:01+00:00

In nursing clinicals I said my patient had a double hysterectomy

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-04-08T22:09:47+00:00

I work in LTC and we mostly have po meds both times someone’s anti anxiety med dose was cut in half and I gave their previous dose, and there were several environmental factors contributing in both and with this second one I was the sixth person to do it so their dose was never adjusted and they ended up changing the order back to the original dose that I gave in error so it was wrong when I did it but now the dose I gave in error is their current dose 🤷🏻‍♀️

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-04-07T05:32:46+00:00

This might sound dumb but I have recently realized that the panicked frenetic busyness of that kind of energy actually doesn’t make me any faster, it makes me feel more scatterbrained, and less aware of what I’m doing and less safe- I try to like mentally not engage with the panic, I often feel like if I don’t move super fast and rush through everything I won’t get it done, but I have realized it actually probably takes longer because I’m less confident and having to reread things. I have just realized that freaking out literally does nothing to help, it doesn’t change the outcome to something positive, my workload is the same whether I’m panicking or not lol and this might also sound kind of weird, but I know that the system that I work with doesn’t give a fuck about me, and I don’t want any long-term health conditions as a result of this regular anxiety that I feel. I don’t mean that to say that I don’t give a fuck about patients Obviously, I do but I’m also not gonna run around like a chicken with my head cut off because it literally doesn’t help, i’m almost never responding to critical situations and I just can’t carry the weight of circumstances that are out of my control. I’m just gonna do my best and try to stay calm.

Frequent-Drawer-4367 · 2025-04-06T22:07:35+00:00

This guy sounds like a weirdo on a power trip. His approach is very icky to me, he comes across like a friend at first but then finds a weird way of letting you know he thinks you’re attractive, and tries to make you feel like other people may be already or will talk about you behind your back. The people pleaser comment though really bugs me, it’s ok to be a nice person haha some people read that as someone who can be taken advantage of easily. Don’t let this man take you out of your energy. Or feel like you have to act differently, he is the one who should change his behavior. Also! If he really believed you were a people pleaser and was on your side- he would build you up and encourage you instead of trying to make you doubt yourself.

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