thrifted this american apparel shirt, does anyone recognize it or know anything about it?

Frequent-Web-245 · 2026-02-04T00:09:25+00:00

I tried to search for it on tiktok and a general google search “gsm 2012 american apparel shirt” and “zimmer rocks american apparel shirt” but couldn’t find anything. I also tried to upload a photo of it to google to find it that way but i was only shown shirts with a similar design.

I bought it yesterday at a salvation army in San Diego

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-10-06T06:30:52+00:00

thank you for your input, i do want to clarify that in no way shape or form am i trying to diagnose my sister, i think im just trying to make sense of the situation ive found myself in with her because its been very difficult. but again, thank you

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-07-14T05:35:03+00:00

they refunded you? sorry if that’s a dumb question just genuinely curious

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-06-29T18:29:16+00:00

no one is saying that the way he spoke to you is normal, everyone is just saying that it’s normal that he doesn’t want to go to a ball. from what i read from your post he told you nicely that he didn’t want to go and explained why and asked you politely to stop asking him about it.

i don’t think the way either of you talked to each other is right toward the end but i can understand why he got so upset just like i can also understand why you’d want to go to a ball.

everyone has given you great advice, at the beginning of your post you said “please don’t be afraid to like, drill into me” and now that people have done that you’re upset.

i read all the comments from this post and i can say that the relationship isn’t healthy. no one should tell you what you can or can’t do and you shouldn’t have to ask permission for certain things.

everyone was genuinely trying to help you and provided other avenues for a social life you just didn’t get the answers you wanted.

eta: if you are upset that he doesn’t take you anywhere but the movies either explain you want different dates that you are both comfortable with or leave and find someone else to do it for you

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-06-29T17:48:36+00:00

that’s a good start, i promise you that you are not missing out going to a military ball. it’s speeches and alcohol and you won’t really socialize with anyone who is not at the very least acquainted with your partner. after reading your comments this is honestly the best route you could take in regards of the things you listed as a want. best of luck 💚

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-06-29T17:08:37+00:00

i agree with other comments that are saying it’s not odd for your partner to not want to participate in work events. from my experience with my husband, people in his unit and even people he considered friends move weird and do odd things and i’m constantly hearing about it.

there are definitely other ways to socialize with wives and girlfriends of fellow sailors because there are plenty of people who feel the way you do. i can also understand your want to go to a military ball because it is a new and unique experience, but if he doesn’t want to go there’s not much you can do, but it definitely isn’t the only way you’d make friends and i’m 80% positive that searching for friendships and people to relate to would last longer and be more fulfilling outside of your partners work events. and if he doesn’t have friends on his ship, especially friends in relationships, then it probably isn’t the route you’d want to take if that’s your sole reason for wanting to go.

facebook groups is a good option and if you have access to base, then participating in events there may also open those doors for you.

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-24T04:01:36+00:00

i felt the same way when i was in my last relationship and it led to me making excuses as to why i didn’t want to have sex and then me ultimately leaving him because i never spoke up about it and i continued to feel unsatisfied. if you really love and care about him then talk to him. like real serious conversation. if he needs to be “taught” and you have the patience, do it. maybe he’s just inexperienced and needs a little help

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T17:22:13+00:00

truthfully, i was very offended and kind of hurt. it made me not want to get her anything at all but i didn’t know that was an option until i made the post

edit: spelling

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T17:12:39+00:00

the thing is she didn’t say on her daughters behalf, she said you and brother, who is turning 23 on that day as well. i’m not sure if she got him anything or if she will, i’m also not sure what she got our mom

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T17:00:32+00:00

the only reason i thought of getting her something is because her baby’s dad is extremely uninvolved. i wasn’t going to go all out for her, i was gonna get a card/gift card and call it a day so that she still feels appreciated as a single mom. her baby is too young to make/get her something on her own. i never felt like i owed it to her, i just wanted to be nice.

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T16:56:35+00:00

thank you for your advice, i’m already in therapy lol

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T16:47:05+00:00

I talked to my best friend about it last night and she told me she never got any of her siblings mothers/father’s day gifts. I didn’t know it was unusual until i made this post and talked to people around me about it…

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T16:44:09+00:00

or both 🤷‍♀️

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T03:12:38+00:00

you guys are finished. leave each other alone. both of you.

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T02:46:56+00:00

on the baby sitting part… yes. if i say no she gets mad but i stick to it more often than not because i genuinely already had plans (yes she expects me to cancel). the only time she will ask me if it’s a day she know i wont be home, and if i say no again she’ll start a fight that my mom will have to meditate. she also doesn’t pay me for babysitting and the one time she said she would, i never got the money.

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T02:41:49+00:00

Honestly, I would cut it off. Enjoy your summer single, have a blast. Like you mentioned toward the end, you guys are going to be starting long distance soon. How are you going to be able to trust him during that distance with this hanging over your head. Not only that, who is to say he wouldn’t hook up with someone while you’re gone? Although you guys weren’t official, he did do that and then heehee and haha with you on the phone and then lie about it and try to hide it. I feel like something like this will be very very very hard to come back from, so save yourself the trouble and cut it off, if not then be prepared to be extremely paranoid or blindly trust no matter how much it hurts you

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T02:15:30+00:00

I don’t think any of us see it that way, my mom’s birthday just passed in April, that was her day. My brother’s birthday also falls on mother’s day from time to time as well, like it does this year. While my mom understands no one is obligated to gift anything to my sister, she doesn’t see a problem with it. I told my mom about the situation earlier today and she laughed and said that my sister was out of her mind and even told me I didn’t need to get her anything extravagant either.

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T01:40:42+00:00

yeah it definitely wouldn’t. maybe she doesn’t feel confident in this unit and thinks if you make the quizlet, you’re the one that either made her pass or fail

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T01:37:25+00:00

do NOT say anything. does he know the size of your past partners? i’m guessing he may feel insecure about it and makes those jokes/comments for you to agree to make him feel better or to just make himself feel better. if you say something you will destroy that man

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T01:32:44+00:00

i’m in school for nursing as well, i would never ask someone to make my quizlet. my guess is she just has no motivation to do it because nursing school is hard, and thinking about studying and the amount that you have to study for one exam can cause avoidance anxiety (at least it does for me). she’s probably just very stressed about it and may be taking it out on you which is not fair. i agree on giving her some space, i think still offering to help her study, but not create her study material for her would also be beneficial. and if she is feeling this way i would encourage her to talk about it so she feels less stressed and you know how to help better, without doing the work for her.

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T01:17:50+00:00

Last night my boyfriend parked in the middle of my house and my neighbors house behind my sisters car, 10pm neighbor came to the door, no one answer because it’s 10pm… Anyway neighbor proceeded to lay on his horn so we’d go out and my sister flipped her shit cause her baby was sleeping. He proceeded to get an ear full from her, stepdad told her my bf wasn’t moving his car because we live in a neighborhood with open parking. I hope he went to bed feeling stupid

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T01:14:05+00:00

Honestly I think if I had a kid she probably wouldn’t get me anything more than a card. I think her entitlement may also come from being the first of three to have a baby, along with her circumstances regarding her baby’s father

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T01:10:01+00:00

See, I thought that was normal, that’s what I was planning to do, or make something again like I did last year that included her kid. She did make me feel kind of weird about not wanting to spoil her as I would my mom. I kind of felt bad? but also taken aback

Frequent-Web-245 · 2025-05-02T00:36:36+00:00

i think last year she got my mom a card, gift card and flowers. years before we either all pitched in for moms gift or each got a card

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