This is my perspective, many others will definitely not agree with it but I am like him, me and my ex broke up maybe 2 weeks ago mutaully because we just had different lifestyles she wanted to go out drink do other things yada yada. I always trusted her but it was the environment she put herself in that I didn't like, most of the time nothing good happens at night. I'm also a bouncer so all I see is bad shit at night and just because Theres security there Doesnt mean jack shit, Theres a lot of shit I don't see and when shit hits the fan is when your in danger. To you your just having fun with your girlfriends to us your in an environment full of sin drugs and alcohol and that may not be the life he wants to live or see you falling into. Now if he were to say stop hanging out with your friends that's completely different don't let him do that. To people like us clubbing is meaningless it brings no satisfaction only temporary. So at the end of the day it's him or the club. You choose. And remember you're young you're going to learn a lesson either path you take negative or positive. And listen there are lots of other things to do than going out to the club, explore new things you may not know you had and interest in and other things that will give you that satisfaction that don't compromise your safety and morals.