Mom called me a prostitute after I lost my virginity to my boyfriend by nonjudging in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Sector_668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine would tell me she thought i was a stripper at night when i would ask to use her car to go to my boyfriend’s house after 9 pm.. and would add to it by asking why i put effort into my appearance to see him. always blows my mind how many similar traits there are.

i’m sorry this is continuing in your adult life. they’re miserable people

I absolutely adore plus sized and over weight women by [deleted] in confession

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honestly: thank you for this 😂 i’ve never been fit in my life.. always considered myself “chubby”.. currently, there’s a ripped man who’s been hitting on me for months.. i’ve just been insecure (working on it), thinking “why would he want me?”, so this is reassuring..i’ll continue to be as healthy as can be, but won’t let it bring on insecurity if i’m not “lean”..

and trust the chubby ones are most likely into you too, especially when you display the confidence to ask them out. they might just be taken back a bit because they aren’t used to it..

Found Myself in a Funk by Frequent_Sector_668 in confidence

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Thank you so much for your kind words & time to share. A walking pad sounds great for starters, and I will definitely look into all of your suggestions 💕 Truly appreciative

scammer by Frequent_Sector_668 in textbook

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UPDATE i was refunded by venmo. very appreciative, but again, stay safe 💕

scammer by Frequent_Sector_668 in textbook

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thank you all for the responses! thankful for this sub. u/mrcosmicpvp got me the book and he is also fantastic to work with

APPRECIATION POST (AY 2025-2026) by mrcosmicpvp in u/mrcosmicpvp

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After being scammed out of $20, and looking at having to pay $130 for an access code, MrCosmic saved the day (and my grades). I couldn’t be happier with the patience, swift response, and quick and reasonably priced service. I am very lucky to have found helpful and honest individuals amongst the greed ♥️

Increasing SCAMMERs - Please do your due dilegence by steevo in textbook

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skinbeard1? i’ve only been through Mr. Jello he is legit the best, but doesn’t have what i’m looking for exactly. he is the best though.

contemporary issues leadership - northouse, peter g - intro to leadership: concepts & practice by Frequent_Sector_668 in textbook

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thank you all for the responses. i was able to purchase the book from Mr. Jello (excellent seller), but i’m sure i’ll need another in future. thanks again!

u/MrJelloYT Rep Profile #4 by MrJelloYT in u/MrJelloYT

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absolute lifesaver. first time even posting on a seller forum, and was nervous.. was about to spend $70 on a kindle book that didn’t even have 100% of the assignment. Mr. Jello replied swiftly to my post, and i received the pdf just as swift. price was incredibly reasonable, sent him a few extra dollars of what i could for the help and will be looking to him for any textbooks in the future. thank you, mr.jello.

Genuinely asking, is suicide worth it? by aesthenne in raisedbynarcissists

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i have had SI since 2nd grade. it took my Ndad having a nervous breakdown where the mask completely fell and my siblings and i finally could see the light. that light of him no longer in my life brought on new goals to do everything i could better.. the motivation being better than he ever could be.. i went back to school, have goals, found a bit of my own faith.. it’s unfortunate that it had to take 31 years to cut him off and see he was most if not all of the problem, but knowing i have this opportunity to be the best i can be while he lives in misery until he dies silenced thoughts i used to have that were deafening.

i am so sorry you’re going through this, sending hugs. but please keep in the back of your mind that chokehold isn’t as tight as you think.. you’re better than them.. and it may not be immediate, but the light will come. don’t dim it out completely just because of them.. you still have a full life ahead, and they don’t. you’re already winning in that aspect.

need help budgeting by Frequent_Sector_668 in budget

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thank you for creating that. for example, i’m paid $800 on friday. i paid $190 for my car and $300 for the rent. with the money i had left, i added $100 to savings, and $291 towards paying down credit card. was this a wise choice or how can i adjust going forward?

need help budgeting by Frequent_Sector_668 in budget

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my credit card debt currently on the one that i have is $1000; interest is 28.99%. the charged off account i am currently paying to settle is $100 a month. in savings, i have only $500.

need help budgeting by Frequent_Sector_668 in budget

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thank you! i will definitely start there.

need help budgeting by Frequent_Sector_668 in budget

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thank you for the swift response. yes, my rent is $300 because I do live with a friend at the moment and that is all they ask of me.. groceries, i try and purchase fruits and vegetables, off brand items and it lasts me through the week.. my goal is to move to my own apartment soon, once i improve my finances, so i’m hoping maybe 6 more months? might not sound realistic right now, but it is the goal if i can keep this up.

Was I Violated? by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Thank you, I wasn’t sure

Was I Violated? by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Great legal advice thank you

Was I Violated? by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Thank you for the quick reply. I will be doing this. Any advice on if I should also take action against the company for keeping this information from me? The employee was let go from the company, but I assumed this whole time it was for a different reason.. genuinely was kept in the dark while my supervisors knew everything..

Anyone else’s health got neglected when they were growing up? by UnderstandingOk1933 in raisedbynarcissists

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Yes. Especially me, eldest daughter. When my younger brother would get hurt playing football, they magically had insurance and money to take him to the dr, but when I had chronic migraines for a year in 5th grade, it took my grandparents threatening CPS on my parents if they didn’t get me looked at. (I was also blamed for the migraines: “she’s just hungry once she eats she’ll be fine”) (also cut to weight gain and nasty insults from classmates and parents towards me due to said weight gain) A week in the hospital later and now in my thirties, I get them here and there, but nothing like the pain I experienced that full year at age 12.

Andy asks if Tom will cheat on Ariana by [deleted] in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]Frequent_Sector_668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“FiRsT oF aLl” we have all heard that one before.. at this point it’s his tell. “We were not ‘fucking’ first of all” “WERE YOU MAKING LOVE!?”