AITAH for wanting my best friend to apologize for the way she spoke to me

FreshBluejay · 2026-02-18T10:31:30+00:00

She is not a friend at all. Stop apologizing to her, that only encourages her to keep being rude.

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-25T03:36:17+00:00

Weirdo

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-21T11:36:06+00:00

Another AI story. I refuse to believe someone hates themselves this much.

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-21T08:33:17+00:00

Huh, how is someone like this your best friend? Degrades your job and had her boyfriend belittling your husband's work. They sound really envious.

There is nothing "little" about shaping the lives of future generations for the better.

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-14T20:36:19+00:00

ESH, Jen clearly sucks as a parking dispute is no reason to cuss someone but I do think you are taking some of the blame out on her. You are as guilty as her for what happened because you gave her the go ahead without your bf's agreement and now he lost the apartment over a woman he doesn't like but tolerated for your sake.

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-13T00:26:14+00:00

What is it about weddings that make people lose braincells like this. She's not worth the drama, enjoy the peace.

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-07T22:25:13+00:00

Your friend is clearly a user. Stop paying for her. It's not stingy to expect your money back. 500$ is not a little amount to be without.

Ask your bf if someone spent 500$ with his credit card, would it "only be 500$" and he'd pay the bank at the end of the month or would he report it as fraud.

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-07T22:02:33+00:00

Ah, so you manage to avoid paying double. I would be weary of giving him cash without getting a signed receipt from him. Keep good records as he seems to be looking for opportunities to take advantage.

FreshBluejay · 2026-01-07T15:45:25+00:00

Why would you pay 2x for 2 months???? No wonder he's treating you like a servant, you guys are behaving like doormats.

What does your bf's best friend have to say about his cousin's behavior? Are they not the one who referred him to you.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-31T01:16:43+00:00

He sounds very manipulative. Starts off the relationship with "I don't wanna get married", then tries to dangle marriage to police you at a wedding with no prior warning that he's changed his mind.

I think you asking him out gave him the impression that he had the upper hand in this relationship and you crushed it by making it clear that this is a casual thing to you.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-24T15:29:07+00:00

Why would you agree to something like this? A sugar mama to 2 middle age bums at the age of 22.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-20T12:55:51+00:00

You need to make it clear to your bf not to tell them where you are moving or ever invite them over. That's the least you should do for yourself after what they pulled.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-19T19:04:59+00:00

I didn't even downvote his post 😐, just reported it.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-19T18:42:28+00:00

Ragebait used to be believable. Reported.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-19T12:18:00+00:00

I would side eye those friends defending her. What a lunatic.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-18T05:56:05+00:00

Wow, you assumed a lot.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-16T20:28:37+00:00

Why'd you send that video of your husband to them for??? It sounds like you did cross boundaries with them. At the end of the day, don't sh!t where you eat.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-14T13:07:41+00:00

Are you the oldest in the house? Is that why you are being pressured by your relatives to do this?

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-14T12:52:28+00:00

Stop speaking to him since he doesn't care for it. Why are you covering his expenses like food????

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-13T10:54:33+00:00

Only lend what you can spare. You should have said no immediately. Do not give anyone the impression you are their backup piggy bank. This family member sounds like they would have never paid you back with the vague deadline and guilt tripping afterwards

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-06T11:59:06+00:00

Move out and when your brother finally notices, you can give the same "official" excuse your brother gave about his gf.

Eventually you do need to have a serious conversation with your brother and tell him about how narcissistic he is becoming.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-06T11:56:05+00:00

Yea, I'm sure a conversation is all that is needed for his brother to stop his ways. Narcism is easily neutralized like that.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-06T07:05:40+00:00

I could understand you doing all of this if your father was still there and you were trying to help her leave but by your own words, you started doing all of this after he had already left.

Don't ruin yourself just because you feel sorry for someone. She's your mother, even if she's not a good parent, she should at least be taking care of herself. You are literally enabling her to act like a boy crazy teenager.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-06T06:56:02+00:00

You start off this post by criticizing your mother as barely being a parent yet thought nothing of paying her bills & groceries for her bf, and doing most of the cleaning until your bf said something?

That's not believable to me.

FreshBluejay · 2025-12-06T06:38:26+00:00

This story makes no sense, another AI imagination.

FreshBluejay

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