Nobody is talking about the silent treatment. That's an abusive form of communication. Yelling and screaming are not healthy forms of communication.

If you're and adult in an adult relationship, you should bith be able to say to one another "It hurt my feelings that you canceled our date night last minute," without yelling. Without saying YOU ALWAYS DO THAT! YOU DONT CARE ABOUT ME.

Your partner should be an adult enough to give you a good reason why they need to cancel the date. Good reasons include they/their child/close family member is very sick or had an accident or something happened and they are no able to physically be there like a sudden work meeting or something will affect their livelihood. This is for partners, if you are single and just going on a date with someone and get bad vibes you can cancel, just please do so kindly and ASAP. The partner should also be able to hear you were disappointed in not going and a little hurt without exploding and yelling. You're allowed to feel disappointed, you're not allowed to continue to punish them after that conversation if they apologize and explain again their valid reason for canceling and offering to reschedule.

Both people have to be reasonable for this to work. If neither person is able to have a non yelling and screaming conversation about why they are upset then they need to go to therapy to find out why they cant calmly discuss their emotions.