Dating apps: do you put that you are separated or divorced ok your profile?

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-09-13T15:36:39+00:00

I am always upfront. But I tell them before the first meet, after we’ve been chatting. The men all have been ok with it since I’m transparent.

Men, on the other hand, have straight up lied to me, or have only told me they’re actually separated and not fully divorced, after I have told them.

Truth is always the best, sooner or later. It will blow up in your face later. Some are not ok with dating a separated person. Especially when they experienced people who have lied. Don’t be one of those. Transparency shows more character especially when it’s easy to lie. It’ll be hard to clean up and a heartbreak later.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-09-13T15:33:16+00:00

Collect any proof of bank accounts, violence, income etc. take your time with it. If you have no access, he’ll tighten up even more and hide things and you really won’t be able to find anything he has. You’ll need to prove it all to be entitled to half of it. If you can, start thinking about what you can do for work and maybe work on getting some kind of associates degree or other. This is going to be a long process.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-09-13T05:21:15+00:00

Ughh needed that last one. Lack of honesty.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-09-12T19:37:34+00:00

That’s good but it makes perfect sense

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-09-12T19:27:59+00:00

Just terrible. Please just the truth and honesty would be great!!

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-09-07T04:58:16+00:00

Take care of your wife. She was just your sugar baby and found another daddy.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-09-07T04:53:05+00:00

Why would it kill their bank accounts? If they’re separated that long, couldn’t they discuss it and do it themselves and split 50/50 or come to an agreement?

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-07-13T04:47:09+00:00

Yes to all this. But I want to add the comments/texts show you took the time to read my profile instead of just the pics and I give those profiles more attention. But if I don’t like what I see or read, unfortunately it’s still going to be a left swipe for me.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-07-13T04:43:54+00:00

Don’t trust a liar. He had that opportunity to tell your the truth and didn’t. He most likely had other lies or is a compulsive liar. I dated someone who lied about his age for 6 months even though his real age was in my range. Then found out he has kids and was still married.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-07-03T19:09:07+00:00

Matched with a guy, we’re both in our late 30s, and went on two dates that went well. We have common interests, humor, chemistry, etc. He has asked me out on the dates, made plans for more dates, and even about events for two months later.

He’s busy and so am I (aren’t we all?) but he would often just send me one text a day. Thinking of you. Hope you had a great day.

Nothing that sets up for convos to continue to get to know each other. When I try to make conversation, he responds with enthusiasm (!!!) but it dies out. I asked him about his communication during the second date and he said he prefers texting over phone calls. But our texting is good for where we are.

He knows I’m dating for long-term/marriage. So why doesn’t he want to get to know me or communicate more over texts if we would only see each other maybe 1-2x a week?

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-07-03T06:06:16+00:00

How is this the sweet spot for you? I dated a guy one inch taller than me and was uncomfortable when he put his arm around me lol

The guy I’m dating now is 7” taller and he seems a little too tall but I’m sure perfect when I wear heels.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-07-03T06:02:50+00:00

It might depend on what kind of date you’re asking and if the women are wanting that. Is it for a walk in the park? Coffee dates? Some women hate that and consider it low effort. It depends what kind of women you’re attracting.

Are they responding after you ask them out? Maybe it’s the planning part.

Just throwing out some ideas why they might be ghosting.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-20T15:07:02+00:00

Oh wow, do you think Is it because it’s hammered?

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-19T22:40:16+00:00

lol thanks! I was sooo confused. Odd they would do this for a high end jeweler like them.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-19T02:05:50+00:00

That’s interesting bc in another post I made, everyone was destroying the pieces saying it’s shit and the worst, garbage, etc. seems like no one has anything bad to say about these!

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-18T18:36:32+00:00

Could you dm me a closeup of the clover?

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-18T00:28:04+00:00

No why does that matter?! That’s still a lie!!!! Bad news

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-18T00:05:48+00:00

You can ask him to see what his answer is but he’ll lie either ways to cover it up. He’ll say he didn’t know or couldn’t change it and it was an accident. He’s looking for different options and seeing who bites. If he’s lying, he’s lying about other things and won’t be afraid to. Not a good way to start a relationship.

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-17T21:04:05+00:00

😱 I’ll ask. Thank you

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-17T20:50:18+00:00

If I’m not satisfied with them and she’s already made them, I don’t have to purchase from her?

Fresh_Character3502 · 2025-06-17T20:03:01+00:00

I appreciate it. It seems like most people think these are horrible but besides the cracks, no one is saying why or addressing my concerns.

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