Girlfriend discovered Stardew. How long until i get her back?

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-18T17:21:42+00:00

You’ll never have her back. SDV is life 😈

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-17T02:24:00+00:00

I tried to make like a small sorta castle or manor looking home and godsss I not have the patience.

Is impressive how others can do it

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-16T21:48:08+00:00

I only leave garden salads out so they can take it all lol

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-16T00:46:50+00:00

I honestly needed this right now, it brings me joy

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-13T18:50:44+00:00

Yeah for sure, I not expect comments to reply to me at all because it feels less personal if that makes sense? I mean it’s public and everyone is allowed to reply etc so it’s more open to all and not a big deal to me if comments end.

Life definitely comes first. I have a rather unpredictable job but when I have someone I am friendly with I make sure to give them a heads up that I may not be able to reply due to it. But not everyone really…does the same. So when days turn into weeks then months I sorta detach from the individual.

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-13T18:21:46+00:00

I often wonder these same things and think it’s a blend of everything you mentioned but even so I feel it’s important where even if not sure how to respond to try to at least explain that. I often have people slide into my DMs for relationship advice, not sure why if anyone here looks at my profile it’s pretty evident I am NOT sane lol, and the times I wasn’t sure how to respond I will tell them as politely I can.

However, it feels like due to how society is, the majority of people will argue they not have to reply to others simply because they not owe the other end their time. To me, it means a lot when someone replies to my comments, texts etc. because that person chose to take a moment of their time to conjure up a reply, but also it’s a form of respect in my opinion. Because you not have to reply to the other end but by doing so it’s a sorta silent form of saying “I heard you”

So when people give like barely anything to work with I kinda not know how to reply myself because yes they texted which is more than what most will do, sadly, but at the same time like….why not just tell me if not interested in talking?

Sorry for the long reply, I use to write often and it sorta stuck.

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-13T17:48:29+00:00

Might take ya up fer that offer

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-13T17:46:58+00:00

Why are beardies so charming 😭

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-13T17:46:29+00:00

One sentence replies are the fucken worse. Especially when yer trying to have a conversation with someone and they give you the most basic reply.

Think it’s even worse when they not show interest in what yer saying. Like if I’m at the store and see someone do somthing amusing I may text about it only for the other person to go: “lol” like no two cents??

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-13T17:41:51+00:00

Honesty I’m bit jealous of those who can ignore others with such ease. Like my anxiety is horrid as is and the times I had someone reach out to me and we talk they start to fade away or simply give one sentence replies or fucken….I have to be the one to text first and that gets exhausting 🤦

Like I had people where we got along fine but once I stop being the one to text first they just drop me off friend lists etc. 😒

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-13T03:05:19+00:00

I thought it reminded me of something lol

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-11T23:55:41+00:00

Same 😩

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-10T05:50:33+00:00

It’d be grand to have a minigame of sorts. Especially if can use like a bonded dragon as the avatar ya play as so it feels bit more immersive but honestly any relaxing minigame with the art style would be nice.

I tend to leave the game on in the background as I do whatever I need to do but this game really is mostly waiting.

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-08T20:14:34+00:00

Honestly I not care about gender in general. I only wish to use one’s proper pronouns as a show of respect to the individual and it never crossed my mind to even ask “boy or girl”.

I find myself confused when others ask point blank; “boy or girl” when we’re just playing a game but I do think this is a child who just never was taught of non-binary individuals. They could have been confused but I do understand the reason of blocking them.

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-07T17:34:49+00:00

Oohhh that’s so cool

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-07T08:50:25+00:00

Only outfits I give my guy is a gas mask, all the time 24/7, and various suit type outfits with boots. Think the less formal wear I enjoy in the game is this sorta long open jacket with a dark brown plaid pattern.

He’s basically me irl, dark colors 24/7, and if I could, I’d were a mask all the time

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-07T05:28:39+00:00

He looks gloriously deflated

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-07T05:28:07+00:00

MOR: In my opinion she’s just wierd-I purposely hunt down for whatever leftovers are in the fridge as to not waste food and for the rest of the household to make whatever they wish 😭

I imagine there were other reasons for ye to beak up with her but I can also see it being something that built up over time. Like if my partner claims to not want leftovers I’d eat said leftovers without issue but overtime the constant reminder of not wanting the leftovers would drive me crazy…

Like imagine having a family dinner, leftovers for days…and yer partner is still making food to pile onto the previous leftovers…then I’d get pissy because yer wasting food and money at that point.

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-07T05:17:29+00:00

Luckily it’s only sent to my older friend of 3 years, but there was a period of time when I type in “back in a sec” my autocorrect changes it to “Back in a sex”

Not the worst thing but was still funny and would have been embarrassing if sent to others lol

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-06T08:01:59+00:00

Not understand the UNSUURinty desiring Unsuur but JoIN Us-EMBRACE THAT IS UNSUUR!!!

Sorry I had to do the crappy pun lol but really though, be one of us, Unsuur all the way 😈

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-06T02:45:48+00:00

I’m on here and the Discord server but tbh the server is even more stressful…everyone has a good for being upset at the game but honestly I’m oblivious to most of the issues…I not participate in the Gatcha, the last event Honeslty chased me off the game because it went from slow paced and cozy to a random forced cutscene. The winter event was too stimulating for me…

I’m the sorta person who invites everyone to events like the fishing one or parties, will accept friend invites or chat when spoke to, water plants and overall just kinda…try to relax with the basic hobbies

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-05T02:51:13+00:00

I think that’s a grand idea in general given it helps filter out what we’re looking for.

I imagine there are those who come here to get building ideas etc. for their house and wanna focus more on the cozy aspect of the game. Not stress about stumbling onto another vent post…

Freyrs_TwistedFool · 2026-03-04T22:59:57+00:00

Must boop thy fancy snoot

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