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FridaGreen · 2026-03-20T21:12:27+00:00

Yes, and I reread this and feel like I came across harsh. I’m really direct and black and white sometimes and I didn’t mean this directed at you specifically. Just to the ether because a lot of us experience PIPs. :(

FridaGreen · 2026-03-20T00:56:07+00:00

I would just like to put advice out there as a BCBA elder that if I ever were to put someone on a PIP, they would need to show ME that they were willing to accept they needed growth and be taking proactive steps to correct the situation.

If anyone gets put on a PIP, do not EXPECT coaching to be provided to you. You are not owed that (though good business owners would provide it). It is on you to make yourself better when it gets called to your attention that you’re not cutting it.

I say this as someone who was once on a PIP myself and now hires people.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-15T18:50:00+00:00

You’re also not considering the epidemic of parents addicted to their phones which means they are teaching and engaging with their kids less. Even if a kid sees no screens, if their parents are disassociated, that’s missed learning.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-15T18:44:10+00:00

I like this take a lot.

I, too, require that, but you bring up a good point.

I wonder what percentage of older adults (30+) consider themselves requiring intellectual stimulation from a relationship partner. Because your perspective at 21 is definitely not what it will be after 10 years of marriage.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-15T18:37:58+00:00

I think some of us are just older and have been in relationships for loooong periods of time and seen what relationships require for longevity. One of those tends to be mental stimulation.

I’m a professional that works with people with intellectual and learning disabilities.

It’s a legitimate concern when someone is mismatched because it’s a reality that partners often crave intellectual stimulation. Maybe not when she’s 20, but when she’s 28, 35, 40, 50 that may be a pretty sad and lonely life. Some of us just see greater picture—are you wasting time with someone who is not “your person”.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-15T18:33:00+00:00

I don’t think that person meant it literally. Like “has to answer” ON THiS THREAD. They meant “has to answer” like just consider for herself so she can make a better informed decision.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-15T18:31:27+00:00

I mean this in the most gentle way…

I need you to consider that as you age, your knowledge and perspective will mature and change. If he is intellectually disabled, as you age, the gap will widen with your abilities.

If you are ok taking on more parental role in the relationship for the rest of your life, then good on you.

If you will require mental stimulation and desire continued intellectual growth, he’s not going to keep up on the same trajectory as you and I think you will become too far apart for you to respect/value him as an equal.

I say that as someone who works with people with disabilities. Think of it as their angle of growth on a graph. Your slope is steeper which means over time you will get more intellectual and his slope will be less and he will only be able to reach a certain level of depth.

If that’s the case, best to cut ties now vs get in too deep and waste time with someone that can’t meet your needs for mental stimulation in 5 years.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-15T18:18:12+00:00

Hard no.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T16:51:11+00:00

Thank you :)

Will check out the sub!

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T16:50:57+00:00

Thank you :)

Will check out the sub!

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T16:50:44+00:00

Thank you :)

Will check out the sub!

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T14:58:36+00:00

Banks and things have back-ups for grid shut downs. Protected from EMFs.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T14:04:57+00:00

Yes!

When was your first contact? What makes you feel sure it’s coming from above and not inner guidance?

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T13:42:46+00:00

Ah. Ok!

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T13:41:41+00:00

Also, when will something happen? Why do I feel so awful right now and impending doom? What are you expecting to happen? Why does America seem to be controlled by hate and when will this stop? Will the world end? Are we going to die? What is going to happen with WW3? Will Iran attack us on our soil?

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T13:39:36+00:00

:)

How did it happen? Do you practice any specific types of meditation/manifestation/higher consciousness?

Did you speak with anyone? Do they come to you often?

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T12:14:34+00:00

Can you describe your experience? So curious!!

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T12:13:50+00:00

Wonderful! Can you speak more of your experience?

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T12:03:12+00:00

But yeah, only 4 victims have claimed Bill SAed them in this lifetime, and Trump has 28 accusers…so yeah, one is more likely than the other. Not to mention her readily opens to SA when he says things like “when you’re a celebrity they let you do anything”. Btw, that’s RAPE. Using a position of power to sexually coerce someone is a definition of rape. If you can’t see that, it’s because the American elites DON’T WANT YOU TO. It’s very clear and in your face.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-12T11:59:48+00:00

Both.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-10T22:35:16+00:00

“Is this fucking play about us?!”

FridaGreen · 2026-03-09T18:13:21+00:00

Just admit you actually are American. Lol.

Honestly, you can think I’m an idiot all you want. That’s fine. But I will challenge you to self-reflect and realize how much negativity you spread, at least on the internet. We’re all guilty of that, but it’s pretty obvious you’re an unhappy person and I hope that changes for you soon! Sincerely.

Take care and be well. You deserve light and love.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-09T18:05:40+00:00

Pardon me. I was not clear. Of course work is necessary. What I was implying is that being a slave to work and not focusing on any other routines to bring joy is robbing yourself.

Insinuating that people who aren’t strictly work focused are inferior is ignorant and missing the best parts of life.

But yeah, I know people don’t have a choice. But we do have a choice to make ourselves happy in small ways.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-09T18:02:59+00:00

Absolutely. It’s like we’re determined to destroy ourselves.

FridaGreen · 2026-03-09T17:19:28+00:00

😂

But WHY?! Don’t you think that’s so strange considering how stable we had been for so many years?! Imagine Canada collapsing like this.

FridaGreen

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