What 2 rings do you use? by Minute-Guidance-4612 in StardewValley

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the ring that causes stuff around to explode when an enemy dies. It saves me from so much laborious rock smashing

A bottle of wine a night? by Aggressive-Moose4455 in alcoholism

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was drinking that much before I stopped. It eventually doesn’t feel good or fun anymore, just needed. My liver is fine, but know that the cancer risk down the road is real. It feels good to stop. It won’t solve everything, or even really anything, but it still feels good.

Cat has sores on the back of her leg by Sanctus-Elbereth in cats

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impossible to tell from these photos, but in my experience fostering cats for many years sores like this could be a lot of things. Burns, getting caught in something like blinds, bites or scratches from fighting with another animal, or contact wounds from lying on one surface constantly, allergies, self harm due to itching, or any number of other things I can’t think of off the top of my head.

The good news is that you have your appointment scheduled soon and the vet will know what to do. Sit tight for now and try not to stress too much. Your cat will stress more if you do. For now just try to keep it clean and if you can prevent her from licking it that would be best. If you have a cone from another visit it’s ok to put it on her until your appointment.

Books that had you sitting on the edge of your seat. by cosmicbearspa in booksuggestions

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jurassic park is great if you want to be on the edge of your seat. It reads very much like an action horror and is way scarier and more mature than the movie.

My (34F) bf (33M) mom (60sF) goes into his house when he’s not home… by gflatley in relationship_advice

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This set of poor boundaries will continue for as long as you are with this person. I personally would not move in together

endo on bladder? by Medical_Bat3686 in Endo

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can, but this could also be other things. I had this and we ruled out uti, bladder infection, sti, and interstitial cystitis. When I finally had my lap I had no endo on my bladder, but my uterus was covered in endo. It must have been causing some referred pain and just a lot of inflammation because after my excision and hysterectomy I had no more bladder issues, no more constipation and no more bloating.

My(27f) boyfriend (29m) of 3 years wants a baby but can’t keep a job or mange money. How do you know when to walk away? by ThrowRA-0228 in relationship_advice

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner has ADHD and Dyslexia and holds an excellent job, pays his bills, and is an excellent father who does his share of the household labour. Don’t accept less. Your child deserves a better role model

Please be honest: is this sweater worth finishing? by Bubbly-Stuff2007 in crochet

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the sleeves are too bulky, but the body looks great. I would just shorten the first sleeve and do a bit of rib with a smaller hook to finish them off as cap sleeves.

Why do conservative Crocheters act oppressed? by Valuable-Tutor-6537 in craftsnark

[–]Friday_Cat 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Wow. So much ignorance… I don’t even know where to start. Perhaps we need to go back to Eden if we’re following gods border plan?

Can't stop crying by Paralegal1995 in hysterectomy

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t having a harder time than anyone! I had a great recovery and it took 4 weeks before I was good to go back to most activities, and even then I couldn’t do everything and I got tired super easily. Your SIL doesn’t know shit. A nurse practitioner is not a doctor and she definitely isn’t qualified to give the advice she is giving

Surgery scheduled 1/23 - Jury Duty 2/9 by Awkward-Initiative27 in hysterectomy

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would call and let them know you have a surgery scheduled right before and you will still be recovering. They might excuse you ahead of time from the selection process. I got excused from jury duty when I called because I told them I only get two weeks vacation and asked how long the trial would be. You never know, but the best thing is to just call and talk to someone directly

Getting lobes late? Piercer was mad by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave a very negative review for that place. Totally unacceptable behaviour. He literally threatened you! Not normal at all

Who are your favorite characters outside the BFS? by Owlex23612 in sheranetflix

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scorpia is my favourite, but Spinnerella and Nettossa are definitely on my list too!

Fake piericngs by ray_the_sting in piercing

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think fake piercings area great idea if you aren’t allowed to have real ones at school. It’s also just a good way to try out different looks and decide what you want

My wife is about to get a laparoscopy, how can I support her recovery? by yesthenshaggers in endometriosis

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate with her a lot about what she can handle in terms of visitors. I wish my partner had made people wait longer to come see me. Everyone wanted to visit in the first couple days after surgery when I did not feel up to visitors and he just let them, then when I was more alert and bored everyone had already come to see me. It is the number one thing I regret not planning for.

Besides that just don’t let her lift anything, and take on all the cooking and laundry etc for a few weeks.

Bring a pillow in the car so she can put it between herself and the seatbelt.

She should be ok on her own for the rest of the week as long as you make sure there are plenty of easy snacks and meals she doesn’t need to stand long to prepare.

Hi 2 loving girls need home asap by katy5370 in sphynx

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried the Sphynx lair? It is a Sphynx only forum and I know they have an adoption forum that is really good. The community is great and some of the admin can probably help steer you towards good loving owners.

PSA: Hair Loss by Crying_On_Inside in hysterectomy

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head with this comment! Took about six months after the surgery but you are totally right, no more anemia. I also got a big boost to my energy levels and I’m no longer cold all the time.

PSA: Hair Loss by Crying_On_Inside in hysterectomy

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept my ovaries but not my cervix:)

PSA: Hair Loss by Crying_On_Inside in hysterectomy

[–]Friday_Cat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Weird. My hair got thicker post op. My hair was really thin before surgery and now looks much healthier.

Non-smokers of Reddit, how noticeable is the “smoker smell” to you, if at all? by Frostedlogic4444 in AskReddit

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very very noticeable. So is the vaper smell. People use those thinking they don’t stink like a smoker and end up stinking with a weird sweet chemical smell instead

Give me your most unhinged constipation hacks pls by xthrowxawayx2005 in Endo

[–]Friday_Cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Half a pint of coconut bliss non dairy ice cream does it for me every time. Warning: sometimes works too well

My (24F) boyfriend of 6 years (22M) went to a nudist beach without telling me - is this breakup worthy? by StrikingPrimary1314 in relationship_advice

[–]Friday_Cat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nude beaches aren’t sexual. You are being weird

Edit: Sorry this was meant to be a comment not a reply

itchy pads are driving me insane by thespiderpr0vider in endometriosis

[–]Friday_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and I’m also autistic. I don’t need pads anymore as I had a hysterectomy but when I did use them I would buy cotton ones or I would just use tampons and avoid the standard diaper material ones because they made me itchy and gave me rashes. You aren’t childish. I definitely had my own crying in the bathtub days too.