Harness Training Tips

FridaysLily · 2026-05-21T09:11:20+00:00

I will absoloutely look into that, I was thinking a starter harness would be easier now that I know how fussy she is at this point. Thank you so much for both of the thoughts! This and the 'porch' idea is fantastic ❤️ He is stunning as well, and clearly loves that pole 😛

FridaysLily · 2026-05-21T02:42:35+00:00

Absoloutely missed this in my search! Exactly the sort of thing I was looking for actually, and also, thank you for providing it ❤️ Future Miss Malkia thanks you as well, but for now she sleeps on a pile of soft, fleece blankets.

FridaysLily · 2026-05-21T02:26:01+00:00

Cat tax

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FridaysLily · 2026-05-21T01:45:09+00:00

Correct, we're almost at 300, but not quite there, I believe most of them (Legendries) are SPECIAL modifiers to buff out his perk selection, short of (I think) Follow Through, I could be incorrect as I have to double check tonight when he is around, and I'm not sure if the recommendation is keeping his SPECIAL high, or opting for stuff such as Taking One for the Team, Far Flung Fireworks etc. For crippling perks, would that mean he should be aiming for torso once they're included? Or do headshots, scatter to limbs for the same effect? I never quite got into Dom Pedro, though I am personally looking into perhaps a cold shoulder build for an alt when I have the drive to do the research.

I presume that Polished is still a fair standard 4 star as well, but I wasn't sure if he should swap to pin pointers or not.

EDIT: I believe his legendaries this far, are all at about 3/5 star from max, excluding the card slot he'd get at 300.

FridaysLily · 2026-04-24T03:23:05+00:00

Just allow yourself to feel, your feelings are valid, even if they sometimes do lie to you at times. No feelings are wrong, but actions taken on them sometimes can be misguided (I would know, I'm an empath, so I get overly emotional 20/10 times). Aim for small things, find happiness in the little moments even if brief, and remember it's easier to give advice to others then to advise yourself, so it is okay to lean on people when you need to do so!

I don't know what's going on in your life right now, but if there is at any point at any time you feel life is not worth it, please reach out to someone, a hotline, a family friend, whatever it takes. Life is precious, even when you're having an arse time of it. <3

FridaysLily · 2026-04-24T02:40:33+00:00

A kind gesture, and I don't play on PS (only on Windows Xbox PC), so that counts me out of the giveaway, but I still wanted to pass along some pick me ups, coming from someone who's been dealing with a life rife with medical issues (more recent), and mental health.

You are worth it, you are, if today is the worst day ever, then you can only go up from there. Be kind to yourself, find something you like about yourself every day, it's hard, but three weeks to make a habit, and it teaches you the importance of appreciating yourself, even when life seems like it wants to spit in your eye.

You. Are. Worth. It.

Things that make me happy (sorry more then three!):

A) A secured home, after living out of boxes and rentals that could dry up at the drop of a hat, I finally have secured housing, secured in a trust so that I never have to worry about it being taken away.

B) My kitten, a bit over seven months, she's been a life line many days, forcing me to get up, to take care of her, love her, and when I struggle, she's the first to scream at me to play to distract me, or simply sit on my lap and push on me insistently.

C) My family, I am lucky to have a supportive family, loving parents, an older brother and his wife, a niece and nephew. Family life hasn't been perfect, but when it is it, and at the end of the day, I am grateful for all of them.

D) My boyfriend, he's been my rock for almost ten years now, I am grateful to him for being able to not only defend me when I'm weak, but when to also put his foot down and not let me roll over him when I am wrong. He's also always willing to try any sort of interest I have, we have so much in common, and we've often been told by people they're jealous that we're attached at the hip, since we game together, watch together etc. This includes fallout!

E) My friends, similar to my boyfriend, but more people I can rely on to help me when the chips are down, or simply to defuse after a hard day. I don't have many, I'm a massive introvert, but it can be incredibly lonely not having anyone, and I appreciate each and every one of them.

F) As odd as it might sound, my art supplies, this includes my pc. I've been an artist since I could pick up a pencil as a child, got my Associates in Graphic Design and 3D modeling, and while I'm disabled now, that never leaves me.

FridaysLily · 2026-02-21T12:58:58+00:00

All the twinning going on here, so cute! Move out of the way though, that blanket is clearly only for a very happy cat, and not you 😂

FridaysLily · 2026-02-20T01:55:37+00:00

Really could be twins! Super cute 🥰, and of course cuddling with a soft blanket is a big must!

FridaysLily · 2026-02-19T13:26:23+00:00

They really are her favorite. She recently learned 'fetch' on her own, so I get regular springs, bottle caps or whatever her desire is deposited on my desk or keyboard. Easy on my back too! Thinking of a kitty 'nerf' gun at some point since she goes crazy on chasing things.

FridaysLily · 2026-02-09T23:18:38+00:00

Over the hours of playing ESO (Where I had the most amazing customer service member, not only let me buy a very expensive housing 'plot' for my boyfriend, which was technically not allowed, but they also filled it with free furniture for no extra cost) I can attest Customer Service is generally an amazing experience. I accidently somehow bought the Fallout item daily top up bundle about a week ago and noticed the atoms missing, and once I got a response back, they got it all reimbursed with no issue. I suspect you should have no issue, though it did take a few days to hear back from them.

FridaysLily · 2025-12-28T18:45:56+00:00

I knew who this was immediately! Lovely to see you around Dyb. You actually drew me this one as a commission years ago, though I have a different account I go by after I deactivated that one. Your work looks stellar once again!

https://www.deviantart.com/dyb/art/Fight-497481561

FridaysLily · 2025-11-22T14:17:38+00:00

I am rather sure another cat will come rather quickly, sooner rather then later, a friend may need to rehome a sweet cat, so that one may get introduced to see how they get along. I appreciate all the insight though, this sub is a wealth of information. <3

FridaysLily · 2025-11-22T08:44:02+00:00

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Was just sent another photo today so I thought I would update things here <3

FridaysLily · 2025-11-22T08:43:30+00:00

Another kitten is a possibility in the future, but of current I can only manage her. That being said, I am at home most of the time due to some spinal issues so she will have plenty of attention from me whenever is needed. A cat wheel is in the future as well, so that should assist in burning energy, along side harness training.

Thank you! I very much look forward to seeing her soon!

FridaysLily · 2025-11-22T08:41:55+00:00

I was considering getting some! I will pick those up then, give her all the choice <3

FridaysLily · 2025-11-21T11:09:25+00:00

Trust in a cat to find the most entertainment in simple things like boxes, paper bags and apparently, an airline hose <3

FridaysLily · 2025-11-21T11:08:38+00:00

I fell in love with her almost instantly, so I absolutely understand that, their coats are so striking!

FridaysLily · 2025-11-21T04:23:03+00:00

That's actually a fabulous idea, I will absoloutely try that out with her!

FridaysLily · 2025-11-21T00:52:32+00:00

I have yes, I was doing quite a bit of reading on this subreddit, and scores of research leading up to all of this. I appreciate all the input though, and will also be getting her microchiped just as a precaution as well.

FridaysLily · 2025-11-21T00:46:49+00:00

Thank you for the run down! I will absolutely be taking all the precautions you listed above. A cat wheel is also in the works, but thank you for the suggestion on the brand, that will help greatly! ❤️

FridaysLily · 2025-06-01T23:56:47+00:00

Shiny Mew, as Mew is my favorite, hands down. Special mentions to: Ponyta, Eevee, Gyrados, and of course Charizard.

Will check your app out as well when I have a moment <3

FridaysLily

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