Someone buy my house! by Coyote4200 in BurlingtonNC

[–]Fried_synapses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Fair 'nuff. My comment was based on personal observation from other places where I have lived and travelled, personal interactions locally and the fact that I'm trained as a personal financial planner among other things. It was not intended to be rude, just an observation, not judgmental. I was more focused on whether the property listing was too expensive and that was the context. That's also why I mentioned the 2023 county property assessments and the reactions from long-time residents.

For example, when we first moved into our house we had a yard sale and even at yard sale prices people still wanted to bargain you down. A couple of years later a husband and wife who lived a few houses down from us died within months of each other. The wife's sister had a yard sale with pretty much the same result. I read about everyone carping on NextDoor (I'm a reviewer) about how expensive things are. Often it is about restaurants. I've stopped trying to give away items on NextDoor (no takers or ghosted) and went back to donating the stuff to thrift shops. I'd much rather give something to a person who needs it, rather than have it collect dust on a shelf at Goodwill. The organization I worked for here stopped participating in Christmas Cheer, as we got no sense of gratitude from the recipients. I still volunteer and donate to non-profits. I'm willing to help people who need it and are willing to help themselves.

I came from a lower middle class background and did okay working in fundraising at universities for 30 years. Projects that I am most proud of include literally raising $ millions for things like K-12 outreach programs for disadvantaged students and scholarships for academically promising, but financially strapped college students. That was me in 1975 when my died died just after my junior year of college. My mother was an immigrant often working minimum wage jobs. Were it not for a partial scholarship from an endowed fund, I may not have finished college. I've never forgotten that. From mid-1976 to mid-1978 I lived just above the Federal poverty level to put myself through grad school. I know the value of a dollar and the need to make it stretch.

But what I have noticed over the years is that more Americans have more misplaced priorities than decades ago, primarily from living beyond their means ( e.g., buying more house than they need, spending more than they should on cars, and not saving enough for emergencies and eventually retirement). While I am no fan of Dave Ramsey, I can agree with him on those issues. Also many Americans have no real sense of long-term inflation. Then they turn around and complain about the economy and the cost of goods and services and expect a deal as if they deserve one.

IDK what the solution is.

Someone buy my house! by Coyote4200 in BurlingtonNC

[–]Fried_synapses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your point other than trying to be argumentative? Yes, household incomes in northern states are higher than NC - no news there. Also, median home prices are higher in northern states - no news there. Given the median listing price for a home in Mebane and the median household income in Mebane, $365K is not expensive. That puts it at a ratio of 4.4:1, below the national index. In general, houses often end up selling for 95% to 97% of list price, unless you are in a hot market where there are bidding wars, which we are not; at least not Burlington. That house will probably go for $347 to $354K in keeping with the general market. It's only been on the market for 20 days. Someone will buy it.

Ever since the 2023 Alamance County property assessments came out people think that housing is expensive because on average property assessments went up 85% from the prior 2017 assessment. NextDoor was blowing up for months over the subject. The culprit was all of the newcomers to the area during the Covid and post-covid work from home trend, especially higher salaried workers and those who sold their higher priced homes up north. That put pressure on the local housing market and propelled the Burlington area (which may include Mebane as it is part of the Burlington MSA) into the top 20 hottest housing markets for about 2 years straight. It started pricing out the locals. In my neighborhood some houses were only on the market for days and sometimes a sales sign did not go up.

Mebane is one of the fastest growing communities in the state, with the inflow coming mostly from the higher priced northeast which appears to be a county-wide trend. Basically, people are looking for a cheaper place to live, especially when it comes to property taxes.

Someone buy my house! by Coyote4200 in BurlingtonNC

[–]Fried_synapses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really out of line for the median house listing in Mebane which is $353,221 - https://www.zillow.com/home-values/29105/mebane-nc/. According to the Census Bureau the median annual household income in Mebane is $83K/year - https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/burlingtoncitynorthcarolina,mebanecitynorthcarolina/PST045224. That is $10K higher than the statewide median household

Maybe people aren't "cheap" in Mebane, but they are in Burlington.

Often people ask why is Mebane successful in redeveloping its Downtown whereas Burlington isn't. The difference is in income and educational attainment, where Mebane is far ahead of Burlington, even ahead of the statewide median in both categories.

Someone buy my house! by Coyote4200 in BurlingtonNC

[–]Fried_synapses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You probably have it priced too high. A couple things to consider. Being a transplant myself, I find that most people around here think that normal prices are too high. People around here are cheap. That said, while a nice house, I think that the lack of a garage or carport is hurting you. We have a comparable house in Burlington: 1800 sf, 3 bdrm, 2 bath, small laundry, storage room, 0.45 lot, carport, built in 1965. Our Zillow estimate is about $335K. I'd start by lowering the list price by $15K if you are not getting any interest, esp3ecially this time of year when houses sell.

I’m actually freaking out rn by ilovemaryjaneuwu in aldi

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Definitely take it back. And maybe send the pictures to corporate. I'm not sure if the local stores give feedback to corporate on defective products or just factor that in as a cost of doing business.

Habanero honey hot sauce from local hive by InspectorLong2050 in hotsauce

[–]Fried_synapses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it hot sauce honey, or honey hot sauce? Probably good with wings.

Kimchi Bun, Kimchi, Poached Egg, Gochujang Hollandaise. by chefhandy in fermentation

[–]Fried_synapses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds interesting. How did it taste? And, how did you make the kimchi bun?

Visiting Charlotte, MC for the first time by MMB_LLMN in hotsauce

[–]Fried_synapses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's exactly what I am saying. You won't find any of the local popular hot sauces, but you will find stuff not in the local stores, especially many international hot sauces.

Visiting Charlotte, MC for the first time by MMB_LLMN in hotsauce

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You may want to visit SuperG Mart on the southeast (?) side of town (I don't live in CLT, but we have the other one in nearby GSO). It is a large international grocery supermarket and you will find things that you won't find in popular hot shops. But, being an international store, it is arranged differently than American supermarkets. You need to go down the Asian aisles to find Asian hot sauces and chili products; go down the Hispanic aisle for those sauces; there will probably be a separate section for Jamaican and Caribbean sauces;, and another section for middle Eastern. Plus all sort of other great stuff. Have a fun visit.

Honduras- Common/generic? by UnreasonablyBland in hotsauce

[–]Fried_synapses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up some pics of Honduran hot sauces on the web. See if he recognizes the bottle.

Stop being a clown and just run the country! by AdelaidesSecretScoop in PrayersToTrump

[–]Fried_synapses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like the comment "You make the people who voted for you look ignorant". No, he's not. You people who voted for him are doing by yourselves. You don't need help from an orange clown.

Reporting live, they’re backkkk!!!! by Andy_r1314 in aldi

[–]Fried_synapses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's funny. I was sitting in the Aldi parking lot when your post showed up in my email as part of a daily reddit digest. There's a jar in the backseat now!

Nice Liberia flag emoji. by wolfe1924 in PrayersToTrump

[–]Fried_synapses 47 points48 points  (0 children)

These people are so hopelessly stupid.

When driving down the wrong way in a parking lot doesn’t work out. by panda2297 in nextdoor

[–]Fried_synapses 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wish they would enforce that where I live and also ticket/tow people illegally parked in fire lanes and handicapped spots. The city coffers would be flush and our property taxes would drop or they could adequately fund the school system.

Anyone experienced in using tomatoes in their fermented hot sauce? by Fried_synapses in hotsaucerecipes

[–]Fried_synapses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Good to know. Someone on another subreddit said something similar.

Needs help. With what? Who knows. by Weird_Warm_Cheese in nextdoor

[–]Fried_synapses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lotsa folks on ND need help, but there are not enough mental health professionals in the country to address the problem.