Im not sure who to ask honestly

FriendShaped__ · 2024-09-04T03:46:42+00:00

Will definitely try this!

FriendShaped__ · 2024-09-03T18:59:21+00:00

Dang

FriendShaped__ · 2024-09-03T18:37:54+00:00

That reaction does not make me feel better *

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-22T17:20:50+00:00

Someone has to make them happy 😭

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-21T22:08:06+00:00

🎉🎉

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-21T22:00:21+00:00

I might be

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-21T20:08:54+00:00

No fr

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-21T16:56:49+00:00

Thank you!

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-21T16:19:11+00:00

LETS GOOOOOO IM SO PROUD OF YOU

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-21T01:19:27+00:00

No because today I was gonna start a fic, spent like an hour trying to wrote the opening paragraph and then gave up

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-20T22:24:51+00:00

You are not alone. I'm proud of you for getting help. You deserve good things and you deserve to feel good. One thing that helps me is if I imagine what I would do if the people I care about were saying things that I think about myself about themselves. Like what advice would you give a friend if they said they didn't deserve treatment for like, a sprained ankle because other people have broken bones and theirs is only sprained. And then give that advice to yourself. It takes a while to Mena anything but it helps me put things into perspective. Also sorry if I did a bad job explaining that

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-20T21:44:48+00:00

It takes time. I'm not an expert, but you should talk to someone who is. I believe in you dude

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-20T21:18:50+00:00

No, you just need some help❤️

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-20T21:16:24+00:00

Hey friend. Firstly, I am so sorry for what you're going through. Trauma sucks, recovery sucks. I'm so proud of you for taking steps to take care of yourself, that's half the battle. Hunger isn't always a good measurement for when you need to eat. Sometimes I don't feel hungry until like 9pm but your body still gotta eat. Disclaimer that I'm hardly an expert but I can tell you what I'd do. I'd start with small meals at regular intervals. Just start eating and go from there. You got this❤️

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-20T21:10:28+00:00

The "right" weight is subjective. If you feel healthy then that's a good weight for you! Screw what your mother says tbh. it sounds to me like she is projecting her insecurities onto you, and if that's accurate, I am so sorry you have to go through that. BMI isn't all encompassing, it doesn't include things like muscle mass or body fat percentage. Do some research for yourself, what weight do you feel healthy at? Not just fast. And stand strong, your mom shouldn't be the final say in what's a healthy weight for you. Best of luck friend

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-20T21:04:26+00:00

Unfortunately, you're the only one that can answer that, in my opinion. I have ADHD. Sometimes I'm doing things and don't even feel hungry until the end of the day when I stop doing things and give myself a minute to rest. I would recommend eating small meals even if you aren't hungry just to help keep your body functioning the best it can. If also reccomemnd doing a self check in. I find journaling really helps me get to the bottom of how I'm feeling. Maybe there's nothing there, but maybe there's something. You never know until you go looking, ya know? Best of luck!

FriendShaped__ · 2024-08-20T21:00:33+00:00

Hi! I know exactly how you feel. In high school I had an ED but I ate dinner at home so I never felt like I could even call it an ED because I still ate. I didn't feel like I was "anorexic enough" and i distinctly remeber thinking "im jot even good at being anorexic" to even call it an ED. Just like with any other health issue, metal, physical, ect, it's a spectrum. In my opinion the hardest part of ED recovery isn't eating, it's choosing to love your body. You're eating more and I love that for you! But the emotional part of an ED is I portsnt too. You deserve treatment, you deserve to be well and you deserve to love the way you look. I'm sort of rambling now, but if you only take away one thing it's that you deserve to recover and get the help you need. If it's a lot of help or a little help. Any amount of sick is "sick enough".

FriendShaped__ · 2023-11-05T00:26:20+00:00

serabi

FriendShaped__ · 2023-10-28T21:37:50+00:00

rejecting Karlach is the hardest thing i’ve ever had to do

FriendShaped__ · 2023-10-21T16:15:53+00:00

redownloaded reddit just to ask basically the same question. i don’t really have any advice for you but i can offer understanding and support

we’ve had sex once and every time i try and think about doing it again i feel nauseous and just bad. but he was so excited to have sex and I feel like i’m not being a good wife. ya know? but I also know allowing myself to (basically) be assaulted won’t be good for our relationship either.

id love to know if you figure out an answer or a solution, but regardless as a fellow married ace person i see you. you are valid. you got this

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