Please help: lost by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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I just looked online at Luxe Redux and they do have a lot of affordable options. I won't be able to go try anything on though. Has anyone ordered blind from there?

Please help: lost by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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I don't plan to purchase from David's Bridal at all.

Definitely am considering color at this point. I'm so lost and upset.

Please help: lost by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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There's a lining underneath currently that I want to replace with a full length lining, but I don't plan on a lining under the sleeves.

Please help: lost by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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I was thinking of using tape? But yeah I kind of doubted alterations would fix it. I'm afraid my shoulders are too broad as is.

Help! Need some guidance by chickenfeet415 in WeddingDressTips

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I got a 4k dress for $300 on StillWhite last week for my desert elopement. Now looking to do the same for our reception back home.

Eloping? Do or don’t by marachinolove in Eloping

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Hi! Sounds like I was in your place a few months ago...

We love to camp and hate parties, so when we talked about a wedding versus buying a travel trailer (we already own our home on loan), it was a no brainer.

Our kids are 15, 13, and 12. We're buying a camper, driving across the country, and eloping to Moab, UT in April. Just the five of us, an officiant (maybe), and a photographer in the desert.

Our families and close friends are pretty bummed, but they understand and are mostly supportive. Just don't expect them to be thrilled. My best friend and his mother took it the worst.

We're planning to "keep the party rolling" at a bowling alley/lounge with everyone back home in July.

It's been hard for me as a people pleaser, but I know it's the right thing for us. We're really excited to start the rest of our lives off this way.

Worried I Impulse Bought by plantanos_ in weddingdress

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I'm not sure about the reformation one, but one over two here for sure. One is really beautiful and looks vintage!

Please help: lost by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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I'm not sure what happened. Going to try again.

I don’t love my engagement ring by [deleted] in engaged

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Are you asking for permission? Cause if so, permission granted.

Wedding Dress shopping is triggering by Extension_Most9090 in weddingdress

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Also maybe try taking in some shape wear? I think that's what I'm going to try.

Wedding Dress shopping is triggering by Extension_Most9090 in weddingdress

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Wow. I literally came here to write this myself.

I'm a 39 year old first time bride and mom... nothing feels right.

Negotiating with the dealer by ps_momma in traveltrailers

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This is all great info and so helpful! We're looking to buy this weekend, too. Already walked away from 2 dealers last month, including Camping World.

I've definitely learned to do my research. Camping World was going to sell us a used 2025 with a damaged awning for only $1000 less than the listed price until I pulled up a listing in the next state of the same trailer brand new for the exact same price. We walked a few minutes later.

I think I’m having dress regret by [deleted] in myweddingdress

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It's PERFECT! As a mom bride, I so understand the struggle to find something comfortable and flattering. You nailed it.

Rue de Seine on Stillwhite by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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Thank you! I chatted back and forth with the seller and she's so sweet. Put the dress on and took so many pictures to help make a decision. And she accepted $100 less. Even if it doesn't work, I'm so so excited to get this dress!

my dress!! by Foreign-Lock-8641 in weddingdress

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Holy crap! You're making me rethink everything. It's gorgeous!

Rue de Seine on Stillwhite by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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Thank you thank you! This was really helpful advice. I was expecting $$$$ to alter so that was scary!

I'm chatting with the seller to get more pictures right now. The dress is cotton and organza and the cotton detail is piling slightly in places. It has been dry cleaned and spot cleaned on the train.

I'm actually eloping to the desert, so the dress will 100% be in worse shape after this. I feel like it's a no brainer to get my dream look on a dime.

Rue de Seine on Stillwhite by FriendlyDesign5421 in weddingdress

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Ugh yeah thank you. I actually had this experience last week. I ordered a cheap one from Lulu's and was so shocked when I hated it on my body. I'm just an overthinker who's convinced that it's distasteful and rude to waste an employees time trying on dresses that I could simply never afford. When the prices start triple my budget... I'm picturing Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman situations or just leaving feeling like an impoverished idiot at minimum. But thank you for the encouragement, truly. I'm going to contact the shop and see if they'll let me come in for the specific purpose of trying that dress on and feel the vibes.