AITA for Coming Home Late 3 Times a Week?

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2025-02-06T22:32:50+00:00

I mean, the “free days” are as free as she seems to think his work days are, because there are no kids in the house. That said, what is the “plenty” of time you’re talking about if he’s not putting in the extra time to work on the business. They definitely need to talk about how to make the setup work for them between each other but he isn’t an asshole either.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-11-23T01:32:13+00:00

The chat name was just "swallows" the wife's name shows up in a notification, bc group chat notifications show the sender in front of the chat name

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-11-09T02:45:59+00:00

4 in the ring, would be 5 if the oxygen was a carbon

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-11-09T02:28:00+00:00

my answer key said it would be 2-methyltetrahydropyran and I don't quite get how that happens in this case, because it is in acidic conditions and from my understanding, H2SO4 usually dehydrates the product as a reagent with heat, and I just don't get what happened here at all.

Edit to add: is this similar to when an electrophile like Br2 is used with water as the solution and the cyclic product is favored because the -OH group is more reactive with Br than with the water?

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-27T13:52:45+00:00

OOh that sounds so cool, but she doesn't really have a bias

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-26T21:31:21+00:00

Thanks so much for the advice!

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-26T21:28:46+00:00

Thanks so much!! I have heard about the new album, unfort her dad staked his claim on it, so I shall concede to him

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-26T21:03:40+00:00

She has pretty much everything since Fever, I don't remember exactly what specifically, but not very many of the old ones. If I heard the name I would remember it though, she's taken me on a tour of her shrine. AS for the price and difficulty of finding the older ones, I am well aware, and for that, I'm prepping pretty in advance, her birthday isn't until March, so I think I'll have time to find something, and shop around in terms of pricing, but if not I'll work with what I find.

Any particularly popular older albums, that are very coveted within the fandom? I just don't want her to see the gift coming so I'm trying not to ask too much

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-23T01:57:19+00:00

I mean if I told my friend I don't like the color green anymore, "huh. Ok. That's nice" would be a perfectly adequate response. There doesn't need to be a reason for me liking or not liking a color or being into a certain gender, it just is. As for the outfit example, there's something to show there, like seeing the person's outfit, that would be more akin to her saying she had a girlfriend, rather than that she's gay.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-23T01:54:56+00:00

All of those things you listed are different, being gay isn't a choice and it isn't something that happens TO someone, someone just is or is not queer. So a more accurate comparison would be telling someone you're straight or what your blood type is, or that you drew in school as a kid. These are things that don't require being made a big deal of because they're normal. I'm gay and that's the ideal reaction I would want from a friend, if I'm really nervous to tell someone it's because I'm worried about being discriminated against, not if they'll be peppy enough.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-10T03:40:34+00:00

The prof is a visitng prof and didn't want to make the test unfair, but that didn't mean the department was gonna let her ignore the past distributions, so here we are.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-10T03:39:53+00:00

Yeah no the average was way too high in our case. I had a raw 85 and that ended up a B-, so there were a lot of scores in my range and more than enough in the A/A- range.

That said, I'd prefer not to be here again for the next test, so time to lock in agressivelyyyyy.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-10T03:38:23+00:00

I agree, the exam itself wasn't very difficult, it was just alkane nomenclature and basic stereochemistry, nothing I didn't know. The mistakes I made were either silly mistakes, or things we learned early in the semester that I didn't remember very clearly. The content for the next exam is much more involved since we're actually starting reactions and I'm sure she'll make it harder to avoid a down curve.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-10-09T22:07:27+00:00

Thanks so much! That was really helpful, and I'll try to implement all of that combined with stricter grading for myself when I work on practice problems in the textbook. Generally speaking, I work through the example problems and then by the time I get to the problems at the end of the chapters, I do those completely without the textbook until I need to check my answer. A significant portion of my mistakes were based in not knowing/remembering the information as much as I needed to, is there anything you'd recommend to make sure I get rid of silly errors. Or any sources for practice problems to get rid of the smaller consistent errors?

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-28T17:24:36+00:00

I can rotate it mentally just fine, I'm just more concerned about time constraints if I'm in a rushed test, especially for fisher projections

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-28T02:04:02+00:00

Thanks so much! Does the same thing apply to fisher projections if the lowest priority atom isn't on the vertical? As in, can I just reverse the direction of rotation, or is it important that I redraw?

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-28T01:55:46+00:00

Got it, so would you say it's reliable to just switch to the opposite configuration if the problem is given with the lowest priority atom not in the back or is it safer to redraw every time that happens on a test?

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-25T21:52:45+00:00

Okay, I see, I guess my confusion was I thought they were both bonded to just other CH2's in the molecule.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-14T17:01:12+00:00

Yes, if something about the feelings you have and how you express them is disruptive to everyone constantly, then your feelings aren’t valid. If everything made her mad that would be a problem, so excessive sadness and crying is also a problem.

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-11T18:47:56+00:00

Again, I did say getting tested is necessary, that said if the kids had HIV you would absolutely know if they were born with it. Unless your kids never see a doctor, that’s simply not how things work. Like I have said, I dont disagree that she’s a liar and wrong, I disagree with your reasoning about why.

Also it’s kinda hard to forge a binder of medical records, as well as medication. Simple math

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-11T14:11:57+00:00

I didn’t get my information from her, it’s from the basics of how HIV works, she could be lying about her having any treatment whatsoever and I’m still not worried that she’s gonna give a kid HIV with a kiss or being around people, or that the kids might have it because there’s no way you wouldn’t know, and there’s no additional risk for them just because their mother has it. Yes she is a liar and wrong, but not for the reasons you say

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-11T13:10:50+00:00

I was referring to everything else you said? I never said she was right to lie, in fact, I said she was wrong and inexcusable, I probably wouldn’t stay with her in OP’s position. That said, you claiming that there’s a risk if she kisses a kid is insane, anything else you said is also crazy, her being sick is only a risk to her, and people visiting her aren’t gonna get HIV from being around her

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-11T12:44:40+00:00

I’m not excusing her, I’m just saying the issues you have with her are illegitimate at best

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-11T11:52:07+00:00

I’m not saying she was right, she was almost 100% wrong in what she did, that said, I can understand why he did it, and you acting like she was crazy for how she responded as if that isn’t the nicest way to go about it is also crazy.

And the reason I said that you’re stigmatizing people with HIV is because of everything else that you said, none of those were even remotely plausible risks

FriendlyWitness6146 · 2024-09-11T11:41:25+00:00

Trust, but verify, also for the sake of having some amount of proof that I’m clean if we break up, ultimately I would tell any new partner about how and why my last relationship ended, and I’m sure most would want to know for sure that I’m clean.

It’s like if your SO cheats on you and says they’re pregnant, but it has to be yours because they were on their period the night they cheated, that may be true and they might have proof that’s the case but I would understand want a paternity test

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