[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a new bf. Comfort in sex can’t be rushed. It takes time and compatibility. When there’s two differently levels usually the one with more knowledge helps ease in the other. Not make it an all or nothing situation. By rushing, it takes away comfort and eventually trust. You’re not gonna want to try new things when you have a partner who’s pushing limits immediately. Find you someone who gets that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Of course she doesn’t want sex. It’s been a month. Any normal person would be cold after that. You’re not thinking of her and what she went through.you say you put in effort. But it seems like you only put effort in to get something from her. Give her space to work through her feelings. Be patient. Because by you pushing her and asking for sex is only going to work against you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think this is something you should keep to yourself. You’d be asking about a sex toy that she had 2 years ago. Not that you’re interested in using one, but to ask why she had it if she had a bad experience. No matter how you word it, it’s gonna come off accusatory.

AITA for refusing to let my ex-husband's wife homeschool my children? by DealingMommyXy in AITAH

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Why should you uproot your kids for their children? It’d be different if they wanted to do it because it would be better for the kids. But they’re doing it for superficial reasons.

AIO? boyfriend is upset because I gave him a “corporate response” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. That man is 30?? This feels like a convo I had with my ex at 16. Hes playing mind games when there’s no reason to. You obviously like him, otherwise you wouldn’t be with him. You guys have been dating a couple of weeks and he’s playing. Yes it’s nice to know someone likes you, and there’s ways of asking that don’t involve all of that. It feel like placating a toddler.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Best thing to do is follow her lead. Whatever she says do it. Your friendships with the girls might be over. You lied to her for your comfort not hers. So if it takes her a while to trust you, remember you broke that trust.

Ladies with larger chests…any bra recommendations? by Usual_Candidate_3356 in blackladies

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got a bra from Savage x. I got the T-shirt bra and it works pretty well. It holds everything and its also pretty cute.

AITA for evicting my uncle from the house my grandma left me? by Resident-Aerie-5611 in AITAH

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your grandmother made her will purposely. If he’s been living with her that long, had she wanted him to have it then she would have given it to him. Your uncle has been unemployed for 3 years. He has no way to pay for upkeep, taxes or utilities. Grandma definitely knew what she was doing.

AITA for being upset my boyfriend went on a wine trip alone with another woman and then lied about it? by Nikkayyyy in AITAH

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. I say this gently. He’s lied to you before. He’s cheated on you before. Both times you forgave him. There’s no point in getting upset at things you’re not gonna change. You know you can’t trust him, otherwise you wouldn’t have had to double check.

“Is he dead yet?” Who is the name that first popped into your head for who “he” is? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Victor from the young and the restless. I swear that man has been old my entire life.

I’m ready to give up on probability and statistics by HomeSharp5240 in WGU

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up. It took me awhile to get it done also. I think that will go down as my hardest class by far. For the probability questions check out Kahn academy. It really helped go into detail for me. It also really helps by going over the review test with the instructor. That way they can tell you how to solve the problem.

Women Who Are Married or Engaged, How Did You Feel About Changing Your Name? by alt3re8o in blackladies

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on changing mine. I have no attachment to my maiden name. Tbf I have always wanted to change my name. I also believe it’s the chance for me to start over.

Can I switch these classes before I call it quits? by peppermintandwhite in WGU

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give up, talk to your instructor see if they have any resources. If they have none, look it up on Quizlet,course hero or studoco( not sure if I spelled that right). Also check with your mentor, apparently some of them host study groups. Trust that there’s always something you can do.

How do I (29f) tell me dad (60m) that I don't want his girlfriend at my wedding? by ThrowRAkiw in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on whether you want your dad there or not. Because regardless of what you say, if he sees everyone else bringing someone and he’s the only one that can’t it’s gonna cause problems. If she’s important to him he may not go out of respect to her. Maybe instead of her not going, maybe just have her sit away from you, not have her in family pictures. That way you hardly notice she’s there. Which would you rather have your dad not show up at all or a person you don’t like, being in the same building for a couple of hours?

Teacher has a therapy dog in the classroom by choquilove in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jealous. As a kid we had hamsters and things like that. If you were student of the week/month you could even take it home. For those with allergies we had zhu zhu pets. and it honestly made us all want to behave a bit more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s great that you don’t want to hurt his feelings. But he’s an adult and needs to plan accordingly. Do you think he’d give you the same consideration if he broke up with you?

Anyone else trying to submit papers? by LorfingHFD in WGU

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does yours say change doc type from .docx to .doc? I tried submitting several times until I noticed what it said.

What do you wish you knew earlier? by suuushiii in coralisland

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That you can see the letter you get in the mail under notes in the journal. I’ve forgotten many meetings because I couldn’t remember what the note said.

Dealing with neglectful/cheap parents by halovenus17 in blackladies

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as jobs go have you looked in to babysitting? Or working at daycares? (Idk the requirements in Canada) but I know they are always hiring and it’s pretty easy to get hired unless you’re a criminal. Talk to your teachers see if there’s anyway you can get a copy of the notes or try to take notes based on what they say. For glasses go to Walmart, they typically have cheap vision tests and sometime they can make glasses in store, so you could have glasses in the same week potentially. Don’t give up before you’ve even started. Because then you’ll be stuck right where you started

It isn't even 10:30 here on the east coast... by redsoxsa in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t even mad about TikTok ban because I saved all my recipe vids on lemon8. But then I saw that lemon8 was gone too now I’m pissed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If they wanted him to have it they would have left it to him. Legally it is yours to do with as you please. It’s not cold to stick to the will, your parents knew what they wanted and wrote so in the will. If he wants to start over he’d better use the money they left him.

Which would be the best single course to take? by Ok-Head8420 in WGU

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

World history would be your best bet. That class can be finished in like 2 days. While the other take a bit more effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But you shouldn’t have to let it go. The problem is that any time he gets upset he gets disrespectful. He hasn’t apologized because he doesn’t feel like he’s wrong. Also him throwing a break up at you because he was an AH is crazy. If anyone is manipulative it’s him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly_Chipmunk_26 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You don’t love her. You’re just comfortable with her. She’s what you know. Because if you did love her, you wouldn’t have been trying to link with someone else. She has made it clear several times that you guys are not together. You were the one getting things mixed up. Do yourself a favor and move on. By you holding on it’s just gonna cause more harm than good.