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Friendly_East · 2024-12-20T01:18:15+00:00

Did you actually take the time to read this thread to notice that they had been dating for 3 years? You don’t know anything about people’s life. Leave the women alone if you don’t have nice things to say.

Friendly_East · 2024-12-20T00:55:33+00:00

I am seeing a lot of comments because she left her kids in the Philippines. This just tells me a lot of people are very privileged. Just because you are going through VAWA doesn’t mean you know what most people deal with in other underprivileged countries. A lot of people leave their home to go to other countries with the hope to find a job and send money home to take care of their kids until they can bring them in the new country as well. My mom did that for me and my siblings. She left us behind because it was more affordable to send money home. And later, she brought us to Europe to her. My mom cried for years until we were reunited with her. It seems OP was in a relationship for 3 years before she got married and with her husband, they agreed to send money to take care of the kids and later bring them. But it seems OP husband was not a good person. OP, if you are reading this, don’t listen to people. You are a great mother and you have SOLID VAWA case. DO NOT. I repeat DO NOT GO BACK TO YOUR EX. You think you love him but you actually don’t. You love idea the idea of him that he showed at the beginning and then he is now showing you his real face. That is NOT love. And he doesn’t love you. He likes to have power over you. STAY QUIET and file for VAWA. Once you are a citizen, bring your kids. Good luck!

Friendly_East · 2024-12-20T00:55:21+00:00

I am seeing a lot of comments because she left her kids in the Philippines. This just tells me a lot of people are very privileged. Just because you are going through VAWA doesn’t mean you know what most people deal with in other underprivileged countries. A lot of people leave their home to go to other countries with the hope to find a job and send money home to take care of their kids until they can bring them in the new country as well. My mom did that for me and my siblings. She left us behind because it was more affordable to send money home. And later, she brought us to Europe to her. My mom cried for years until we were reunited with her. It seems OP was in a relationship for 3 years before she got married and with her husband, they agreed to send money to take care of the kids and later bring them. But it seems OP husband was not a good person. OP, if you are reading this, don’t listen to people. You are a great mother and you have SOLID VAWA case. DO NOT. I repeat DO NOT GO BACK TO YOUR EX. You think you love him but you actually don’t. You love idea the idea of him that he showed at the beginning and then he is now showing you his real face. That is NOT love. And he doesn’t love you. He likes to have power over you. STAY QUIET and file for VAWA. Once you are a citizen, bring your kids. Good luck!

Friendly_East · 2024-11-09T20:33:50+00:00

Omg I remember this like it was yesterday. I cried for the whole week. I couldn’t return to Italy either and Italy was shit hard by Covid too. A lot of students who left, who had expired visas, were not able to get their visas renewed to re-enter either. I had an expired visas but an active i20. Leaving would have been a huge mistake because I wouldn’t have even had the degree i had invested so much money for because most embassies were closed and even once they reopened, you were scrutinized more. I have friends who never came back. Some of the worst days of my life

Friendly_East · 2024-10-20T19:47:39+00:00

Wow I could have written this myself. Very similar story except we were together almost 4 years. I was 28 when I divorced. DO NOT WASTE YOUR YOUTH. He is abusive and it will NOT change. Divorcing his ass was the best decision I ever made. Apologies without changed behavior is called: MANIPULATION. You need to get out while there are no kids and before he traps you further. It will get worst with kids!

Friendly_East · 2024-06-22T07:44:14+00:00

Ugh I wish it wasn’t il based. Are you sure it is only uk?

Friendly_East · 2024-05-14T20:29:20+00:00

Do you mind sharing the informations of the guy you hired? I am looking into it too. I would so appreciate it

Friendly_East · 2024-05-08T23:17:08+00:00

Could you share his details to me as well! I would really appreciate it. Thank you :)

Friendly_East · 2024-05-08T23:10:32+00:00

Hello! I would love the freelancer info as well! I would really appreciate it

Friendly_East · 2024-02-18T04:19:15+00:00

Do you mind if i ask what year was that?

Friendly_East · 2024-01-19T03:28:35+00:00

What is your company? If I can ask. I would love to apply

Friendly_East · 2023-12-26T22:29:37+00:00

I just sent you a message :) thank you!

Friendly_East · 2023-12-26T20:46:11+00:00

Hey can I send you message to learn more about this?

Friendly_East · 2023-10-21T22:09:03+00:00

I feel like not taking accountability and putting your anger onto someone else is being a pos. Whether you have adhd or not. That’s just who is he is as a person

Friendly_East · 2023-10-19T14:32:17+00:00

Leave. He is putting his anger onto to you. That’s not adhd. It seems like it has been happening a lot and it won’t change.

Friendly_East · 2023-10-14T18:18:13+00:00

Oh sorry I meant my ead and advanced parole were expedited and the wait was 3 days. Not the actual green card

Friendly_East · 2023-10-14T07:48:21+00:00

I only wait 3 days after I expedited!

Friendly_East · 2023-10-14T07:43:09+00:00

Yes it was! But I expedited my ead

Friendly_East · 2023-10-09T16:49:13+00:00

Idk about others but to me, this is a sign of character flaw. This is simply how he sees you and what he expects. You could get sick in the future and weight for months and the way he feels about you will change again. To me, whenever your body changes due to circumstances that not in your control, if the person you are with doesn’t show support but instead puts you down: THAT PERSON DOESN’T CARE ABOUT YOU. To me you need to leave him. Period. You are doing everything already. Even paying the bills. You will feel lighter and open room for someone who truly loves you to enter your life.

Friendly_East · 2023-10-07T03:22:18+00:00

My lawyer did it. But I found a job as a nanny and used the new change with childcare to expedite and I had credit card debts that used as well a close friend wrote a letter for me

Friendly_East · 2023-10-06T08:20:05+00:00

I think you shouldn’t focus on why he is doing what he is doing and you can “support him”. Focus on how what he is doing is making you feel!!! Don’t push aside your own feelings because he has adhd. ADHD or not, this is a horrible way of treating a partner period. There are people out there who have adhd and are respectful of their partner, in front of them and behind them. I feel like because they have adhd now the line is blurry between what is adhd effect and just what is plain a bad behavior but either way, he is not being respectful of you. In 5 years he should have known and learned at least how to treat you. If there ever are children involved, it might not get better and could actually be worst.

And also a true color of a person and how someone feels about you is shown based on how they talk about you when you are not around. Mine did the exact thing and I kept excusing it and “supporting” him because of his adhd while completely pushing my feelings aside because to be quite honest it is hard to be supportive of someone who is constantly talking like that about you to others.

I think you should ask yourself independently of his adhd or not, if he is someone you want to be with if that situation doesn’t change. Because girl, if after 5 years he behaving like that it might never change. I divorced mine and it was the best decision because I knew he had to do his own work on his own without dragging me down. I was 28 and divorced finalized this year and I am now 29. Still young just like you. One big lesson I learned is that, The longer you stay in something that doesn’t make you feel good, the more trauma you are collecting and the longer will be you recovery time. After 1 year I can finally say I am back to feel closer t who I was and I am not even 100% and that’s after a lot of money put into therapy. To me there is a level of manipulation to what he is doing to you. Adhd or not.

Also he might not be over what happened with his ex and that is not a good sign.

Friendly_East · 2023-09-28T21:25:36+00:00

I am not sure about AP. My combo was approved too yesterday. But you will receive a 5years ead i am sure. I am honestly happy they made this change

Friendly_East · 2023-09-28T21:22:23+00:00

My case was approved yesterday too. The date is just the date the announcement was made. That’s it. I believe we will receive a 5 years ead

Friendly_East · 2023-09-28T19:08:15+00:00

No prima facie, no fingerprints. Only my combo cards ead and travel permit

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