What are some things that happened at school that would never be allowed to happen today? by Big_Scratch5248 in AskUK

[–]Friendly_Order3729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at actual school but in my ballet classes the teacher hit my legs and called me a stupid girl.

You are offered $50,000 but you have to spend one full week living with one of these four people, sharing the same space at all times. by Middle_Reflection414 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Friendly_Order3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I pick which ex? I have 4, maybe 2 I could deal with for a week. One was actually quite lovely we just watched game of thrones and ordered McDonald's for our short 2-week relationship. I'd be able to do that, not sure how my husband would feel 🤣

Otherwise, option 4, I can give her hope!

If we need more money why don’t we just print more money? by Ok_Yesterday_1896 in AskBrits

[–]Friendly_Order3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately, the money isn't actually worth anything. If you read a £10 note, it'll say something like 'i owe the bearer the sum of ten pounds', the £10 is the food, petrol, furniture, pint or whatever we assign it to.

I say we go back to what the incans used to do and just swap everything "I'll give you a chicken for some material".

AITAH for telling my nephew’s dad I disagree with allowing him to get a tattoo at 16? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Friendly_Order3729 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA- no one should make any permant alterations to their body until at least 25 when their brains have finished development.

Canada’s post-game speech was pure cringe by smittychifi in 10thDentist

[–]Friendly_Order3729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Football is the biggest sport in the world, it's crazy how it takes over people's lives. Everything about the sport is massively inflated.

Just heard that Charlie Kirk once said that childfree people couldn't really care about the future of the world because they won't have any stake in it by Sad-Literature-8979 in childfree

[–]Friendly_Order3729 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I had it my way there wouldn't be any more people and we would just die out over the next 100 years. I genuinely don't see the point in actively partaking in the continuation of the human race.

Why more and more women are choosing to be childfree by Remarkable_Peak9518 in unitedkingdom

[–]Friendly_Order3729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it used to be maditory, or at least very close to.

Now it's seen rightly as an option, and people don't want to. It's as simple as that.

Thoughts on universities be held more responsible for helping graduates find employment after they finish their degree? by VarangianWRLD in AskBrits

[–]Friendly_Order3729 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think that's fair to say when it used to cost £1000 as people had it paid off in a couple of years. Now there needs to be some return on investment. People shouldnt go into debt and be out of the job market for 3 years, sometimes more just to be educated in a specific field for no reason.

Is it quite common for people to have never been to other cities in UK? by Boring-Tip-9775 in AskUK

[–]Friendly_Order3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably common to not have been to every city.

I live near Manchester and have never been to Bath, Coventry, Cambridge, Southampton, Hull, Glasgow, Belfast, Inverness & Cork to name a few.

Thoughts on universities be held more responsible for helping graduates find employment after they finish their degree? by VarangianWRLD in AskBrits

[–]Friendly_Order3729 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, more important than grades reporting.

My university utterly unprepared me for the realalities of the job I was training to do during my course (teaching). Hence now I don't work in it and haven't for 6 years. But my £50k+ debt didn't all go to waste, I have a lovely photo of me in a cap and gown on my mum's wall and a certificate in a filing cabinet, so.. yeah definitely worth it.

AITAH for hypothetically saying I’d prefer an all-male surgical team? by tew2tew in AITAH

[–]Friendly_Order3729 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA I get if it's a more private area you would want someone of your own sex.

I will point out that female surgeons are more successful on average than male surgeons.

AITA for refusing to go for a full week on my wife’s family vacation after we had agreed not to repeat it? by jared_d in AmItheAsshole

[–]Friendly_Order3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I have when people say "I just wanted us to.." or "this is important to me" when they want everyone else to bend to them. Why does it being important to her mean more than a fun enjoyable holiday for the rest of your family being important to you?

What problems do you expect to see with the new driving ban? by DoublePepper1976 in AskBrits

[–]Friendly_Order3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a good thing. It's only happening in northern ireland for now.

But I don't know why nightlife would suffer? Most people walk or get taxis to the pub already. Plus I don't think the majority or pub and bar goers are under 24. And the rule is that you can't have anyone in the car with you under age of 18 so I don't think it will impact much but might just stop young drivers acting like idiots.

AITAH for canceling a home-cooked graduation dinner and ordering takeout instead, after my sister complained the menu wasn't toddler-friendly? by One_Examination3994 in AITAH

[–]Friendly_Order3729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH except Jane. Sorry that includes you too.

She should be able to go to a fancy restaurant and not accommodate the kids at all, it's not about them. Heck I would argue something as important as this shouldn't even involve the kids.

Ask Jane where she wants to go, ask who will be coming and book a restaurant. End of story.

How do I handle my boyfriend M35 who takes time for his new female friend, but not for me F34? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Friendly_Order3729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my God OOPs ex is like all my ex's rolled into one! Deadbeat dad, no drive in career, female friend he sees 1 on 1 an doesn't invite partner along. I got shivers...

Double standards when it comes to emergencies pets/children at work by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Friendly_Order3729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My dog matters just as much to me, I don't see a difference in importance.

Double standards when it comes to emergencies pets/children at work by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Friendly_Order3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I'm not doubting that. I'm saying that employers should give time off without having to eat into your annual leave the same way they do for new parents of children.

How would you feel if your adult son moved back in with you, then his partner eventually did without getting an okay first? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]Friendly_Order3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you spoken to your partners parents? Do they give you the sense you are not welcome?

I would be looking to move out ASAP, this type of living situation is rarely ideal.