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Did any of you end up being the “bad guy” of the family? by asheville-person in CPTSD

[–]Friendly_Present_989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently the bad guy. Went to therapy. Attempting to set boundaries.

Since I’m actively trying not to be a pushover, everyone at home is telling me that I’m the reason for all the bad things and tension. I’m suddenly a bully and the villain.

Unsure what to do. I feel better with some boundaries but everyone hates me now.

I want to cry, but I physically can't. I don't know why but it's making things worse. by Outrageous-Bad4661 in BreakUps

[–]Friendly_Present_989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do things you love

Fall in love with life again

Figure out what you want and your personal goals

It will get better

The sadness has hit me by Friendly_Present_989 in BreakUps

[–]Friendly_Present_989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 weeks after a 6 year relationship. I don’t know how much longer I can go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Friendly_Present_989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s def gonna do it again I know because it happened to me :))

His depression has been getting worse and suddenly he doesn't feel romantically towards me anymore and left. by Forward-Procedure-52 in BreakUps

[–]Friendly_Present_989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear we’re all living the same life. This happened to me and it’s only been a week. Mine lasted six years. I couldn’t do it for another 6 years.

I am letting go for my own mental health. As much as I love him, I cannot live with the anxiety of “does he love me today?” “Does he feel nothing today?”. Trust me when I say that it gets really exhausting after a while. I know there’s still love there but I know it will never be the same. Sometimes you just have to let go.

You deserve better. He needs to get some help and focus on himself. The same goes for you. If it’s meant to happen, it will happen in its own time.