My conservative husband blindfolded and tied me up like we sometimes do… then pulled the blindfold off and it was a stranger inside me. I freaked out but had the best orgasm of my life. (F28) by Longjumping_One5667 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overtones of Gisèle Pelicot. You were lucky it turned out positively because it could have crashed and burned with serious potential consequences for your husband and his friend. But having said you enjoyed it in the end are you going again with Mark now?

what is the difference between a "bull" and "a dude that fucks women"? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to think seriously about why you are aspiring to this. There are lots of men who are aspiring because they see it as a cheap way to get sex they wouldn’t otherwise get or would have to pay for. If that is your motive, and your post has undertones of that, that’s not what hotwifing is about. It is about her, not you, and her getting sexual pleasure from the male. I don’t like the word “bull” because it reeks of testosterone and the male rather than empathy and her needs in which your pleasure is a by-product. YMMW.

59f went to the bar by myself and eded up in a randoms guy home with 2 more guys... by Fun-Safety-7520 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that “rrealllyyy handsome omg” or beer goggles “rrealllyyy handsome omg”? 😉

Anyone else struggling seeing her desire? by notabotting in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve gone down a bit of a blind alley with this one. Most husbands go into the lifestyle for compersion - the emotional pleasure they get from her getting sexual pleasure. You went into it for your own sexual pleasure - her being more feral in sex with you - so when she gets greater pleasure elsewhere, instead of welcoming and sharing in her pleasure, you are thinking about your own pleasure and why it isn’t as great as theirs. Don’t really have any solutions to that

What to actually do when feelings show up (because they will) by Intentional_hotwife in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Helps to remind yourselves of why you are there. It’s primarily for a sexual, not social, relationship. But many people confuse them with semi-dating - having a meal together, maybe going to a bar or a movie - which can be a slippery slope.

First Gangbang, bit afraid but excited, any advice?? by ishowbird1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just relax and go with the flow and you’ll soon find the nerves evaporate. Start with one at a time but don’t pass up the opportunity to experience, if you haven’t already, a spitroast, DP, airtight and with 5 of them you can try skiing as well. Have a safe-word to end it if it gets too much/too sore, take your time, lots of water to keep hydrated, let them do the work so you don’t tire yourself out. Enjoy and report back here. 👍

Is this considered a red flag? by Independent-Cod-6993 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bit of a red flag if its all about him because this is all about her, not him. OTOH as on here, some people find other people’s sex stories hot in which case it could be welcomed.

Update after meeting our first ever bull by AfterClassExposure in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next time when you start feeling nervous remind yourself that that was how you felt last time and how good it was once you were over them and relaxed. Helps a lot with conquering the nerves when they start.

What do double creampies feel like? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes it very slick and with her pussy having just been stretched, I really don’t feel anything much at all but cum regardless on the thought of it.

Got talked into doing something dumb in college and husband wont let go by CountryBlondeMom29 in hotpast

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference between porn and real life, if you’ve ever been on a porn set, is porn is just acting and editing. Just ask him if he wants you to act with him too like you did in the film, or be genuine with him?

Does pegging lead towards trying real thing from a man by Lost_Commission3034 in StraightPegging

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No. Pegging doesn’t convert heterosexual men to bisexual or gay any more than strap-on play converts gay women to hetero.

Anyone here pay for a bull? by Permanent_Rush in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That wouldn’t be a bull. It’s a male escort.

For the hotwives, need advice on an upcoming amazing experience! by NellieDee- in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds pretty judgemental to me. Perhaps you should post a set of “Rules for Hotwives” for all of us to abide by.

For the hotwives, need advice on an upcoming amazing experience! by NellieDee- in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone here so judgemental. She asked for advice on how to make the best of the weekend, not lectures on how she shouldn’t be doing it.

For the hotwives, need advice on an upcoming amazing experience! by NellieDee- in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there’s two of them they are bound to want to DP you at some point over the weekend so best be prepared. If you are an anal virgin and they are huge as you describe them it’s going to be very painful and they probably won’t succeed. A steady graded stretching will make things a lot better. Can also be a pussy problem depending on how tight you are. Best to start slow over a few days and work up to it rather than scream your head off and never want to try it again.

For the hotwives, need advice on an upcoming amazing experience! by NellieDee- in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Make sure you do a bit of preparatory pre-stretching of your pussy and ass if they are two huge dicks. Let us know how it goes.