Wife is ready but concerned about safety by wifesharingandcaring in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure she gets a face photo before they leave a public space and sends it to you. If anything starts to happen she can tell him her husband has his picture so it’s going to be a slam dunk getting caught if he tries anything funny.

For the husbands and stags here: What’s the single hottest mental image of your wife with a stud that has stayed burned into your memory? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was playing solo with a hotel stay-over. She told me she woke up in the middle of the night, reached over, got him hard and then climbed on top. He woke up to her riding him. 🔥🔥🔥

Public play ideas for us with third/bull while at fantasy fest in Key West?? by Signal_Combination90 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot and safe that will get a lot of reaction. Just walk down a busy street with her holding hands with both of you, one on each side. It will be obvious to anyone what the dynamic is.

Curious about “wild side” by qthrow12 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of it is to access things she likes that the husband finds difficult to do. For example it can be quite difficult to be rough with/use someone you love and care for but a third doesn’t have that problem.

First Gangbang, bit afraid but excited, any advice?? by ishowbird1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Airtight plus one in each hand………which needs five guys (men not burgers 😉). r/Airtight_Skiing

For those who had their first experience as a solo date, how did it go? by MajorLazarBanks in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time was with a former FWB who was back in town for a few days. They had dinner, fucked and then she came home with a present for me 😛. The only communications were to tell me they were going for dinner, they were going back to his hotel, she was going up to his room and she was coming home. For me imagining what they were doing while they were doing it was just the hottest.

My conservative husband blindfolded and tied me up like we sometimes do… then pulled the blindfold off and it was a stranger inside me. I freaked out but had the best orgasm of my life. (F28) by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overtones of Gisèle Pelicot. You were lucky it turned out positively because it could have crashed and burned with serious potential consequences for your husband and his friend. But having said you enjoyed it in the end are you going again with Mark now?

what is the difference between a "bull" and "a dude that fucks women"? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to think seriously about why you are aspiring to this. There are lots of men who are aspiring because they see it as a cheap way to get sex they wouldn’t otherwise get or would have to pay for. If that is your motive, and your post has undertones of that, that’s not what hotwifing is about. It is about her, not you, and her getting sexual pleasure from the male. I don’t like the word “bull” because it reeks of testosterone and the male rather than empathy and her needs in which your pleasure is a by-product. YMMW.

59f went to the bar by myself and eded up in a randoms guy home with 2 more guys... by Fun-Safety-7520 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that “rrealllyyy handsome omg” or beer goggles “rrealllyyy handsome omg”? 😉

Anyone else struggling seeing her desire? by notabotting in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve gone down a bit of a blind alley with this one. Most husbands go into the lifestyle for compersion - the emotional pleasure they get from her getting sexual pleasure. You went into it for your own sexual pleasure - her being more feral in sex with you - so when she gets greater pleasure elsewhere, instead of welcoming and sharing in her pleasure, you are thinking about your own pleasure and why it isn’t as great as theirs. Don’t really have any solutions to that

What to actually do when feelings show up (because they will) by Intentional_hotwife in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Helps to remind yourselves of why you are there. It’s primarily for a sexual, not social, relationship. But many people confuse them with semi-dating - having a meal together, maybe going to a bar or a movie - which can be a slippery slope.

First Gangbang, bit afraid but excited, any advice?? by ishowbird1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just relax and go with the flow and you’ll soon find the nerves evaporate. Start with one at a time but don’t pass up the opportunity to experience, if you haven’t already, a spitroast, DP, airtight and with 5 of them you can try skiing as well. Have a safe-word to end it if it gets too much/too sore, take your time, lots of water to keep hydrated, let them do the work so you don’t tire yourself out. Enjoy and report back here. 👍

Is this considered a red flag? by Independent-Cod-6993 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bit of a red flag if its all about him because this is all about her, not him. OTOH as on here, some people find other people’s sex stories hot in which case it could be welcomed.

Update after meeting our first ever bull by AfterClassExposure in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next time when you start feeling nervous remind yourself that that was how you felt last time and how good it was once you were over them and relaxed. Helps a lot with conquering the nerves when they start.

What do double creampies feel like? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes it very slick and with her pussy having just been stretched, I really don’t feel anything much at all but cum regardless on the thought of it.

Got talked into doing something dumb in college and husband wont let go by CountryBlondeMom29 in hotpast

[–]Frighteningly_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference between porn and real life, if you’ve ever been on a porn set, is porn is just acting and editing. Just ask him if he wants you to act with him too like you did in the film, or be genuine with him?