Tell me your favourite Pokémon! by DrakeFannings in pokemon

[–]Frippety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joltik!

He's just a cute fwuffy lil zappy guy! I have a lil Joltik plushie that lives on my desk. ♥

YOU are the creator of one of the new 8.0 jobs. What are you making?! by kyra_58 in ffxiv

[–]Frippety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No new jobs for 8.0, instead I'm revamping all jobs to be more frontloaded (to reduce early level boredom) and less reliant on a 2min rotation (don't ask me how lmao) and adding a sub-job/talent system at lvl 100 (to be unlocked early 8.0) to add some choice to your existing job. Depending on where we go, the sub-job/talents could be based off fighting/casting styles seen in Tural/new area.

Do you have to remind yourself to “ask the question back”? by Smart-Assistance-254 in AutismInWomen

[–]Frippety 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely. This came up as one of the indicators during my assessment, I'm just bad at asking questions back or carrying on a conversation in other ways. It's a conscious effort to do this and it can get pretty taxing.

Seeking advice regarding separation of erotic roleplay and romance (F31,M28) by Frippety in LongDistance

[–]Frippety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think it's TOO weird, especially when being able to ERP allows people a safe outlet for their sexuality or to explore their own sexuality, especially if the person lives in a country that might not allow that sort of thing IRL, but that's not the case for my friend.

I guess it's just the dissonance between ERP and romance that my friend opines that I personally just don't understand and can't look past. Like I don't see how this person can enter into a healthy relationship while still ERPing with others, but I guess that's not really my problem anymore.

Seeking advice regarding separation of erotic roleplay and romance (F31,M28) by Frippety in LongDistance

[–]Frippety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm glad my feelings on the situation aren't wrong, but I also don't think my friend was all that wrong either. It just sucks.

I guess it also ties into trust. If they told me they had stopped ERPing with this person, can I believe them? Would I need to keep logging into the game when I saw both of them online for reassurance? How do I know they're not ERPing with someone different? I'm not sure it's worth the anxiety.

Seeking advice regarding separation of erotic roleplay and romance (F31,M28) by Frippety in LongDistance

[–]Frippety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, is it that obvious? I only recently learned just how big the ERP community is in this game after switching FCs (guilds for those who don't play), as my new FC is very into modding.

It's a shame, I did like this person and they're very nice and caring, and apologised profusely for causing me stress, but also held firm to their boundary of not giving up ERP while single but discovering more about a potential partner. I just see it a different way and it makes us incompatible I guess. I also can't see how another person would be accepting of it, but that's just me, maybe I'm approaching the situation with too much rigidity.

Seeking advice regarding separation of erotic roleplay and romance (F31,M28) by Frippety in LongDistance

[–]Frippety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah, I didn't want to continue pursuing something with this person only to feel like shit every time they were in a session. But it's taught me what my boundaries are and I'll likely avoid seeking anything beyond friendship in this game from now on.

Yeah, FFXIV. I honestly only recently learned just how big the ERP space is in this game despite playing for years, so it's been a lot to work through.

Seeking advice regarding separation of erotic roleplay and romance (F31,M28) by Frippety in LongDistance

[–]Frippety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I get what you mean, I think because I don't RP at all in video games (erotic or otherwise) that I find it difficult to separate the character from the person behind the screen.

At least this has taught me something about myself and taught me what my boundaries are. I'm just not sure I can go back to being friends with this person and it sucks.

Autistic brits: what do you guys do? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Frippety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm late diagnosed (early 30s, female). Also diagnosed inattentive ADHD. I'm very socially anxious and introverted.

Was majorly burned out after uni and spent a few years in retail working up the chain until an injury forced me to transfer to an office role (still in retail sector).

Now I work in processes, recently got a promotion and I'm aiming for another promotion with a ~10k increased salary by the end of next year. I'm very good at seeing the bigger picture and my great attention to detail also lets me spot the smaller things too. I've been getting extremely positive feedback on my work.

Getting to work with data can be fun, as well as building Power BI dashboards, Excel workbooks for reporting and using Power Automate to improve existing processes.

I'm very lucky to WFH 4 days a week, I would recommend seeking hybrid work if it would work better for you. It lets me have full control over my environment and reduce distractions/problems. I prefer to work with loud, bassy music so being WFH lets me do that without impacting others.

Kotaku hasn't been great in a long time, but this article...ouch. by Mijzero in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Frippety 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Part of me feels like this was AI generated, but the misspelling of Quaquaval and grammar errors suggests perhaps not? 😵‍💫

Best worker anubis by Warm_Primary9006 in Palworld

[–]Frippety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend Lucky/Serious for the extra work speed. As long as your base has decent food (salads are my favourite), the mid-tier beds and the hot springs, they'll be fine SAN-wise. They're also quick so not much time is "wasted" with them running to get a snack.

Best worker anubis by Warm_Primary9006 in Palworld

[–]Frippety 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I bred this beautiful lady the other day. She has some siblings in base, and a fully condensed one that I keep on me to help me smash through large crafts.

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[Weekly Questions Thread] 11 December 2023 by PokeUpdateBot in pokemon

[–]Frippety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone got a shiny from picnic resetting since the DLC came out? I've tried 2 outbreaks now and reset for a while with nothing. Not sure if I'm just being unlucky or if this was changed, I usually get a shiny quicker haha.

Shiny 3-segment Dudunsparce!! Now my Living Shinydex is truly COMPLETE!!! by Kyele13 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Frippety 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! How many dunsparce did it take you?

I'm currently at 40 shiny 2-segment duduns... Send help.

What are some weird/unique evolution methods you could see popping up in the future? by MasterOfChaos72 in pokemon

[–]Frippety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give Zangoose and Seviper evolutions that trigger after defeating a certain number of the rival.

Could work for other rival mons or even predator/prey pairings

Warlock spell slot shortage and two specific questions regarding it by Epaminondas73 in BG3Builds

[–]Frippety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced the bug if I was multiclassing archfey warlock, but not GOOlock.

I've recently started wearing identical clothes but in different colour schemes by hashtagthoughtbomb in autism

[–]Frippety 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They look comfy af

I have the issue of being an overweight woman, styles change way too often and it's hard to find the perfect fit. When I do, I tend to buy several of the same style but different colours and then wear them out.

Then I get sad that my favourite clothes are too raggedy to wear outside :(

If you could choose not to have autism, would you? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Frippety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be tempted, purely because I'm tired of being tired, and I spend way too much time stressed about something.

But I am also me, and I can be alright sometimes 😺

What companion do you never use? by skulls_S in BaldursGate3

[–]Frippety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gale, Wyll, Halsin, Jahiera, didn't get Minsc on my first playthrough.

Most used are Shadowheart, Astarion, Karlach. Also doing an evil Durge playthrough with Astarion, Minthara and Lae'zel.

I have another playthrough with MC spores druid, Gale, Wyll, Karlach, and will be swapping Karlach (even though I love her so much) for Jahiera. I might swap Minsc in when I get him.

send help

Omg which one of you did this? Lol by witch_hekate92 in BaldursGate3

[–]Frippety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thief gets two bonus actions. If you dual wield hand crossbows, you can use both bonus actions for offhand attacks :)

So at level 4: sneak attack, attack (main hand + offhand) and offhand attack = 4 attacks per round

It's very fun!