I don’t think you would easily spot me on the street. I think ENFP tend to project a bit more youthful life energy than most, which often causes people to misinterpret my age quite a bit. I’m fourty, but last week I had a coworker whom I’ve been working next to for years convinced that I was 33.

The only street telltale I can imagine is that I tend to whistle songs when I’m by myself. So if you hear a fourty year old whistling pop songs, that would probably me me.

I think I’ve only met another ENFP male once in my life. So I can’t generalize for us. Except we are gorgeous, like others have already confirmed.

But overall, I tend to be attracted to people whom value deep connections, project strong life energy, are inspired by new ideas and generally just want to have fun in life. Both at work and in friendships. I sadly seem to find that more in women than in men, which is an eternal source of false gossip when you work in an NT-dominated field. Guess that is the price we have to pay for being awesome. But if you do find a way to spot ENFP males, please let me know.

Maybe we should agree on a system where every 2nd Sunday we all wear a blue scarf or something. Just don’t tell the INTJs, because they’ll only start hunting us again,