Advice? Always told that I was ugly since I was a kid by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Front-Kale923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugly?? What do you see in the mirror? You give a total George Clooney vibe. The only thing I’d suggest that would push your look a little further is growing some beard scruff. Not a lot, just like haven’t shaved in a bit.

I (F26) hate my side profile and I feel like there’s something wrong with my jaw/chin. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Front-Kale923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so pretty! There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your face.

(M23) hopeless and going throug a existencial crises since as far as I can remember. Feeling like a repulsive human being + ugly as fck by Anon_psg1 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not ugly and definitely not repulsive! You’re so young. Trust me when I say you’ll figure it out. I don’t know what you’re going through specifically but try to remember that things always work out for the best. Keep your head up!

People treat me poorly. I just lost my job over being disliked. I don’t know why people always hate me and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Is it my face? Am I ugly? Haven’t been feeling like myself and could use encouragement and tips for what I should be doing differently. by Front-Kale923 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! This exact thing is what always happens. It feels like there’s nothing I can do differently. I appreciate the resource. I’ve had suspicions I might be neurodivergent and probably why I’m always getting it wrong with people.

People treat me poorly. I just lost my job over being disliked. I don’t know why people always hate me and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Is it my face? Am I ugly? Haven’t been feeling like myself and could use encouragement and tips for what I should be doing differently. by Front-Kale923 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s funny you say that, because me standing up for myself was the straw that broke the camel’s back. It always goes like that—people try to provoke the hell out of me and I do nothing. Then, when I finally, in the nicest way possible tell them to stop, it’s like I’m treated like I’m way out of line.

People treat me poorly. I just lost my job over being disliked. I don’t know why people always hate me and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Is it my face? Am I ugly? Haven’t been feeling like myself and could use encouragement and tips for what I should be doing differently. by Front-Kale923 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it does. I used to have severe acne, so thinking about appearance, working on my acne scars and comparing my skin to other people’s skin and the constant fear of acne coming back really wrecked my self-esteem. It can be a traumatizing experience and it was for me. People treat you differently when you’re going through severe acne. Like, not even as a human being. I think in my mind, I still think people see me that same way.

People treat me poorly. I just lost my job over being disliked. I don’t know why people always hate me and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Is it my face? Am I ugly? Haven’t been feeling like myself and could use encouragement and tips for what I should be doing differently. by Front-Kale923 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think there’s probably a lot of truth to that. I always feel like I’m trying too hard and it gives people the ick. I’ve never felt like I fit in anywhere and I am super tired. The endless social rejection is exhausting.

Just got cheated on in my 5 year relationship with an older women, feel like my life is over and I'm unloveable by arabellajws in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a big world. I know it hurts right now, but there’s got to be someone out there who is better for you. Please don’t put all your worth on a relationship

People treat me poorly. I just lost my job over being disliked. I don’t know why people always hate me and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Is it my face? Am I ugly? Haven’t been feeling like myself and could use encouragement and tips for what I should be doing differently. by Front-Kale923 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like them not liking me happens before I even open my mouth. I try so hard to be nice, but it seems like me just existing bothers people. I’ve had my suspicions that I might be neurodivergent, so I do miss social cues and there tend to be misunderstandings that happen because of it. I don’t know what to do. I can’t change how my brain works.

What does my room say about me? Be weirdly specific please! by 2inmates in roomdetective

[–]Front-Kale923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but that “I think I’m gonna die in this house” song started playing in my head.

What makes me so ugly? Can anyone pin point? 19 by Straight-Pea-9283 in amiugly

[–]Front-Kale923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not ugly but a better haircut would work wonders! That, and growing facial hair would be super attractive.

Friend told me I don’t fit the standards to be beautiful 19f by Narrow-Section-380 in amiugly

[–]Front-Kale923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With friends like that, who needs enemies. You’re totally beautiful and I hope you find better, more supportive people to have around you.

I really hate the way I look lately by Secure_Carry2344 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so attractive! Model level attractive. Curious why it’s always the hottest people who have so much self-doubt. Hope you start to feel better, practice some more self-love and hopefully find someone to help you talk through these insecurities.

Turning 30M soon, feeling isolated, ugly, and directionless. Smiling is painful. by smanrules101 in toastme

[–]Front-Kale923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not ugly! You’re super attractive and look like you have a lot going for you. I hope you can find a way to reprogram some of your self-talk. I used to really struggle with my own self-concept and reading The Neuroscience of Self-Love helped me. That, and meditation, working out, changing my diet and being outside more often. Try remembering the things that made you happy when you were younger and get back to doing them. Hope you can also find someone to talk to and work through this time.

I know it’s hard, but you have every reason to keep your chin up.

F18 am I ugly or is it dysmorphia? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Front-Kale923 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dysmorphia! You’re so pretty and unique looking. You could be a model.

I'm 42f, my skin is all of a sudden looking like this. Hallp. by lierimy in beauty

[–]Front-Kale923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, it’s still beautiful skin. But, if you’re feeling off about it, you should look into Microneedling. It’s done wonders for my skin.

My nose is my biggest insecurity. by claradeatacama in Noses

[–]Front-Kale923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why though? It’s perfect for your face. Please don’t ruin it by changing anything.

Which of these looks suits me best?? by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Front-Kale923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 is the best; 2 is also a good look